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bachelor parties?
I've never done one before, I've only been dancing three months.
Any advice on these things? My club sends transport, security, etc. then one of the girls that is going tells me "ask xgirl to give you a crash course in them, there's going to be like 75 guys there - it's exhausting!" :o
xgirl, when I finally got a chance to talk to her, says "they're real simple, I'll explain on the way." :P
So, any actual advice from anyone here? I suppose ordinances and such are different wherever you go, but was wondering.
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thats awesome that your club sends girls to do bachelor parties!! There is good money to make there. PM me if you want any advice.. I have done one or two.
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I have done scores of bachelor parties. I have a lot of set up and tear down involved. This is going to be a pretty long post, but here is my basic routine:
before the show:
*have props such as whipped cream or bubble bath or paint to smear all over yourself and the guys
*have an opaque container for tips (I like a paper shopping bag) and make sure the bouncer keeps an eye on your money. The guys have tried recycling on me before.
*Towels, costumes, makeup etc. and baby wipes. Also kleenex because many single guys don't have TP in their bathrooms :o
*Plastic tarp ($1 at Wal Mart) to protect the customers floor from messes
At the show:
*Have the MC set up for music, lights.
*MC announces the rules for the guys
*a Hot Seat chair for the bachelor- if two girls, this is like a two girl lap dance. topless at the end of the first song, nude at the end of the second song. Then start doing dollar dances for the guests at the party. They may need some training on tipping so use the bachelor as an example of how they can get more contact for tips. Lots of tittie tips, tips w/mouth etc.l
Continue dollar dances for about 15 more minutes (about half an hour into the show)
Then take a 3-4 minute break to get some water, and put tarp down on floor. Then break out the whipped cream, ect. It is fun to put whipped cream all over yourself then hug the guys, or smear some on their faces with your boobs ect. Be creative in finding ways to really get them messy. This will get them giving you money to "go get him all covered with whipped cream". Continue until the whipped cream runs out, or the guys are ready for something different. Have a back up prop just in case this is a hard to please group. If tips dry up at this point, wrap a towel around yourself, announce that you will go get cleaned up, and then come back and socialize for the remainder of the time. Usually the tips will flow for the whole hour, and they will want more.
If you are splitting the tips (this is normal for a two girl show), do so at another location. I think it is tacky to sit in front of the customers and count out your money.
I usually tip each MC or bouncer 10% of the total take, plus I pay $25 an hour. I don't use a booking agency, so I have very little up front expense. If the booking agency pays your bouncers, the 10% should be sufficient.
I also make sure that they pay the hourly rate before the show begins. There is nothing worse than thinking that you are getting all of these tips, and then at the end they won't pay the hourly. Communication is key here.
Check with the girls what tipping games are popular in you area, and learn how to up sell from $1s to $20's, as this is very easy at bachelor parties.
Good luck to you, have fun and stay safe.
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ParisLoves advice is awesome, But I always make sure I get my "showing up money" first, if that applies. Don't stress out you'll probably make so much money you won't want to go back and dance at the club ever again. Also, don't get drunk your not in your usual enviorment, bouncer can't see you all the time.
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Hey y'all. Well, club guarantees money up to deposit, so if no one else had shown up we would've made $25. As everyone did, they paid when they got there - $100 each. I was really glad I went when other girls were doing stuff, because I'd never been to one before and would've had NO IDEA what to do, at all. Even then it was kind of disorganized, because the best man kept changing his mind on what exactly he wanted done. :P Anyway, I made more doing that in 1.5 hours than I had in entire nights working, so yeah, to an extent, they're fun. Still not sure I'd be entirely comforting going on my own, or rather putting on a show on my own, yet.
The games were 'tacos' and feeding the kitty, and the guys licking whipped cream off random parts of girl. and private dances, which were good. I want to learn more in case I do another party, which is looking moderately likely, as apparently we don't have that many girls willing to do them.
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Ummm... what is "tacos"?
I like to play cooter ball - put a glass between your legs or boobs and have the guys throw dollars at it. If they get one in they get tshirt momento or whatever.
Ooooh, and with two girls, I always do a lotion show... get down on the tarp (or a blanket) and rup lotion all over eachother, then get the guys to stick dollars all over you.
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The two other girls did a lotion show, while girl and myself were trying to get the guys to do private dances.
Tacos, apparently, are putting a cherry in a taco shell, spray whipped cream over the cherry and hold it between your legs on the floor, get guy to get to 'get the cherry' without breaking the taco - if he breaks the taco he loses. Was, ahem, interesting, especially when another guy wanted to see fellow lose so he'd squish his head down.
Though one poor other girl did a game where the guy was on the ground, they put a fiver in the back of her g-string and he was support to bite it away - he took this a little too far, bit her hard enough to draw blood!!