:devil: Aaaah, such troll like behavior! From a private school and everything! We all know that going to a private school makes one SO SO much smarter!!
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:devil: Aaaah, such troll like behavior! From a private school and everything! We all know that going to a private school makes one SO SO much smarter!!
As a matter of fact, I think dancers are just as intelligent as any professional with a PhD. This is because we are somewhat like doctors. We are the doctors to most of these men we see, speak with and make money off of every night...in fact if a girl didn't have any psychological skills whatsoever, she would not be making so much or any at all. We're all very intelligent- some of us don't realize...but you will eventually...
There's a big difference between intelligence and education.
In fact, my favorite definition of an Intellectual is: someone who has been educated beyond his or her intelligence. This doesn't hold true for some, but it's true for a whole lot of them.
Too true ! Especially in Washington, DC !Quote:
In fact, my favorite definition of an Intellectual is: someone who has been educated beyond his or her intelligence. This doesn't hold true for some, but it's true for a whole lot of them.
Sorry Diamond BUT- some of the "smartest" women I
know dance for a living YET I've also met a few imbeciles
who know how to strip. ALL of the dancers that I've
invested time, effort and money in getting to know
had well developed people skills and were just plain
"interesting". I don't waste my time on "hustlers" and
a dancer w/o something going on behind her eyes isn't
going to hold my interest for more than a minute or two.
Education and intelligence are two different things BUT
the more "intelligent' dancers tend to get themselves
educated because inter alia they KNOW that they can't
shake & shimmy forever and/or they don't want to in the first place. Or maybe that's the "wiser" dancers.
O.K. so the perfect dancer is EDUCATED, INTELLIGENT
and WISE enough to use and apply both.
::raises her hand::Quote:
Originally Posted by CarrieBradshaw link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg105758#msg105 758 date=1083809580
I am done with college and love dancing so much I am going to do it until I drop. (I previously had a career in finance.) I do not drink, or do drugs at all, period. I do however smoke a ton of cigarettes and I am very guilty of going over my 2 cans of Diet Dew a day limit.
I DETEST with a passion, listening to the things you mentioned. Boyfriend number 293, 349 for the year has dumped them, listening to the girls talk about how stoned they are when they get to work, watching them get trashed at work and making everyone in the bar look like an ass....on and on.
And even know as I type this, all I can do is think about that crap and shake my head.
::wanders off, shaking her head::
Fantasia- You don't have to work in a strip joint to be
exposed to "Jerry Springer" types. The dancers I know
have fairly well developed sense of sel(f) and are not
into self-destructive behaviors. Part of it I'm sure is that the places I frequent tend to attract both higher class
dancers & customers. NYC lends itself to anonymity so
that it's easier for PhD. candidates to dance on the side and what have you. But I've met healthy well-adjusted
dancers in N.J., Fla., Atlanta,S.Carolina & Canada too.
To be sure, SOME dancers have serious personal problems but it's neither fair nor accurate to generalize.
I'm reading the replies most of you have written and it sounds all to familiar! a snob? picking on her cuz she picked the name "carrie bradshaw"? is this all you people do is gang up on someone for picking a name (i got shit for picking the picture for the aviator) come on, let's be realistic. the club i work at has about 50 dancers let me sum them all up in catagories
1) THE TRAILER TRASH DANCERS: the dancers who come in scream at there boyfriends on the phone to make it look like they have there botfriends wrapped around there finger but go and hide in the bathroom and call them back and kiss there ass, they also bring there kids to work, or they do there laundry.
2) THE ONES WHO BITCH ABOUT NOT MAKING ANY MONEY: they sit at the bar all night, or with the same customer for 6 hours and get one dance, they take naps in the dressing room, then when the night is over they cry because they didn't make any money.
3) THE ALCOHOLIC: self explainitory
4) the 150 pounder/ ugly one's: they are dancing why?
which one do you fall into?Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109393#msg109 393 date=1084573315
I weigh 150, so I know where I am....
Well, I don't fit into any of the categories...I make a lot of money every night. If I take a break sometime during the evening, I call my SO and say hi and tell him to give our sleeping daughter a kiss for me. I don't drink, don't do drugs, don't air my laundry at work, don't bring my daughter to work...and, I don't weigh a 150 pounds...so, where would I fit? I go to work, make lots of cash, don't bitch, drink, or shoot up.Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109393#msg109 393 date=1084573315
By the way...the stink was about your avatar...not your aviator...unless I missed that post. :D
I personally hate people who LUMP, or shall I say, STEREOTYPE dancers as any category. Darkness, this is the second post of yours which "lists" dancers as a certain "kind"
Which one, in your list, are you?
I'm one 150 lbs as well
And how do you learn about current events???Quote:
I can rarely find anyone (dancer or anyone else) that can talk about current events whose views aren't altered by the press or television.
I fall into the "perfect dancer" catagory
I don't think that was one of your little catagories ::)
This is DEFINITELY a guy in my book. I can't imagine a real dancer having this kind of attitude.
Dude, get a life and stop wasting our time.
Didn't you know? This person is at ALL of these events and witnesses them first hand...LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109652#msg109 652 date=1084647440
OMG...that's the funniest thing I've heard all week.Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109654#msg109 654 date=1084648518
What a crock of shit. Dude...you are really, really pathetic.
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Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109393#msg109 393 date=1084573315
OMG.. I'm still wiping the tears away from laughing at this moronic post of yours!
:toldoff: :toldoff: :toldoff: :toldoff: :toldoff: :toldoff: :toldoff:
Hmmm.. let's see. You are perfect. Well good fucking whoop-te-do for you. That means what? Oh yeah, it means that you have no faults? Or, perfect meaning a perfect ass to put down just about everyone, make absolute ridiculious suggestions on how to get a dance (see the "I'll get your cock as hard as a rock" post).. the more and more I read your bullshit, the more I think you are a man. No dancer I have ever worked with or met has EVER had this type of attitude. MAN MAN MAN you are!
I'm 147 so I suppose I fit into the 150 category, I'm also a money maker in my club, so I guess I should quit because I am a bit bigger than industry standards? WTF-ever. Its people like you who make me sick with your stereo-typical psycho- babble. Perhaps if you were a dancer (which is proving to me over and over again that you have a penis between your legs.. as NO ONE has yet to see a photo of you) and your attitude is as many as I see each and every night from larger than life egos. :dunce:
Give us all a break. We've heard it all and then some. We are definately not stupid.
You mean "legendary" dancer don't you? Like that Stepford stripper the Exoticdancerwear guy wants.Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109654#msg109 654 date=1084648518
:laughing:
I was talking to a gut last night at work, and i tpold him that all these dancers on here think that i am a man.Let me ask you a few things
1) what possible gratification could i possibily get out posing as someone else? aman at that?
2) ginger you stated "NO DANCER I HAVE EVER WORKED WITHOR MET HAS HAD THIS TYPE OF ATTITUDE" well haven't you met anyone with different views on things? or does EVERYONE you know go with the flow? How boring if all of your friends think exactly like you.the difference between ME and most of you is that I have a different view on how a dancer should be. No i do NOT let a man touch me in between my legs, that is one of very few things that i will not tolerate! My views are completely different than most of you, when i say certain things that are out of this world to you you quickly come up with " darkness is a man" no darkness is not a man, just a dancer who loves being a dancer, if you can't except the fact that I am a bit more racy than you, then there is nothing i can do about it. just realize that everyone thinks and acts different.
More"Categories" again? I didn't know that the "Perfect Dancer" category included dancers who whine to their customers at work about how other dancers (she's never even met before) think she's a man. That's some pretty impressive dialogue, the customer must have been really turned on. :yawn: We should all sign up for some Perfect Dancer classes, and maybe you could teach us some more really stellar techniques. Actually just save us the time and write a book, "Darkness's Three Categories on How to Become a Perfect Dancer; A Man's Perspective." :geezer:
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Originally Posted by Kayla Nicole link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg110009#msg110 009 date=1084742387
:10: Kayla!!!
Darkness:
Actually, I do believe in being different, it is just that your views seem a bit more manish than the norm. I've been dancing for 8 years on and off, and I have been around the club scene. I've met many dancers, some which do fit in the category of "drama queens" etc..
I've never met a dancer who has had an attitude like yours. Perfect? I highly doubt. Full of yourself? more than likely.
Stating that you are perfect is exactly why I think that you are a man. That statement along with the 150 pounders--WTF? I tell you what..I don't look like I"m 147, and there are girls much heavier who are actually SMALLER in size because of their workout routines.. Weight has no baring as long as the girls can move and look good. Another reason why I think you are man.
I don't like to judge, however, after all your posts, and now this one about you complaining to your customers about this site, I'm scratching my head wondering why you bother with us so much. I mean really, I know of NO dancer that would do the things you've suggested, unless of course, they are dirty and desperate. Two things I am not... Maybe some girls whom have long time regulars could get away with such statements etc.. but for the most part, I think not.
I don't speak to my customers about this site or any other personal issue I have with anyone or anything. Business is business. Whining is not an option for me. I question that you are a dancer, unless you'd like to inform us all where we can catch your next stage performance and I"d be happy to book myself a ticket to see you front row and center, which then I'd be more than happy to apologize for my assumptions of thinking of you as being a man.
If your book comes out, please reserve a copy for me. I've still got lots to learn, and I am far from perfect.
ohhhhhhhh you just ruined it right there. LMAOQuote:
Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=8947;start=msg109654#msg109 654 date=1084648518
Get a life.
Let me explain, (which I have to do with every single post) the guy I was talking to met me from reading about me on s.c.l. We got to know each other and I told him about this site and he asked me what I posted on here and I told him "darkness" so he checked it out. the next time he came in we were talking about it and we were laughing on how the girls on here thought that i was a man.what are you guys robots? "buisness is buisness"give me a break, lighten up ladies. don't look at it like it's a job! it's really not. we're at a bar, meeting new people everyday, taking breaks when we want o, smoking a cig whenever we want, having the option to have a couple of cocktails,getting 20$ for three minutes of dancing which i consider exercise,leaving when we want, working when we want, that to me IS NOT A JOB, it's a good time.so what if we stroll along an asshole once in a while, don't complain about it.get over it and move on. if you look at it like a job the night will never end, relax and enjoy the time you have dancing, it won't last long.