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WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
Nothing is more annoying than a girl who claims they hate dancing. why do you insist on dancing? do you hate the money? do you hate being complimented? I mean if you hate taking your "clothes" off then you shouldn't be a dancer. you can go and work somewhere else if it is a moral issue. I personally love dancing, I love when I turn a man on so much that they want to come in and see me more. there is nothing so wrong with what we do for a living, except the fact that society can't except it. come on we were born naked!
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
I think most people hate their jobs.
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
well im guessing they dance for the money.. hello
like most people who hate their jobs. (it's for the money)
i personally have a love/hate relationship with my job, but i don't let anyone see the "hate" while im working.
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
I love my job...I wouldn't be doing it if I didn't love it.
But, I think that most people feel that they need to hate their jobs. Some dancers may feel that it makes the job "more acceptable if they claim to hate it...
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
Darkness - Everything you mentioned is why I like dancing. But there is a lot you didn't mention....it can be a rough business sometimes. Looking at dancing as a whole, however, I feel pretty lucky to be able to do this. I want A LOT out of life.
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
That's true darkness. But I think with any job, it has it's ups and downs. When people come on SW to vent, it's mainly because they're experiencing a down. And apparently, right now the clubs are quiet with a lot of cheap jerks (just gathering from what I'm reading here nowadays) so people are getting pretty pissy.
I don't think that generally we all hate our jobs, we just put up with a lot and need to let off some steam like a lot of people in normal jobs also do. Personally, I love to strip and yes, I do meet girls who whine for no real apparent reason. But noone is forcing them into the industry. These things will always happen I guess.
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Darkness I love my job and everything about it. But I do get a little tired of how it can be monotonous at times like customers asking the same stupid comments, guys harrassing you to go out with them, trying to sell a dance to a guy and have him turn you down, grabby assholes who have no respect for people's personal space. These dancers hate but they still may love their job as a whole like me. If you do anything that is repetive such as a job for to long it is natural to get a little board of it every once in a while. As for girls who downright hate everything about the job I have never ran into a girl who HATED the job but hated little things like rude customers or cheap customers on a particular night. They may say "I hate this job" but they really don't they just say that to blow off steam. If they really did hate it they wouldn't last that long in the proffession.
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I have noooooo problem getting naked. I have no problem with how I look. I definately have no problem with making money. I do however hate getting molested and find it bothersome that some guys just don't get it.
How much for a blow job?
I don't give blow jobs.
I'll give ya 50 bucks.
Uh, no.
100?
No. I don't give blow jobs.
Why not?
:banghead: I don't want to. I don't have to. Does it really even matter? ::)
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
why do you care so much about otherpeople and how they dont like their jobs?
::)
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i personally have a love/hate relationship with my job, but i don't let anyone see the "hate" while im working.
I feel exactly the same way.
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Originally Posted by Tragic-Beauty link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg107544#msg107 544 date=1084219926
why do you care so much about otherpeople and how they dont like their jobs?
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because "she" is a he ;D
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
Golden Handcuffs= making money in one night that most people make in a week or sometimes two at a 40 an hour week job. Hard to take that key and unchain those handcuffs!
Personally, I've heard all sides. Girls who hate it but continue because they feel stuck. Girls who enjoy it but have a love hate relationship with it (I'm one of those) Love/hate meaning, love the dancing, love the money, hate the bullshit and the crap that comes along with it and the wear and tear on the body and soul sometimes.
But, all in all, I haven't met anyone who works as a dancer or otherwise who has liked their job. Everyone hates their job to some degree. We all get burned out and here in the US, we work ourselves into the ground, and for what? More more more. Sometimes I think we'd all be better off if society accepted that convenience isn't everything and its okay to go back to basics and work to live and not live to work.
Just my two cents.
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
MONEY. They do it for the money. They have to keep feeding the lifestyle. Also, some girls don't have the adequate skills to get a "real" job that pays just as much.
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I look at it this way. It's a job. Period. Many people are doctors, lawyers, bankers, the list goes on forever, and they 'hate' their jobs.
Do we have to like or love our jobs? No one has to. I work my ass off now, so i wont have to work (i pray) soon enough.
Bitching about a job a person does is nothing new, every walk of life, has a job that someone does not like.
Pamela
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
Food, rent, electric, bills, cigarettes, etc.............
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Why do some girls insist on giving a shit if others love or hate their jobs? ::)
I love my job, though there are days when I say to myself 'wtf am I doing" but its never gotten to the point where I say, "Goddddddddddd I hate this"
That same shit happened when I worked as a waitress, or a cashier. I had my days, just like many people do.
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ive been guilty of bitching about my job before, but it wasnt STRIPPING that i hated it was the club i was at (management treating me as subhuman, coworkers being annoying, customers being cheap AND perverted, tipping out 53% of what i made a night) after i tried out some other places and found a club that had an atmosphere that meshed with my personality i really look forward to working now.
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
why bitch when you make more than a 9-5? read malibu's post, she's right on the money!
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Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg107938#msg107 938 date=1084304142
why bitch when you make more than a 9-5?
maybe because at a 9-5 there usually isn't a bunch of guys trying to touch your pussy?
maybe because at a 9-5 you KNOW what you are taking home for pay and sometimes NOT knowing what you're going to make in any given night is a cause for anxiety?
maybe for some girls the job is causing some sort of problems at home?
maybe these girls are suffering from burn out and just need a re-charge?
I don't know I'm just speculating here.
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MUST BE A MAN. lol thats all i gotta say!
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Can we say human nature? I know people who made more than $1,000,000 in a year, and they STILL bitched about their jobs.
Stress, burnout, lack of appreciation, ......
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
that thought has entered my mind ever since the prude thread. darkness just seems so opposite of anybody I've worked with.
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Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg107938#msg107 938 date=1084304142
why bitch when you make more than a 9-5?
1. Why not?
2. Because I can.
3. Because making more than minimum wage does not mean life is peachy-keen, rosy sweet sunshine with little bluebirds of joy hopping everywhere my platform shoe-wearing feet tread.
"Let them grab, you prudes! No complaints either, you make more than they do! I do anything they want and make $1000 every night!" Either this is a truly naive and hyperbolic leather-clad punk Pollyanna... or it's a guy.
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
Duh She is a He I thought we already went through this
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Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?
"duh she is a he" " darkness is a man" is that the only answer you can come up with when faced with a challenging question?just because there is one dancer on here with a different pathed mind doesn't make me a man!I think that a girl who bitches about being a dancer well let me say bringing home more than 500$ a night should really count there blessings and be gratful that she was given a talent and blessed with beauty to make that much! but no, they bitch when a guy TRIES to touch them, or they bitch because they hate taking there clothes off. give me a break, if you really hated it that much you have the choice to leave, this is the industry we all chose to be in, if it bothers you that much that a guy says something to you in a "immoral" way that just comes with the territory of being a dancer. i love being a dancer, i love to show off my body, i love when men compliment me on how pretty i am, so maybe that's the reason why i make what i make.it shows that i love what i'm doing, therefore a guy would rather get a dance from someone who enjoys what they are doing, instead of a dancer who bitches about there "job". got it, i sure hope so.