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I wouldnt be worried about a thing if i were you. Why are you worried about pole work? You dont have to know any tricks or even perform tricks on the pole if you just cant. You can just use the pole to seductively walk around or slide your back down it. I have never used pole tricks and i feel you just dont need to. Yes guys are impressed with that stuff when they see it, but you can find something else to spice up your stage show. Just let your personality shine through and you will be fine.
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thank you hun for replying i am less nervous now but i still need some poiters on floor work if anyone wants to help me that would be wonderful!
SkiTTleZ
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Just to be truthful, I dont think that you should go by Skittlez. That only reminds me of candy, not someone sexy and unobtainable. I do like your creativeness though.
As far as floor work goes, just go slow and remind yourself on stage that you are sexy and everyone wants you. If you feel this way than men will see it and also feel it!
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I've been dancing for twelve years and I almost never do floor work. I'm just not good at it. I can get down there, roll around and look all sexy just fine. My problem is that I CANNOT get up gracefully. I weigh 119 pounds, but I look like a freakin' water buffalo when I try to get back on my feet. Not attractive at all.
As far as pole work goes, I do very little. A little spinning, some "grinding", really minor stuff. I am always amazed by the girls who can do serious pole work. I'd break my neck! As far as I can tell, whether or not you do pole work isn't going to affect your money at all. Like Kryssy said, just know that you're sexy and the men will know it too!
Lap dances aren't nearly as as scary as one might think. Just watch what the other girls in your club are doing when they're giving lapdances. Get a feel for how much contact is allowed (or tolerated) and more importantly, how much YOU are comfortable with. You'll get into the swing of things quickly.
Have fun, be sexy and let us know how it goes!
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As for floor work, just act like your crawling seductively towards your lover and then roll on your back alittle and arch your back like your waiting to be seduced , stuff like that drives guys crazy and dont forget to give them the bedroom eyes while your on stage. Act like the sex goddess that you are and have fun!
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If you get a chance you should get some lapdances to pick up pointers. That really helped me out a lot. When I tried to just mimic what the other girl were doing I felt awkward, but when I was in the customer's position, it was much easier to figure out what works. Also, I am Asian as well and you should really play it up - at least where I am there aren't any other Asian girls so if any guys have a fetish for that you are in!!
As far as stages go, when I first started I just crawled around on the floor a lot! If you try too hard to mimic what the more seasoned dancers do it makes it really obvious that you are trying. I used to practice a lot in the dressing room with some of the girls that were willing to help me. I wouldn't worry too much though, guys dig the "new girl" and you will do fine.
Good luck!!
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Originally Posted by oceanblue link=board=25;threadid=9172;start=msg108879#msg108 879 date=1084483294
I have never used pole tricks and i feel you just dont need to. Yes guys are impressed with that stuff when they see it, but you can find something else to spice up your stage show. Just let your personality shine through and you will be fine.
Personality and attitude is everything. There are a few guys who are interested in pole work, and contrary to what many dancers think, most are not. Most guys find it interesting and that's about the extent of it. In all honesty, the only real people in a club who think a lot of pole tricks are really cool are other dancers.
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thank girls i strted last friday and i love it i am working in a small little club and doing very well for just starting atleast thats what the girls r telling me:)
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HOLD UP! You said you were a size 13 correct?
Okay I am like a size 9/10 I need to try out soon here I am kind of pissed now LOL i could be making money now then!
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HOLD UP! You said you were a size 13 correct?
Okay I am like a size 9/10 I need to try out soon here I am kind of pissed now LOL i could be making money now then!
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each guy has a diffent type of gurl they like, each area has there own preference too. i make alot here but in fort lauderdale no one would even look at hiring me . to give u an idea of what i mean . and i am the only asian girl in the club i am in also lea1020. ok ttyl write back to me [email protected] copy and paste cause the big o's are zeros ....