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Kill? Me? You? Never!
Okay, so this happened two days ago but I'm still pissed. I've already hashed it out with one of my best friends and still fume about it. I thought I'd get it all out here and then mayhaps I'll feel better.
Business has been ridiculously slow for the last three weeks. The summer slump, I guess. So when a regular of mine walked in last Thursday, I was quite pleased to see him. I genuinely like the guy plus I was now in good form to make a bit of money. Yay for that! I chat with him and his buddy, he leaves to get a beer and interrupts my flow, so I stay at his table for another song after he returns. Can't seem to quick on the draw, y'know. But then the DJ calls my name for stage. Dammit.
We have a new-but-not-new dancer at the club. She used to work there a long time ago and came back recently. While I was sitting with my guy, she comes by and tells him to get her a beer, she'll be back for him later. I ask if I am keeping him from something and he says no, he used to see her in the club. We resume our conversation until I get unexpectedly hauled to the stage. As soon as I get on stage, the chick sits down with him. By the time I finish stage and leave the dressing room, she has taken him to VIP.
That in and of itself is only mildly annoying. I lost my chance and none of us can count the number of times that's happened to us, right? Oh well, it's his own wallet and he decided where to spend it. What just PISSES me off is what I found out later.
She fucks him.
THIS is the regular who talks all the time about his kids, and how he's such a family guy and all this crap. He fucked her in an alley across the street. After work he went with her to score some coke.
This guy is such a sleaze, I don't think I can even look at him anymore. And her! Fucking coked-out prostitute wanna-be. She asked me if I knew where she could get some (Umm, that would be a "no") and the very next week had her locker searched because someone saw a dancer doing coke in the bathroom. Dude, what you do in your spare time is none of my damned business but, for fucks sake, keep it out of the club.
I'm working with a coke-fiend who fucks the customers. Pissed, pissed PISSED.
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Re:Kill? Me? You? Never!
OMG, that would piss me off to no end >:( Just goes to show that when it comes to some people, "you never know how they really are". Especially in our business........it's amazing what effect the "power of the p***y" can have on men.
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Oh lovely. Seen this scenerio before ::) BTW how did you come to find out she's sleeping with him ? Did he tell you :o
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Whoa!!! I have no idea what I would do if I was in your situation!!! I honestly have no forgiveness or sympathy in my heart for coked out whores trying to score more coke by making money at strip clubs, let alone a coked out dancer who fucks customers. I can't really give you any useful advice as I have absolutely no experience with your dilema myself, but I commend you for not smacking the living daylights out of the girl AND the sleazy guy the very minute you found out as I would have probably done.... well maybe there is a bit of a solution in that...j/k!!!
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Unfortunately its not suprising, except that when I've seen it, the sexual acts take place right in the club. How did he get her into the alley anyway? There have always been bouncers at all exits in clubs I've been to...
Regardless, I'm sorry about your situation, but that's just another lesson that everyone has the potential to be a sleaze or a saint, and that you never really know anyone.... Good luck and I hope they can this chick!
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All I have to say is "They are everywhere.... dirty girls doin deeds dirt cheap!"... :censored: :censored: :censored: :censored: :censored:
I'm so sorry. You were probably better off though not doing any dances for him, as much as it pisses you off that she took him away from you, more than likely he would have propositioned you and who needs that?
I did something really bad the other night at work speaking of customers who are sleaze-bags like this one you describe. I was giving a dance to a business man who kept paying me, then he said, "I need someone to cheat on my wife with.. are you interested?" I was thinking, "OMG, what a sleaze ball." He had on a nice white collared shirt... As I was sitting on his lap, I went to breathe in his ear, and my lips which were coated with the most beautiful marroon lipstick "accidentally" made about four imprints around his collar. Stupid ass.
I'm sorry Lillith, I hope that you won't let dirty girls and men who do this kind of thing get you down.. sucks for everyone, there's no doubt about that. I hope that your club fires her ass.
(Modified for spelling error)
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Holy schizzle!! I am sorry that you have someone like this at your club. It must be a real PITA to have a dancer coking up and putting out. Does club management have any plans on getting rid of her? Hopefully, the suspicion that she does/deals drugs will prompt them to give her the old "heigh ho" out the door. No one wants a raid because one dancer is openly snorting and sucking (to put it mildly).
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This is nothing new for me. That kind of stuff was happening at Caligula all the damn time. I would say about 35% of them were coke whores who put out in the club. I think fuming about it is not productive. Tell a manager to keep an eye out for her. It is pretty stupid when they think they can do anything they want and no one will find out.
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As for the customer... I would suggest you still accept his money.
He can make a bad night good, right? And he hasn't propositioned you... so if he isn't doing anything to you besides cheating in his wife with a hooker, why not keep taking his money?
I know this sounds like a really callous attitude, but why should we set moral standards for deciding from whom we take money? I take it from anyone who keeps their hands to themselves and doesn't annoy me too badly. If I start not accepting money from anyone who has ever committed adultery...
It's just a thought: they are sleazy as hell, don't get me wrong, but should you make less money because of it?
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I have a feeling there is a lot more than meets the eye here..
How "long ago" was long ago when this dancer originally worked at that club? Any idea what made her quit at that time?
WHILE you were sitting with him, she had the audacity to tell him to order a beer since she'll be back for him, he explains he saw her back in the day, and then you get unexpectedly called to the stage....
They leave the club rather than just trying to raincoat something in VIP.. and she accompanies him after work...
You say he's a regular of yours, so is it safe to assume this means he's been seeing your for a fairly moderate amount of time, hasn't really propositioned you during that time, and otherwise really hasn't exhibited the sleazeball behavior this episode portrays?
I'm thinking the history behind these two goes way back.. and not exactly the coke-fiend prostitute kind of thing it may initially seem. Who knows if their time was before or after he got married or what the deal may be. It doesn't excuse that fact he committed adultery and cheated on his wife that night, but who knows if this was really an act of prostitution or just a couple of people in lesser judgement refiring old flames. It doesn't change the fact he's a cheating louse, but it may be the whole situation isn't as bad as it seems for your coworker.
And I agree with Brooke... the sleazeballs that do visit stripclubs usually have a fixed spending ratio before it starts to get back to their wives. It's much more appropriately in your purse versus going into his sex/blowjob spending fund and might even spare his wife a nasty STD when you look at it that way.