Originally Posted by Luna Maiden link=board=25;threadid=9435;start=msg112832#msg112 832 date=1085215251
Do other stuff is my best advice, don't only grind. here, I work reasonably high contact but with a g-string, bachelor parties these are nude, here is my basic routine for a lap dance [my club has little booths with couches in them, three walls about shoulder-height]:
walk seductively towards guy, lean over him, breath in ear
stand up, slowly take off top
straddle lap, grind a little, smoosh boobs-into-face, grin at him
While pressing against him, move legs to ground, remove skirt if applicable
Body slide so that you're on your knees, ass in the air, grind with your boobs
Stand up, do a little spin to turn around, step onto couch and shake your ass in his face
Lower yourself so you're facing away, straddling his lap, grind a bit this way
Lean way over while still straddling from behind, slowly walk on your hands forward until you're off his lap
Lie on your back and spread your legs, play with yourself for a minute.
Get back up, straddle, grind a bit, breath in ear, maybe rub his shoulder a bit
If you have time, or into the next dance:
Grind facing away but don't straddle, have your feet firmly on the ground, then body slide until your head is against his crotch and turn yourself over
With the couches and the not-really-walls, I can then climb up and put my thighs on his shoulders, maybe push his head towards but not letting him get too close
Then bring one leg down and plant against his crotch, while keeping the other leg on his shoulder. Squish boobs into face [guys are incredibly impressed with the leg-shoulder thing]
Body slide down, boobs-to-crotch thing
Climb up again on shoulders, this time instead of putting a foot on the ground, put feet on the couch, put both hands behind you on the ground, flip your legs so they're V-for-Victory, while grinding [this looks impressive, but don't do if you aren't firmly on the guy's lap - if need be, ask him to hold your hands or hips instead]
do these little things: smile at him, play with the buttons on his shirt, run fingers through hair, nibble ear, rub shoulders, run a finger over his nipples [don't like, grab 'em, but a little brush goes over well], let your hair [if long enough] get into your face, fling it back, brush it in his face on occasion - you can just be sitting on his lap while you do these things, so you aren't grinding the entire dance.