Please women of sw describe a gentlemen customer.
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Please women of sw describe a gentlemen customer.
A gentleman customer does not try to touch a dancer in a no-contact club. If it is a club where contact is allowed, a gentleman customer only touches the areas that the dancer permits him to, and he touches gently without grabbing or groping. A gentleman does not lick or bite the dancer at any time.
A gentleman does not pressure a dancer to give him her phone number, and he does not ask the dancer to see him outside of the club.
A gentleman does not talk dirty to a dancer(i.e. "I'd love to fuck your pussy" or "You'd look great sucking my cock") You wouldn't believe how many times us girls hear that shit. ::)
A gentleman does not waste a dancer's time if he has no intention of getting a dance from her. He politely says "no, thank you" instead of trying to keep the dancer at his table for as long as he can without spending any money. He only says "maybe later" if he really means maybe later.
A gentleman never insults a dancer to her face or to anyone else. If he has nothing kind to say about a particular dancer, he says nothing at all.
A gentleman understands and respects that the dancers are there for entertainment only. We are not hookers, and we are not at the club to find dates.
There are more examples, but that's all I can think of at the moment. :)
1) If he sits at the tip rail, he gives each dancer a dollar. A dollar isn't a lot of money, but that small tip shows you are appreciating your front row seat. :)
2) He doesn't touch the dancer during a dance if it's not allowed, and he doesn't try to guilt her into doing more than she is comfortable with (I cannot believe how many men want my nipples in their mouth. Think, guys, if I let every guy do that, you're sucking other mens' saliva!).
3) Tipping after a dance... now, before I started, I thought this was a bit extreme. I mean, you pay a fair chunk of change for a private dance, and they want a TIP? But, since most of us do pay the house something from each dance plus a house fee, you'd be surprised at how far a few extra dollars can go. And it's a sweet way of letting us know you enjoyed yourself.
4) He doesn't say things like, "How can you degrade yourself like this?" "How can your man let you do this? I'd NEVER let my girl work here." I am a strong, independent woman, and a feminist. It's not degrading to me at all. My fiance knows this and trusts me to make the right decisions. But explaining all this to a customer kind of kills the "fantasy world" mentality. I don't ask him how he could ever be a mechanic/truck driver/business owner, do I? Hehe... and besides, he's the one who paid to get in and bought dances from me, thus keeping the business alive.
Blondhottie covered the list so well, I want to hang this thread up on our club's front door, hehe. :)
Good list Hottie !
I'd also like to add two more
a gentleman doesn't ask if a dancer has a boyfriend or husband or kids - they know it's none of their business unless a dancer chooses to tell them
A gentleman doesn't complain about cover charge/drink prices/dance prices- if they feel prices are too high they just take their business elsewhere.
Who would have thought............................... I'm a gentlemen. Thanks lady's
you know your a gentlemen the ladies like when you get bashed on SCL and within days many dancers have jumped in defending you....
That's it? Sweet! Easy enough...I was expecting a longer list.
Thank you very much blondehottie, one of your points answered a question I've been trying to get answered here for years!
Thank you!!! :10: :goodvibes: :hug: :relieved:
-lestat1
I know this may not work for everybody, but I think it's very gentlemanly when a customer lets me know in advance (maybe after the first song or two) that he wants to stick around for a lot more songs, rather then act like he's not sure after each song what he wants, trying to get the most out of every dance.
A gentleman pays for his 1st song upfront :yes:
The ones that know their dance limits are not going to stick around all night because you've enticed them to stay longer. I like the thrill of the game......a gentleman will pay cash :relieved:Quote:
Originally Posted by Sara... link=board=27;threadid=9601;start=msg115451#msg115 451 date=1085860983