Girls following you around at work
So this is the first time I've worked in a club like my current one, super high volume, super fast hustle, cheap and easy dances. It is so easy to make money here it's almost ridiculous.
Anyway. I have noticed since I started this club something I find amusing. Every time I go to a table with more than one guy and get a dance (or even just sit with him to chat a minute before asking), some other girl(s) always follow me and hit up their friend(s). Every single time. Some nights I notice the same few girls seem to be following me around, hitting up the friend of nearly every guy I dance for. I work my butt off and am not timid in the least about asking for dances, so I'm thinking some girls who are a little more timid find it easier to ask the friend of a guy who's already getting a dance. I have never seen this type of follow-hustle before, and I'm wondering if this happens elsewhere and I've just never noticed. Or is this just an AZ thing?
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Bridgette,they probably see you are getting dance and think I should follow her she seems to know who to go to.Or they may see the guysfriend getting a dance and yes that is aneasy intro for other girls who dont really want to talk ,they can just say hey look your buddy is getting a dance how about you.I have gone up to tables were I see like 2-4 guys and a few are dancing already.It definitley isthe esiest way to get a quick dance.However I did have a girl yell at me once ,she said never ever approach a table when someone is already there.I was like ther was fucking for guys there and was sick of waiting for you to leave,give me a break.She acted like I was new, she didnt know I came in from out of town for 7 years and was hardly new,I thought that was rude,I mean there was plenty of guys there and they wer turning her down, oh well.
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This is very common in my club. I think it is good in the way if one guy gets a dance the other guys feel obligated to get one themselves. Which they should by the way. Sometimes I run into the same girls at the same table several times a night. I think nothing of it. I ran into a girl once who was upset that there was three guys at a table and other girls sat on the laps of the unocupied guys and she got mad. But sorry she has one guy the others are up for grabs. I think that is fair. :)
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Oh don't get me wrong it doesn't bother me. I never get upset about some girl coming to a table I'm at when there's more than one guy. That is standard, you can't claim a whole table just because you're there with one guy. I just find it amusing that some of the girls I work with seem to always operate in this manner. There are some who always seem to be following....
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Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=27;threadid=9760;start=msg116956#msg116 956 date=1086205216
Anyway. I have noticed since I started this club something I find amusing. Every time I go to a table with more than one guy and get a dance (or even just sit with him to chat a minute before asking), some other girl(s) always follow me and hit up their friend(s). Every single time. Some nights I notice the same few girls seem to be following me around, hitting up the friend of nearly every guy I dance for.
I doubt that you're the only one being followed. If you think about it, this is a very smart move on their part.
Once you're doing dances with one guy, it kind of becomes a game of "who's the man" for their friend(s). Once one guy in a group has bought a dance, the others will want to match him, and once you've got one in your clutches, the other(s) become that much easier a target for your co-workers, particularly when you're breaking up a pair. What guy wants to sit on his lonesome while his buddy is getting a dance? The cheap dance price doesn't hurt things either.
So I wouldn't worry. Hell don't be afraid to do a little following yourself.
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Doc I'm not egotistical enough to think I'm the only one being followed. There are a few girls at this club who always work hard and aren't shy about asking for dances, who make consistent money as well. I am quite sure they get followed too. I will approach pretty much anybody (a few others at this club will too but most seem to be a bit more timid about it), whether they're in a group or not. It does seem however, that I happen to be the first to approach a table of guys alot, and as soon as girls see someone has 'broken the ice', they are quick to jump in. From what I'm seeing, there seems to be two distinct types of hustlers here: 1) those who bust their humps and always ask regardless; 2) those who regularly wait for someone else to 'break the ice'. Again, I hardly think I'm the only one who fits into group #1.
I think the second type will spend more time looking around than dancing, simply because they seem to do less asking. When it's slow (most of the time now that summer is upon us), you can really see the difference. The ones who follow spend alot of time walking round and round and complaining about lack of money, while the ones who always ask are getting dances. Granted money has slowed down for everyone but there are a few of us who are still making decent money because we don't wait around for someone else to 'break' a table.
As an aside, I also see alot more girls getting turned down lately for the 'wannadance', then I come along right behind them, sit and chat a minute, and get the dance. Then a 'wannadance' girl comes and gets a dance from his friend.
So I guess that's the lesson for today. No matter how slow it is or what is going on in the club, keep moving and approaching the guys and give them a tad more attention than pausing in front of them with 'wannadance' as if it's an afterthought on your way to somewhere else. 'Wannadance' may work to score a quick dance here and there, but it won't get you far with the guys who come in alone and/or those who are worn out from hearing 'wannadance' 5 times within 60 seconds of paying the cover.
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Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=27;threadid=9760;start=msg117079#msg117 079 date=1086225323
It does seem however, that I happen to be the first to approach a table of guys alot, and as soon as girls see someone has 'broken the ice', they are quick to jump in. From what I'm seeing, there seems to be two distinct types of hustlers here: 1) those who bust their humps and always ask regardless; 2) those who regularly wait for someone else to 'break the ice'. Again, I hardly think I'm the only one who fits into group #1.
I think the second type will spend more time looking around than dancing, simply because they seem to do less asking. When it's slow (most of the time now that summer is upon us), you can really see the difference. The ones who follow spend alot of time walking round and round and complaining about lack of money, while the ones who always ask are getting dances. Granted money has slowed down for everyone but there are a few of us who are still making decent money because we don't wait around for someone else to 'break' a table.
Yeah, I can see what you're saying there. It's kind of like you're the one having to crack the walnuts, and they're the ones picking up the pieces that fall on the floor.
I am curious, are the dances done tableside or do you have to go to another part of the room? The distinction kind of changes the complexion of things. If it IS tableside, it does seem more like those girls having you do their dirty work for them. You should demand kickbacks LOL!!
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Originally Posted by doc-catfish link=board=27;threadid=9760;start=msg117574#msg117 574 date=1086306021
Yeah, I can see what you're saying there. It's kind of like you're the one having to crack the walnuts, and they're the ones picking up the pieces that fall on the floor.
I am curious, are the dances done tableside or do you have to go to another part of the room? The distinction kind of changes the complexion of things. If it IS tableside, it does seem more like those girls having you do their dirty work for them. You should demand kickbacks LOL!!
Dances are done tableside. It's all an open floor so the lazier / more timid girls can just take advantage of opportunities created by the rest of us. Yeah maybe I and a few others should start demanding kickbacks! LOL
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Wow, I've never seen that happen, it kinda seems easier for some girls to follow in the wake of others, guess. Strange.
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Nope doesn't happen in my club either. I guess it would be easier but most of the girls just ask for dances on their own. I mean you spy the right guy and go for it right?
No place for miss timid in this business.