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Originally Posted by velvet link=board=9;threadid=9821;start=msg119243#msg1192 43 date=1086653022
i have one fbr. he has spent thousands and thousands at work on me. bought me a used car and a 1600 saddle for my horse. not to mention 2500 worth of dental work. we have only been to dinner(although often) and he calls me almost every day. this has been going on for almost 3 years. i know hard to believe. he has high blood pressure and you know what that does to the equipment so he isnt highly motivated by sex. in his mind i am his "girlfriend"
If in his mind you are his girl-friend, and in your mind you are most certainly not, this is a kind of cruelty I just can't fathom.
You see, I am very honest with the dancers I do
business with. I tell them no lies, I expect none in return. Some of these business relationships have gone on for some time and have been incredibly enjoyable for both of us, not to mention profitable for both as there has been a quid pro quo in play that has left each satisfied with the experience and happy to see each other again. I make it clear to them that if I catch them in a lie that I consider that a breach of our "contract" and I cut them off. I tell them that they should feel free to do the same if they ever catch me in a lie.
Fantasy is one thing, but allowing another to make a fool of himself by believing something is true that simply isn't...
That just plain isn't playing straight up... and I wouldn't give someone playing less then straight up with me the time of day, let alone my attention and my money.
Velvet, if the guy has it straight and understands exactly the nature of the "relationship" that's one thing, but if he really thinks you are his "girl-friend" and you've promoted that feeling within him, I hope he figures out which end is up and cuts you off.
Get mad at me if you want, but I didn't put those words in your keyboard, and I think you know right from wrong as well as the next person, so don't try to sell me a package of goods I won't be buying in response to this. Because if we met I wouldn't be trying to tell you I am some sort of millionaire and try to trick you into believing something that isn't true in order to get the upper hand with you.
Golden Rule, ya know. :)