I wanna start dancing i pretty much understand all the basics but can someone give some pointers on giving lap dances. Do i take off all my clothes?
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I wanna start dancing i pretty much understand all the basics but can someone give some pointers on giving lap dances. Do i take off all my clothes?
I'll try to help you out on the, um, first question... This is a link to a thread about "how do you like your lap dance". Might give you a good idea what us guys like.Quote:
Originally Posted by VANESSA link=board=25;threadid=10191;start=msg123332#msg12 3332 date=1087414273
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...mer/t8807.html
Here is also another one that is very similar to this topic ;):
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...to/t10190.html
I personally like to be stripped down to my boxers by a dancer wearing a heavy, itchy wool sweater... :jester:
Thank you that was very helpful.
when i first started dancing - and was COMPLETELY clueless about what exactly a lap dance WAS so 2 of the nicest girls i worked with offered to give me one to learn.
so when you go check out clubs buy a dance or two for yourself. you can also use that time to descreatly check out how far other dancers in the couch dance area go too. because certain clubs might be fully clothed air dances - and others are completely nude with lots of grinding and two way touching. being a brand new dancer you might want to avoid the later at first. so customers take advanatage of the fact that you are new and will try to talk you into doing more because, "the other girls do it" or, "thats they way its always be done here"
good luck.
I remember the first lap dance I ever gave..... I was so nervous..... anyway, usually it's a good idea to go over the contact rules with management... not the other dancers because they are all likely to tell you something different. just like stage danceing you will have to develop your own style. The best way to think of it is if the guy you were giving a dance to were your boyfriend.... what would you do to turn him on without breaking the rules..... hope that helps and good luck!!!
Just watch the other but not for to long you don't want to waste time . And yes ask the management they will tell you the way to anything good luck xoxox
Thank you girls........you're very helpful.
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...3084#msg113084
That was the high-contact lap description thread.
my advice is to look interested in the person you're dancing for. i went to check out a club yesterday and saw this one girl giving a lap dance. she just stared off into space like she hated her job or something. it didn't look like she was having fun.
YES
That depends on if you work at a full nude club or a topless club. In a topless club you do not take off your g-string. A blanket answer like YES will only lead to you getting fired if you work topless.....
when i'm in between their legs and my chi chi are on their crotch, i usually massage their shoulders and arms. lots of guys like that. when my back is turned to them and i'm standing a foot away, sometimes, i bend over and pull my thongs to my thighs and show them my ass. (only do this if you're allowed) hope that helps
what i do is strattle my legs sitting on them this is the first thing i do to get total eye contact. It helps if you then touch yourself to make them think your getting hot :) Show your ass a lot turn so they can see every angle. tease them you will be surprised how some men react they often will say that is nice. You learn as you go a long. lIve only been doing this for a few months each time i get more creative . Watch the other girls and incorporate what is allowed at your club.
oh also i do the massage thingy and also wear some real tasty lip gloss. I come real close to there lips without touching them so they can smell and see my lips up close.
When in doubt just give them alot of eye contact. Also go to exoticdancelessons.com get the video LAP DANCING and try on your boyfriend or some friends first. But eye contact does wonders. :)
Don't take off all your clothes right away or else they're not going to buy more dances- tease them a bit. Also watch where your feet are. I've seen a dancer accidently step on the man's feet (she was wearing high stripper heels) during a dance and he wasn't happy.
yes, tease them alittle with your clothes . Don't take them off so fast. I have these really short micro shorts with long ties they glow . I take the ties and when I find a guy thats fun I twirl them around and put them around him. Or if I wear my cowgirl hat I make them part of the act. Have fun :)