I would like someone to try an experiment, and let me know how it turns out (assuming there is no regulation against this at your club...)
At some point this week I would like you to, after having a little conversation with an appealing customer (ADDITION FOR CLARIFICATION - appealing in any sense...your call), say something to the effect of, "Listen, I have to go up on stage...but I'd like to buy you a drink. You've been very pleasant."
Pick someone who is not a regular...someone who has never gotten a dance from you. Do not ask him for a dance first...just buy him the drink, but check back on him later.
Post your results in the forum. I hereby challenge ye'all.
