SCGgirl,
I think you need to be proactive and methodical about finding a mate. You've identified this as an important need for yourself, and no devices or surrogates are going to fulfill it.
I recommend that you look at other people's personal ads, rather than post your own. Women seem to get too many responses, when they post ads, and often get frustrated with the process. But you might be able to find someone who fits your needs, if you focus on scouring other people's ads.
See that a relationship is a really critical missing aspect of your life, and make it a priority to try to find a good one for yourself.
Then you'll get proper hugs, not pale substitutions.
--TarzanBass
