Originally Posted by Topaz link=board=1;threadid=10778;start=msg133461#msg133 461 date=1089059292
from 'looks like i'm single' thread...by ms Kat...
weluckyfew:
It's not a "male" or "female" thing - it's a human thing. Some people are assholes and aren't worth your time. You have to be smart enough/strong enough to not get involved with those people.
Pumpkin pie:
I agree. Anyone that wants to consciously and purposely mentally and/or physically dominate another person is an asshole and has mental problems. Be that person a male or female. And it doesn't matter that the other is a willing victum. The willing victum is just as mentally messed up as their dictator. Nor does it matter that the dominator was once a victum. Just because someone abused you doesn't give you the right to abuse another. If you were abused, go and get some psychotherapy. Stop the cycle of abuse. Don't enlarge it.
isn't this what you said...spanking is a part of domination...a part of S&M...a part of D&s...or did you not know that...