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Do men like little girl looks?
Hello everyone.. I'm 18 and I've been thinking about becoming a dancer for a long time. Now that I'm legally able to, I think I'm gonna go for it. The thing is, I look about 14 (some people even say 12). I'm petite, my bra size is like 34a, but men seem to be really interested in me. My question is, should I play this up by wearing schoogirl outfits, pretending I'm a virgin, acting young, etc. OR should I dress and act more mature to offset the fact that I look so young? What do you all think would be the most financially beneficial? Thanks ;) :-\
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see what works for you. If you look young, you will always look like a little girl. I don't think you can hide it, so work with it and appeal to your market the best way you can!
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Emily is correct, work with what you have. Personally I don't like the little girl look, but some guys do. You can't be all things to all guys - what pleases some does nothing for others or is a turn off... it is just the way it is so use what you have - you will pull that off better than trying to look like something you don't naturally look like.
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I wouldn't advise trying it until you have a bit of experience dancing here (or wherever you are from), but you might want to consider working in Japan at some point in the future. Some guys like the little girl look most places and many don't care for it, but it seems to be by far the dominant preference of Japanese men for some reason. It is a sort of general cultural fetish as far as I can tell. You could probably make a killing in one of the Tokyo clubs with a well developed little girl persona (including costumes, etc).
-Ww
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Work it!! I looked like a little girl until I was 25. I did a party once and the bachelor was so dissapointed ???
He told his buddies that he wanted a real woman and not a "kid". ;D
I accidently on purpose spilled a drink on his head because he said this in front of me :D
Cheers,
Corey
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It never hurts to try, if you don't earn much or get much attention try going for something more sexy/older.
I never was able to pull off the young girl style. The guys i attracted liked sexy, i.e. showing lots of leg with sheer stockings heels and gold around my belly. I think it can be cute to watch others do this look, but if you have a sensual look to your face say "bedroom eyes" kinda thing and wear alot of makeup, this may be hard to do.
I really depends on alot. Wish you had a picture. Either way your body type sounds perfect for this. Give it a try!
Good luck,
Pamela
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guys do, but you have to have the personality to go with it, I looked really young, I mean some guys were like are you old enough to be in here, I couldn't play that role, tho nonthe less I didn't make money for a while.
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Originally Posted by Lolita86 link=board=25;threadid=10828;start=msg134255#msg13 4255 date=1089219191
Hello everyone.. I'm 18 and I've been thinking about becoming a dancer for a long time. Now that I'm legally able to, I think I'm gonna go for it. The thing is, I look about 14 (some people even say 12). I'm petite, my bra size is like 34a, but men seem to be really interested in me. My question is, should I play this up by wearing schoogirl outfits, pretending I'm a virgin, acting young, etc. OR should I dress and act more mature to offset the fact that I look so young? What do you all think would be the most financially beneficial? Thanks ;) :-\
I like the innocent look.
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Little girl looks are kind of a turn-off for me personally, but I'm only one of millions of customers.
I guess the issue is that I really, really love women--not girls. And it's not a matter of semantics.
Two cents.
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I have a customer I design only little girl outfits for. All she wants is school girl, or a young and fresh look. She even walks around with a lollypop!
She looks very young, and it works for her. I know she gets aggravated because she says it's the only way she can make money...but she's banking!
Some people find it offensive, but do what works for you! No matter how you dress or act while you're on stage when you leave there you are a different person...right?
Good luck sweety!
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Ww's suggestion of Tokyo is a good idea to look into after you get some experience. (From what I've heard it's pretty competitive among the girls so you don't want to go there a newbie.)
I've seen a lot of young-looking girls who did okay, but I worked with one who did absolutely phenomenal. She didn't wear school-girl outfits, but she always wore white & went by the name 'Angel'. She didn't try to wear her make-up "young", but rather did it very nicely, like anyone would. And she didn't act like a child but rather very dominating and in control -- I've never seen someone with so much confidence. The guys couldn't get enough of her.
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I'm assuming most of the girls in Tokyo are Asian right? I don't speak any chinese or japanese. I don't know if I wanna move half way around the world to dance, but I will give it some thought.
I like the story of the girl who wears only white and calls herself Angel.. I could do something similar but wear only red and call myself... Lolita of course! :)
Red is kind of a sexy color.
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Originally Posted by Lolita86 link=board=25;threadid=10828;start=msg134921#msg13 4921 date=1089339664
I'm assuming most of the girls in Tokyo are Asian right? I don't speak any chinese or japanese. I don't know if I wanna move half way around the world to dance,
Yes of course, most of the women in Tokyo are Asian, Japanese in fact, but what I meant and did not make clear is that there are a bunch (maybe 10 or so) major strip clubs in Tokyo that employ foreign/western dancers almost exclusively. They have a whole system of "importing" dancers, helping them with visa arrangements, providing them with a place to live etc. Most of the dancers in these places speak little or no Japanese. Going there to work at one of these places for few months is a fairly common option available to strippers in the US and elsewhere. The major plus, other than the opportunity for visiting an interesting/exotic foreign country, is major earning potential. There are whole threads on SW, including some recent ones, about the pros and cons of working in Japan. That is what I meant...just something to consider someday. The big plus for you might be that Japanese sexual culture is very obssessed with young adolescent girls, so you might be able to do extraordinarily well there.
But I very definitely agree with Sara that it probably is not a good place to start out your dancing career.
-Ww
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I used to look very little-girlish, and still do for a 33 year old woman. I always did well. You won't have any problem if you're cute. Work with the little girl look - try the schoolgirl, or white bra/thong and lacey little girl socks. You'll bank.
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No. I want a woman, not someone who looks like a little girl.
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There will always be the guys who dig that look.... there is one dancer at my club who makes tons of money with the schoolgirl look... but like others said, try it out and see what works for you. It may take a little bit, but you will find your niche!!! :)
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Go for it, if it's your ace in the hole. Tip: you would do well at no-alcohol bars, I noticed a lot of customers digging the little girl look would drop $$$ to hang with their favorite and talktalktalk.... You will be providing a highly taboo thrill.
I recommend a wait to go to Asia, or go with a friend. The South Pacific is rough in some spots.
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Sure, I like the whole "schoolgirl" thing! The outfit, smoothly shaved kitty, and licking a lollipop! LOL Why not? :)
My best guess is that guys tend to like it before they have kids, but after they have kids it's kinda creepy. Makes sense to me, I'll ponder it further if I ever have kids someday.
-lestat1
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I have a school-girl outfit, but I play it a different way: I kinda make it "punk-rock" by adding an anarchy patch to the back and layering striped socks over fishnet thigh-hi's with little black bows. I finish it off with a studded collar and bracelets. I don't necessarily want the "little girl" school girl look, so I ditch the pigtail thing, foof up my hair and wear red milar eyelashes and fire-red sparkles on my lips. :evil:
Seems to please the vast majority.
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Due to my height and how I'm petite with small breasts... I tend to better when I work on the younger girl (not so much little girl.. just younger) look. I too have a School Girl outfit which always makes me money whenever I wear it.
However I'm playful, naughty but nice School Girl. It's not so much little girl - it is the persona that I have with the outfit: friendly, perky "on the floor".. hot n steamy in the lap dance area.
I find that whenever I do more womanly looks... or looks that make me LOOK my age... I don't tend to do so well. That's my only bitch about working in clubs that require dresses and/or gowns and/or long skirts - no costumes.
I'm going to start adding more white lacy options to my wardrobe as ... yup.. I do well with that as well! Anothre one of my favourite money making outfits is lacy white boob tube type of top with booty shorts.
;D
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Since I still look girly too, I'm stuck playing the naughty young girl alot.
Some guys like, some don't. Some guys like it and are uncomfortable with it, but will still spend anyways, especially if the dancer is over drinking age, even if she doesn't look it. Its a taboo that they feel like they are breaking.
And yes, I have the school girl outfit, with little cotton girl panties with flowers printed on them.
Someday in the future I will graduate from Nawtygirl to Nawtywoman.
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i also have the little girl look, what works for me is........
i do my make up normally [ no heavy eye makeup] i always wear my hair down and long , and i always act like a new girl[evn if you have been dancing 5 yrs. i think it helps to say you just started a month ago] as far as costumes , i have a school girl outfit , a sheer white outfit [very virginal] and a simple black dress. don't over do it , you might end up looking like a little girl trying to play dress up. GOOD LUCK!
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i say it's better to have the look than actually be a little girl for the guys to ogle over, ya know? at least we're of legal age versus the actual 13 year olds they could be lusting after...