What Makes Us Keep Wanting Him???
Id say that attitude plays 80% of the part. Confidence=Sexy
If he doesnt call me ASAP, it leaves me wondering.....and thats a
good thing too! Dont get it twisted tho----- I am NOT into games,
but the initial challenge gives me butterflies. If a guy is all over me
right from the start, I tend to loose interest in a matter of a few
weeks.
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LMAO gotta love the stripper mentality LOL Go girl
FBR
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Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=11648;start=msg148208#msg148 208 date=1091490640
LMAO gotta love the stripper mentality LOL Go girl
FBR
FTI-------
I have only been stripping for the last 6 months , but these feelings I have had since highschool. So there goes your theory.
And oh...my best friend is not a strpper, and i know she thinks the same. :P
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It's definately not limited to strippers.. it's a great deal of women. And it's not only women, it's also men.
Someone that keeps you on your toes, challenges you, is tough to figure out, or semi-seems to be harder to acquire sparks interest as these can be indicative of a deeper person. Unfortunately, 'players' capitalize on all of the above and thus feign these tendencies, leaving behind not a 'deeper' individual, but instead a empty moron looking to get laid in disguise.
Most people outgrow all this crap by the time they hit their 30's.. they've had 'game' and been victims to 'game' long enough to just want to dispense with all that horseshit and shoot straight. Bullshit is replaced with spontaneity, thoughtful surprise, clever resourcefulness and other elements to keep things interesting and exciting.. which is surely more real than the alternative.
Just my $0.02
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Cali I wasnt putting forth a theory just talking
But look at it as an outsider would
He doesnt call you ASAP He understands YOUR game better than you do.
And why be all over you at the start..a bit of patience pays off in the long run ;D I bet you already telegraphed that it he honed in on you too swiftly he would be fucked as far as having future fun with you.
Sounds like this dude understands what hes doing. Just kick your game up a notch and be aware of where hes at. It potentially will be a good time for all as long as no one is being played. Im saying this with all due respect as I enjoy your posts.
FBR
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Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=11648;start=msg148217#msg148 217 date=1091491644
Cali I wasnt putting forth a theory just talking
But look at it as an outsider would
He doesnt call you ASAP He understands YOUR game better than you do.
And why be all over you at the start..a bit of patience pays off in the long run ;D I bet you already telegraphed that it he honed in on you too swiftly he would be fucked as far as having future fun with you.
Sounds like this dude understands what hes doing. Just kick your game up a notch and be aware of where hes at. It potentially will be a good time for all as long as no one is being played. Im saying this with all due respect as I enjoy your posts.
FBR
Uhmmmm.......I already have a b/f. I was just talking in general.
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The thrill is the chase. Everybody loves the puppy that follows you home...but sometimes running after the thing to get it back home is more excited than opening up your door and having him waiting there for you. :D
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Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=11648;start=msg148231#msg148 231 date=1091493018
The thrill is the chase. Everybody loves the puppy that follows you home...but sometimes running after the thing to get it back home is more excited than opening up your door and having him waiting there for you. :D
LOL ESpecially if he pees just as soon as he crosses your threshold. I think Cali's friend has game but who knows.
FBR
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I agree Cali...there's something to the chase and knowing its not so easy....i dont like it if a girl throws herself at me....well considering that has happened...all of NEVER...i am still going to say i dont like it to be easy.
Plus its a little scary when people put a lot of pressure on you.
So anyway....im not talking to you for a few weeks Cali ;) LOL
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I don't chase, and I don't play games. I'd rather be challenged in other ways.
Just me,
Lena
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Originally Posted by Lena link=board=1;threadid=11648;start=msg148371#msg148 371 date=1091505270
I don't chase, and I don't play games. I'd rather be challenged in other ways.
Just me,
Lena
Im not about games at all either....its not really about that. Its hard to explain...im still a little loopy from the hospital :-\
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LOL. If someone is throwing themselves at you, it's usually 'cause they want something. Not about you, about them.
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It's kinda like a tiger! If they are hungery they will chase, but if not they want the thrill of the chase. Meaning that they will chase for the excitement and challenge. Just like humans do.
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So anyway....im not talking to you for a few weeks Cali ;) LOL
LMAO!!
Hope your feeling better soon!
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Yea, definitely not just strippers. I agree, it is true for men and women. It is good to be a nice guy, but don't confuse nice guy with needy guy.
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i don't play cat and mouse games either...and stopped 'chasing' right after college...i quickly lose interest with a man that likes to play games...and he gets crossed off my 'to do' list immediately...
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I do not chase but I like a guy who isn't needy and has his OWN interests. I don't wanna be butt buddies with the guy :moon:, but I would like to trust him.