SSSOOOOO not ready for kids... god bless all the moms out there!
So lately there have been a lot of expecting moms posting, and I just wanted to post to say what amazing people you are.
I tend to avoid the posts about pregnancy because, well, the last thing in the world that I am ready for is a kid! Granted, I am probably one of the youngest on the board (only 20), but I do not see myself ready to have kids until I'm close to 30! Does anyone else feel this way? or did you at some point? It seems like an amazing thing, but the thought of having a kid in my life scares me shitless!
Anyways... just sending my love out to all the women brave enough to be mothers!
Re:SSSOOOOO not ready for kids... god bless all the moms out there!
LOL I know that I completely felt the same way that you did when I was younger. By younger, I mean early teens, because well, I married for the first time at 16, and was pregnant just 3 months later. So, I had my first at 17. I had my second at 19. Then, with my new husband, we had our little girl when I was almost 29.
You're definitely being smart about things. You know that you're not ready for children. It's admirable that you're admitting it, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with feeling this way.
~Hugs to you Hon~
Rhi
Re:SSSOOOOO not ready for kids... god bless all the moms out there!
My children help me realize why some species eat their young.
Re:SSSOOOOO not ready for kids... god bless all the moms out there!
I totally felt the same way before I got pregnant. Hell actually after I got pregnant I was even more freaked out. But as soon as I got to see and hold my baby.......I can't even describe it. Being a mama is wonderful. :) I hope that someday when you're ready you will have lots of babies. ;D