Exactly what goes on in the VIP Room at a gentlemen's/strip club? What benefits or priviledges does a VIP member have over others?
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Exactly what goes on in the VIP Room at a gentlemen's/strip club? What benefits or priviledges does a VIP member have over others?
Your question is way too vague. Not to mention everything changes from club to club and dancer to dancer - so perhaps next time you should use the search button, then post in the correct section of the forum if you still can't find your answer...
If you're asking because you're hoping to get laid......you should probably forget it and go find an escort service for that.
VIP is more private but still depending on the club there might be a floater going around checking for any extras going on from time to time.Quote:
Originally Posted by saywhat link=board=27;threadid=11837;start=msg151253#msg15 1253 date=1091864950
It depends on the club and the girl. If you find the right combo of club and ultra high mileage girl then you can get FS but it will usually cost a lot extra. Plus you can usually get it cheaper from other venues such as an escort which specialize in FS. Also you will usually get less time with a stripper if she provides FS.
Also the obvious is that you can get away with more contact in the VIP since it is more private even if you do not get any extras.
Why not just fork up some cash and find out for yourself?
The only reason I am asking is out of curiosity. I have a friend who frequent strip clubs and allege he is a VIP member. However, I suspect he isn't fully disclosing everything that transpire in the VIP Room.
I thought what better way to find out the complete truth than here. I am uncomfortable asking him because 1) I don't want to make him uncomfortable 2) I don't want him to think I am prying for more information/details or trying to get into his business. He really tell me practically everything anyway. I seldomly have a need to ask him anything. He volunteer alot of information about his private life to me. We are good friends. Nonetheless, although he tells me practically everything, I don't think he is as open about the VIP Room.
Is the VIP Room primarily intended for guests whom are seeking sexual (pleasure) contact with the strippers? If so, generally how far are they allowed to go? Is it full service (sexual intercourse), h/j, b/j or oral sex (felletio and/or cunninglitus)?
Your reasons for not asking your friend but asking perfect strangers seems sort of odd. Just ask him, or he's not a friend. That being said, claiming he is "VIP Member" has no connection to the VIP room. Just similar names. Most likely he went to one particular club quite frequently so they gave him a "VIP Card" which he can use to get past the house/entrance fees. More often than not, these cards are easier to get than most people think but hey, they feel like a big shot because a club gave them one.
The VIP room is nothing more than a private room away from the hustle and bustle of the busy activity that is happening on the floor of the club. Dancers are able to do private dances in there without numerous other guys around staring and getting a freebie look. Generally, the dancer will feel more comfortable in there because it's more quiet and reserved and so she will give a more personalized dance for her customer. The privacy comes with a price though for the customer and generally speaking, most clubs will have a flat fee to go into the VIP room such as:
3 Dances for $100
1/2 Hour for $500
1 Hour for $1000
Sexual gratification with a stripper means she's not a stripper, she's a prostitute. BIG difference. The vast majority of dancers in a club are not prostitutes. In fact, it's more rare than you might think. Virtually all big clubs have a few girls who do "extra" work, but it's not the majority and you certainly won't find many of those types on this website. Some clubs turn their cheeks to this type of activity, and some (the good ones) have a low or zero tolerence policy towards this activity. It's bad for business for those who are clean dancers aside from the legal and moral aspects of it. So to answer your question (which seems to be thinly veiled as "can I get laid when I go to the VIP room"), no, sexual activity in most clubs does not happen on a regular basis and certainly not by the majority of dancers. There are always a few bad apples, but at the same time, every major company has a secretary who steals office supplies. It doesn't mean they are all like that.Quote:
Originally Posted by saywhat link=board=27;threadid=11837;start=msg151434#msg15 1434 date=1091898635
In the words of Chris Rock......."there's no sex in the champagne room!!!!" LOL
I must admit - your'e very perceptive. Lately, since early last year, he has been pressuring me to get a place with him, yet we're no longer dating. Now, practically everytime we talk, he hints that he want us to move in or get a place together, yet he doesn't directly come out and ask me. Instead of him directly asking me, he make suttle hints. However, he boldy suggested it to me a few months ago. The last time he mentioned it, he said he wants us to move in together because he trust me, which I believe he's being truthful about this, but I also believe it's more to it than that.
I trust him as a loyal friend, confidant, roommate, etc, but not as a live in boyfriend. In my opinion, he is a sex addict and may even be a pervert, which is a big part of the reason we broke up in the first place. His taste in sex is too kinky for me, yet I do care immensely for him still yet inspite of his faults. We have somehow managed to get past our sexual differences and grow a solid friendship since our breakup. I know he cares for me, but we didn't and couldn't work out as a couple because I have some sexual hangups and he is too sexually uninhibited for me - among other things. He is, however, a very good, loyal friend. He would do almost anything for me - vice versa. He and I have always been there for each other inspite of our differences. Yes, we have had many disagreements and even went months without speaking, yet we still never abandoned each other.
He said he go to gentlemen clubs for 2 reasons: (1) entertainment (2) sometimes when he gets horny. He confirmed the clubs admit women, but only if they are accompanied by a male. Why would any man want to bring his woman to a strip club? That's beside me. Most men visit them discretely without their wife knowledge, thus, do not want their wives to know. This leads to yet another possible misconception. This is why I suppose many women like myself suspect there is more going on than meets the eye. One day I asked him how would he feel if I was to visit the strip club one evening when he was there? He said he would feel awkward and "get the H*LL out of there". This comment made me even more suspicious . . . .
I don't trust him completely when it comes to the strip clubs because I fear he's doing more than observing partially clad women. If he is, I fear jeopardizing my sexual health if I decide to get a place with him. Above else, we are not currently dating. Although we're the best of friends (now). Why should I move in with someone I had a past with and am currently not dating?
So yes I do fear he is visiting these clubs also for sexual gratification. I suspect he is paying for sex from strange women and is withholding this information from me. He claim he go just for entertainment and on occassion when he get horny. What's going on?
Oooh, a pervert! *gasp* LOL
Sweetie, sex is just another way that people externalize and experience themselves. That's all. Your freind is probably not getting laid at the strip club, but he probably is getting something that feels signifigant to him (cuddled, abused, whipped, talked dirty to, listened to nonjudgementally, whatever). He may not be comfortable with your uncomfortableness, or he may not be comfortable being that vulnerable with you (especially if you rejected him sexually before, and he hints around about you moving in because he's too chicken to just ask).
Anyways I would say definitely don't move in with him, and read the book "Women Who Run With The Wolves."
:-)
Lena
Some women like looking at other naked women. Some of them are curious like you and want to know what goes on. Some men are turned on by the idea of a stripper dancing for their wife or girlfriend, so they drag them along. Sometimes the wife or girlfriend is also turned on by it! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by saywhat link=board=27;threadid=11837;start=msg151474#msg15 1474 date=1091903998
There are a multitude of reasons why.
Well the dude has to pay more money to hang out in a private location. Dancing privately is what goes on. Drinking, talking, you want him to spend more money. You can get a guy to really tip you in hear. It's all about talking at this point to keep them in here.
Ther is not suppose to be any nasty shit but there is. I don't even let a dude touch my leg. :)
Lena--yes. the strip club can be more than about sex..therapy sometimes. Noelle-yes,my wife is an artist and loves naked women as art subjects, and sometimes sex subjects.
Get the book Confessions of a Stripper: Tales from the VIP room.
The shit will blow you away! It's by Lacey Lane, a former stripper