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feeling guilty
A dancer recently gave me her number and we met for drinks outside the club. We had a good time, but at the end of the night neither one of us made plans to see each other again. I don't want to go to the club now, It feels like I am taking advantage of her now. I don't want her to see me as a 'customer' anymore, or see her as a 'dancer'. I suppose she thought she would see me again at the club. I'm a big dummy, I should just call again right ? ???
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Re:feeling guilty
Stop thinking so much. If you like her go and see her.
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Re:feeling guilty
I guess you have reached the next level.Go for it and see what happens.
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Re:feeling guilty
Umm...call and find out?
Is this a trick question?
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Re:feeling guilty
You can have a mutually rewarding financial relationship both inside and outside the club. Its not that difficult. On the other hand if your looking for a girlfriend that presents a whole new set of problems.
First off Id, have a very frank conversation with her to see where her head is at. And second, Id make sure you can handle what she might have in mind.
FBR
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Re:feeling guilty
I don't think I could have that conversation with her. I did my best not to even mention her work, or mine for that matter and focused on the things we had in common. Thats why I think things went so well. I want to stop going to her work. It just makes things awkward now. Like if I was to get a dance from someone else.
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Re:feeling guilty
As always, I like the way you think FBR. That's just the track I was gonna follow. :thinking: