I'm not a dancer yet, but I always wonder...
How do you singles meet ppl, you know date? I'm pretty sure lots of you wouldn't want to hook up with your customers. I know I wouldn't.
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I'm not a dancer yet, but I always wonder...
How do you singles meet ppl, you know date? I'm pretty sure lots of you wouldn't want to hook up with your customers. I know I wouldn't.
anywhere normal singles meet!
funny thing, i met my current boyfriend online, even though i thought poorly of relationships being that way, its worked out really well - better than any of my previous relationships. i think some of that had to do with the fact that i knew he had to like me for my personality, not my body. he admits he would have been to intimidated by how attractive i am to ever approach me if we would have met at a bar or something.
I would assume the same place anyone else does.
lucky guy, all i find online is goblins lolQuote:
Originally Posted by stripper83 link=board=27;threadid=11960;start=msg153368#msg15 3368 date=1092104432
You would be correct, Mr Watson :detective:Quote:
Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=27;threadid=11960;start=msg153389#msg15 3389 date=1092108667
That's a good question.
Especially to find someone with the same sleep schedule.Otherwise like I have it right now he is up 1/2 the day before I get up and I am up 1/2 the night fter he's in bed.It SUCKS.
Since I have the word STRIPPER branded on my forehead ::) I decided I have to look in special places. ::)
Seriously. We are real people... we meet regular people in regular places. :o :teacher:
LOLQuote:
Since I have the word STRIPPER branded on my forehead I decided I have to look in special places.
<S> Lexi
WAIT !! strippers are real people ?? I thought you all just stripped in a bar and then were taken back to a "stripper village" where all strippers lived and guys dreamed about finding.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=27;threadid=11960;start=msg154132#msg15 4132 date=1092201376
Where do single strippers meet guys!! This single stripper would LOVE to know, maybe there is a single-normal-smart-guy village somewhere!!!!
It would be located right next to stripperville. LOL. New JerseyQuote:
Originally Posted by Celeste24 link=board=27;threadid=11960;start=msg154401#msg15 4401 date=1092247784
Stripper83, that's so funny you say that, I met my current boyfriend online too. 7 months and counting. He's so hot, I love him, ok, enough mushyness!
Umm.. ahh.. don't ask me. I broke my "unbreakable" rule of not dating customers when I was in Mt Isa. Then again.. it was under unqiue and unusual circumstances.
Generally I do not go looking for dates of any kind at work. I'm there to work. Just that I really REALLY clicked with this guy... so far so good. We'll just have to see.
None-the-less, if I did start dating... I wouldn't even look at nightclubs even for dates.
Hmm.... I'm clueless as to where I would actually go or do if I wanted to date! I've been "out of the game" so long that I have no idea.
I'm pretty boring. I met my last girlfreind at lesbian sushi night, the one before that at a potluck.
I've found it hard to find a date also. I find it quite hard to lie about what I do so I don't. Most of my dates don't get past the first date because the subject of what I do always comes up. As soon as I say the word Seymore Butts it's over. I guess I'll just become asexual :banghead:
I started "seeing" one of my customers outside of work, and it turned out... I dunno. Because of the way we met, it seemed I could never get past "stripper" in his head even tho -- as all of us do -- there's a hell of a lot more to me than that. Sometimes he calls still, but I feel very blah about it... like he has no interest in seeing the real me.
My more pressing problem of guys, is not "where" but "when to tell him."
I met my husband in a class room or workshop situation. It was an improvisation acting workshop where people just dropped in to work their craft for three hours. We then went to a local bar and played pool, cribbage or gossiped and drank. I actually new him in a light aquaitance kind of way for almost two years before we started dating.
In fact our first date was really not supposed to be a date. There was a film screening from a filmmaker that I had been working with. I had nobody to go with me that night, so I asked him to accompany me. Just as a friend. He called later that week and asked if I would like to get a bite before attending the screening. I figured pizza slices and some beer and off to the screening. He picked me up in a rental car, (we both lived and worked in San Francisco at the time, so he just used public trasportation) and took me to one of the hottest restaurants in SF at that time. He looked elegant and smelled great. I wasn't sure i really wanted a serious BF at the time, but he courted me w/ elaborate, expensive flowers at my work and more wonderful dinners and a trip to New York just to see plays and hang out , all expences paid.
He is now laid off of that posh job, but has another one and we have been married for fourteen months. He has never seen me dance, but he trusts my judgement.
Yes, my single lady and gentlemen friends, true, wholesome, honest people are out there, just waiting to be discovered. Shit, I wanted to fuck him for nearly two years. i was just to shy to let him know. He felt he was "out of my league." WTF?!! I am so lucky to have such a good friend and soul mate for a husband.
Yes, it does happen. I have met cool guys through snowboarding. I had searched craigslist for partners for my favorite snow sport. Even though, I am married, I meet great guys that I can introduce to other girlfriends.
Cheers,
Corey
Where do nice guys meet single dancers.
ha ha ha, I know you get to meet them like regular ppl do.
but what i meant to ask is, you know with the busy schedule how do you find time to meet someone, that's NOT a customer? I actually wouldn't want to date customer, better yet....not mixing business with pleasure. ;)
Also, how do you tell that person you do what you do without them judging you? That is my MAJOR concern. Should I tell that guy or no? UGH, I hate judgemental ppl. ::)
I can't say I have ever found "the right time" to tell anyone. People will react as they do, and unfortunately no matter how you feel for each other or think you do, you cannot control the others opinions. Some people will have a negative reaction. Some people will never get over it, some will with time. You will always run into judgemental jackass' who will change their entire attitude once you tell them. It's just like every other relationship: be honest from the start and let time do the rest. The good ones are out there. I do find it works best not to let my boyfriends come to my place of work. Gets a lot more awkward after that.
I usually meet people through friends of mine.... it s really hard to meet guys though and then expect a good guy to stick around after finding out your a dancer right off the bat. Not that I am ashamed of being a dancer, but I find there are far too many stereotypes or misconceptions to let that slip out on the first date... :-[
How about asking where single customers meet people ;D
when my BF was in law school, she used to study at Starbucks a lot. She swears this is the place to meet quality guys.
They approached her all of the time. She says if she's ever single again she'll re-factor in the Latte.
:headbanger:
I told my husband,(then just a first date) on my first date that I danced. His reaction was, "Oh, really?"
Four and a half years later we are married and he has NEVER seen my dance, except for on a regular club dance floor.
Corey