The Anniversary that wasn't....
Today would have been my 12 year wedding anniversary.. and I received a phone call to tell me what a cold hearted bitch I am...
Hmmm.. wondering now why I lasted so long.... Funny, how when you are away from the problem the problem doesn't seem so big anymore, but just a big fat case of drama that is being dumped on you by someone who should have grown up a long time ago.
SO... Here's to me and here's to being free...
I'm getting my icecream now...
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Hey, just celebrate that you're lucky that SOB is not with you! :party: ;D
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Good riddance.
Speaking of anniversaries...any suggestions for numero cinco?
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Hey, good for you. You have always impressed me as independent and self sufficient.... for a Boise Mountain Woman.
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Sometimes I feel like a motherless child
Sometimes I feel like a motherless child
Sometimes I feel like a motherless child
A long way from my home
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Freedom
Sometimes I feel like I’m almost gone
Sometimes I feel like I’m almost gone
Sometimes I feel like I’m almost gone
A long, long, long, way, way from my home
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Clap your hands
Hey…yeah
I got a telephone in my bosom
And I can call him up from my heart
I got a telephone in my bosom
And I can call him up from my heart
When I need my brother…brother
When I need my mother…mother
Hey…yeah…etc.
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How was your ice cream Gynger? Alot better than he ever was, right?! ;)
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:monkeedance: Just be glad he can't hurt you EVERY single day anymore. I feel the same wat about my ex husband. He can be as mean to me as he wants, but all I have to do is hang up the phone!!!! here's to your freedom girl!!! :cheers:
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Originally Posted by VADEN link=board=1;threadid=12981;start=msg168299#msg168 299 date=1094088549
How was your ice cream Gynger? Alot better than he ever was, right?! ;)
That's too funny. Ice cream is my 'solution' to a lot of things. P.S.. it's a little old but I would have married 27 years, but it was cut short at 19. Ah...well..
Keep smiling!
>>>Sad<<<
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Hey, Gynger...can I have some ice cream with you?
I'll bet it feels good to be rid of that whole situation. Now, when you tell him to "grow up" and "get a life" you can hang up the phone and move on with your own. :D
Here's to the first year of freedom!! YEAH!! That's a reason to party...if you're going to be in the Chicago area, you can always come and celebrate at my house. :D
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Wow, where have I been ? I had no idea you were single. Well, anyway, you're not a coldhearted bitch, I'm sure you did what was right. Enjoy that ice cream. It really does help!
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Awwww honey I am sorry things are so messed up but from what you have told me you are better off without him. Keep your head up and get on with your life. You will be happy again I promise muahz hunny I will try and contact you by phone muahz
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Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=1;threadid=12981;start=msg168277#msg168 277 date=1094086571
.. and I received a phone call to tell me what a cold hearted bitch I am...
For just a minute that sounded like a good thing to give my X for our next non-aniversary :embarrassed:
Sorry :shy:
I'll go back to being civil, now. :)
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Wow!Sorry to hear that.But glad you are doing good with the freedom.
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Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=1;threadid=12981;start=msg168277#msg168 277 date=1094086571
Today would have been my 12 year wedding anniversary.. and I received a phone call to tell me what a cold hearted bitch I am...
Hmmm.. wondering now why I lasted so long.... Funny, how when you are away from the problem the problem doesn't seem so big anymore, but just a big fat case of drama that is being dumped on you by someone who should have grown up a long time ago.
SO... Here's to me and here's to being free...
I'm getting my icecream now...
Thats's a great attutude, Gyn.
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I'm about to embark on the journey of divorce also.
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Hope yours goes better than mine did.
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You have my number..phones on 24/7 call if ya need me hun!
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Here's to you, Gynger! :cheers:
After my divorce, I celebrated the "anniversary" of my divorce for a couple of years with... CHEESECAKE! Not just any cheesecake either.. Gregg's cheesecake.. mmmm! I even framed my divorce papers. They were my trophy for lasting 7 years.. LOL
Hope you're doing well, and you know I'm here if you need anything (including cement shoes for the ex.. heh)
*muah*
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I don't even get a call anymore from the ex on the old wedding anniversay. I think I made my point clear the last 3 anniversaries that it was obivious that he wasn't over me and I was over him and since he isn't I'll send him a nice gift of a restraining order summons.
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Hey, Gyn. I can only imagine what mine would say. Take care, you sound like you're in a better place.
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Gynger,
you'll make it through this since you have such a great outlook on things. make today an anniversary about you....celebrate you and all the wonderful things you can do.
here's a toast to ya :beer:
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Thank you all..
Its nice to be able to say something here and know that likely someone else has had a similiar experience of sorts... God, I just hope none of you have had mine..
I have been exercising my freedom every spare chance I get while he sits and stews and pouts because he isn't getting what he wants.. oh well, perhaps he should have thought about his actions before he was so quick to go..
Here's to new beginnings... YAY!
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Hmmm Gynger is almost single, should I give ya time to get used to it or should I strike while yer horny?wanna go out to dinner? can i see ya outside of stripperweb?huh huh huh? lol