Does any one know if NJ [Edison NJ to be exact] has a "no-touch" ordinance? Where can I find the rules [ordinance] for lap dances in New Jersey.
thanks
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Does any one know if NJ [Edison NJ to be exact] has a "no-touch" ordinance? Where can I find the rules [ordinance] for lap dances in New Jersey.
thanks
There aren't any clubs in Edison proper. Delilah's Den is closest one and there is contact there.
NinaDaisy,
You are right it is in South Amboy, I see there is contact there [I went to check it out and I am thinking about working there.] But I want to know it is legally permited or dancers are breaking the rules and people just look the other way?
Thanks Nina
I go to Delilah's Den in NJ and there is minimal touching. It all depends on the dancer.
BUT, you CANNOT touch the dancers up on stage. That is strictly prohibited. If you get a private dance, your allowed to touch the dancers thighs, legs and other parts. No chest,ass or pooty.
However, I received a couple dances where the dancer took my hand and she let me rub her ass or her breasts. It all depends I guess.
Technically, by the law, you cannot touch. But, it is rarely enforced as most clubs I have been to have had enough contact to keep me coming back!
Dancing in NY and NJ basically boils down to every dancer breaking the law all night every night, with a "blind eye" being turned by the cops and local residents 99.999% of the time. However, if somebody gets a big enough bug up their ass for some reason, it's entirely possible for every dancer in the club to be hit with a prostitution charge. Thus the most important thing is for a dancer to have a feel for the local 'climate', and to avoid any clubs which are at odds with local residents.
There are very strict laws.. In one club I worked in we were not allowed to get tips in our cleavage because if the guy grazed our breast and gave us $1 then that is considered prostitution. Another clubs we had to give airdances or got reprimanded by management. To be totally safe you could stick to clubs that don't offer lapdances such as Lookers in Elizabeth and get you tips in your hand.
And Delilahs is a whole other story. No contact on stage at all. Guys can only tip in the garter on the girls ankle most of the time. In the lapdance room it varies and in the VIP room it varies.