MALE ACCUSATION PET PEEVE
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What do you think of guys who accuse a woman of lining up a new man before the woman leaves a relationship? I was just recalling how my ex accused me of cheating on him or finding another guy when I left him. He was the kind of man who would blame everyone but himself for anything.
Nope, sometimes we just leave 'cause we cannot stand the guy anymore. My ex left me ulcers as a parting gift, among other things.
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Guys are so egotistical and insecure.
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I'll tell you what I hate and I'm dealing with it right now...
My bf and I broke up. He's been calling other chicks on the phone behind my back and he told me he wanted me in his life but he also wanted to date other girls to see if he's missing anything. To me that means he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. FUCK THAT!!!!!!!! I told him no fucking way, if he wants to be with someone els4e then he can't have me too.
Anyway, last Sunday I went to this radio hosted music concert with a ton of cool bands. One of my favorite bands, Candiria, was playing and I got to go backstage and hang out with them after their set. The guitarist was totally hitting on me and I was loving it (he's a hottie!). Well, I told the ex about the concert and he was pissed cuz it's one of his fave bands too. He told me to go date the rockstar. ?????????? WTF!?!?!?!
Well today I got an email from the guitarist. The ex called and I told him I got an email from him. Now he's the biggest crybaby and he's telling me to go be with him and to date him and shit, making me feel like I did something wrong. THE GUY HAS A GF! But this prick is making it into something it's not and trying to divert from the fact that he wants fresh tail. He's out to make me look like the asshole.
Point is: Sassy men suck and Candiria rules!!!!!!
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Ouch, so generalistic... ;-P
Lemme guess, this guy liked to make you feel down on yourself, slightly snide, sarcastic remarks every now and then, etc.
His accusation is a function not merely of ego, but a deep-rooted fear of rejection. He can not stand the idea that he was rejected, as such he needs to deflect the feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. Sadly, many men only know how to redirect it towards anger and will find any reason to express that anger. In attacking you he finds validation for his anger.
Don't let him get to you. If you do, he still wins, even though you've left. Brush him off. If he accuses you, just tell him, "Yep, and it was gooooooood. So much better than you!" and hang up.
Yer better of without a guy like that, hon, tell him to sit and spin.
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watch out for rock stars- Theri lifestylr is a horrid woman filled mine field.
From experience and who I work with....
Guys are still hot though, just a little simple ;D
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Yeah, basic reproductive science explains jealous and possessive behavior in men AND women...but it stinks when you try to be go beyond that and get knocked down. Transcendence!!!!! Dammit!!!!!
One of the few people I confide in is an ex, but I can tell hates hearing about other guys, so I cap that. But I wish I could share. I would love to hear about his dating life, but he thinks I don't so he won't share either. We walled eachother off, and it's a shame.
My favorite Jealous Male Statement is a Lou Reed song where he talks about wanting to throw his woman's exes off of a high rooftop. Heh heh.
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I have to say that this type of thing isn't contained to just the male gender. I've known plenty of women with this personality type, and who practice this type of behavior.
You're better off without him nonetheless, Maxine. And who knows? He could've been accusing you because he was doing it...
*Hugs to you*
Hey Wolfie? HAPPY BIRTHDAY! :cheers:
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I like
[move=left,scroll,6,transparent,100%]your so vain[/move]
[move=left,scroll,6,transparent,100%]I bet you think this song is about you[/move]
No boy or girl is worth the effort of wasting our lives bickering and moaning over petty squabbles.
If I was lining up a new guy, it's because the old guy sucked and suckedhard enough for me to drag him along for whatever it was I am dragging him along for. Money, sex, food, a ride
wow that sounds harsh. I am usually able and willing to make a nice clean split, but some guys just really deserve the extra ;)time I spend with them.
This is not a "flame on" man post though, I love guys. They can just be a little simple. ;D
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Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=1;threadid=14020;start=msg185122#msg185 122 date=1096570913
Guys are so egotistical and insecure.
EASY with the generaliztaions....we're not all bad. :-*
Men accusing women of cheating? It happens....but it also happens the other way around...
Its usually the person who is cheating that does the accusing or has something to hide...ask me how I know :-\
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Originally Posted by Hottie7268 link=board=1;threadid=14020;start=msg185128#msg185 128 date=1096571485
I'll tell you what I hate and I'm dealing with it right now...
My bf and I broke up. He's been calling other chicks on the phone behind my back and he told me he wanted me in his life but he also wanted to date other girls to see if he's missing anything. To me that means he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. FUCK THAT!!!!!!!! I told him no fucking way, if he wants to be with someone els4e then he can't have me too.
Anyway, last Sunday I went to this radio hosted music concert with a ton of cool bands. One of my favorite bands, Candiria, was playing and I got to go backstage and hang out with them after their set. The guitarist was totally hitting on me and I was loving it (he's a hottie!). Well, I told the ex about the concert and he was pissed cuz it's one of his fave bands too. He told me to go date the rockstar. ?????????? WTF!?!?!?!
Well today I got an email from the guitarist. The ex called and I told him I got an email from him. Now he's the biggest crybaby and he's telling me to go be with him and to date him and shit, making me feel like I did something wrong. THE GUY HAS A GF! But this prick is making it into something it's not and trying to divert from the fact that he wants fresh tail. He's out to make me look like the asshole.
Point is: Sassy men suck and Candiria rules!!!!!!
[move=left,scroll,6,transparent,100%]STOP TALKING TO HIM
FORGET ABOUT THAT LOSER
STOP TALKING TO HIM
FORGET ABOUT THAT LOSER
STOP TALKING TO HIM
FORGET ABOUT THAT LOSER
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Get the point :P
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no generalization manass ;)
By the way I even get the point
lol
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ok ok ok! I get the point! ::)
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Originally Posted by Briar link=board=1;threadid=14020;start=msg185152#msg185 152 date=1096573264
no generalization manass ;)
By the way I even get the point
lol
:rotfl: I understand..... it happens...i just meant OTB's post was a generalization....not yours...
Most of the things posted are actually true...but the key word is MOST ;D not ALL
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Thanks, Rhia! Cheers!
I've been there, too, AinNY, so I feel ya. A guilty conscience can be a real biatch.
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Originally Posted by Hottie7268 link=board=1;threadid=14020;start=msg185154#msg185 154 date=1096573322
ok ok ok! I get the point! ::)
BOUT TIME :cheers:
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Originally Posted by madmaxine link=board=1;threadid=14020;start=msg185121#msg185 121 date=1096570835
>:(
What do you think of guys who accuse a woman of lining up a new man before the woman leaves a relationship?
Guys do it too.
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Originally Posted by Briar link=board=1;threadid=14020;start=msg185141#msg185 141 date=1096572291
watch out for rock stars- Theri lifestylr is a horrid woman filled mine field.
From experience and who I work with....
Hockey players too.... >:(
I can't even comment on this thread right now.... I have to think first.. but I have bookmarked it.. my two cents to be revealed after I have cooled my hot headed russian temper.
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Fair enough - every case has to dealt with on its own merits and accusations of that sort should never be blindly hurled at someone absent solid evidence to back same up. HOWEVER... much like many of the more common stereotypes, it didn't just come out of nowhere; many women do in fact do this, and guys see it happen over and over, all around them, from the time they're in High School. As with stereotypes, that's no excuse for making the logical leap to the assumption that that's always the case - BUT, you do need to realize there is a rational basis for the underlying belief.
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Yah I can personally say that Rock Stars are a little sketchy. I have a friend dating one of the avalanche (scary)