Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
Hi everyone!
Well im new to the stripping game. I live in north Florida where the city I live in doesnt have any type of strip clubs whatsoever! I know, its crazy! Here you go through a company,like a referral service, and the company calls you when they have a customer that wants a dancer to go to their home or hotel room or whatever. So thats what i do. Ive only done it twice my first night i did a party - 6 guys, I made 140 in tips.
The second party was not as succesful. Since Im not dancing at a strip club I would like some advice from strippers who go out to the houses/hotel rooms to dance. How nasty should i get? Does it help if i talk dirty to the guys? What props can I use? I wanted to bring like a vibrator or dildo, make it a little more interesting for the audience. Should I play with myself a little, i know i have to be a tease. How can I get the most money out of these guys? Please respond if you have answers, I Need Help!
Thanks!
Caramel Latina :P
Re:Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
Only my opinion so please take no offense.
I think you should drive to the next town over and find a club to dance in.
You will be safe,and in a controlled situation.When you walk into a house or hotel room,its not always like that.
And you will generally make more then 140 dollars.
I for one HATE private parties in hotel rooms and at someones house.I think they should be outlawed and i always warn the girls I work with against them.
Be careful.
Re:Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
Yes, i know its dangerous. 2 of my friends that ive known for sometime do it also. They say that its not too bad, and that nothing has happened to them. Of course I take a male friend who i know will be there in case i have a problem. He always drives me to where the party is taking place. I did consider going to the next city and going to strip at a club there. Which would be Panama City, in Fl. How much would I make at a club per night....average? ANYONE?
Well thanx for your opinion buddy!
Re:Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
um, girl.. its time to find a club!!!
its not worth 140 bucks. start makin' the big bucks!!!
where in n florida are you where they dont have strip clubs?
Re:Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
I do private shows on occasion but not for a agency. I feel there is an element of risk in working that way.
As a dancer guys who spend money on you IN THE CLUB will ask for a show. Generally guys whom I deal with have been gentlemen in the club or are customers who randomly see me in clubs I work at and I make it clear to them that there is no sex involved that they have to "get themselves off". if the guy won't buy dances in the club or hasn't spent money, or if I sense he wants more, I don't deal with him.
I charge $200 for about 40 minutes and the guys I deal with are known in the club or keep in contact with me plus my guy waits for me and knows my whereabouts.
I would work in a club over for an agency and focus on dancing. You can tell the guys who aren't just expecting a fuck.
A show to me is just "extra" money. I will turn guys down more than do private shows.
With an agency, you don't know who you are going to see and they haven't seen you first and gotten to know you as they would in a club.
A contact club is a better deal than doing shows for an agency, plus guys that call an agency really want sex. An irate guy could become aggressive if he pays the agency fee plus your fee and doesn't get sex.
As far as areas in Florida with no clubs Northern Florida doesn't have any. Tallahassee and most towns up there have no clubs. The closest place to dance would be in Pensacola and I'm not sure how many clubs Panama City has or the income potential.
Moneywise, you just have to observe the clubs and see how much business is done and how many dances are being sold.
Are you able to travel 2-3 weeks per month? You could go into a city, get hired in several clubs that have no set schedules and work everyday when out of town and take off when you are at home.
If you find a halfway decent club you could travel to, I would say your AVERAGE earnings potential after payouts would be $125-$300 per night IF you are a good floor worker and approach every guy making a total effort to sell dances. Some nights you may be able to clear $300+. I'm giving you conservative figures as a lot depends on the contact allowed on the dances, your selling skills and hustle, and how much business and the type of customers who make up the majority in the club (guys 35-65 who come in alone of course are the best).
Re:Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
i live in Tallahassee. The closest city I know of that has strip clubs is Panama City. Its an hour or so away from Tally. Ive already called 3 different clubs to get their exact locations so i can go this weekend.
The thing is that I work 8-5 Mon-Fri, so I'll only be able to go to Panama City on weekends. I can get most of my bills paid with this job, but not all. I'm struggling so i need to get something at night that pays good.
Re:Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
North Fl. does suck for strip clubs. Too bad you are not closer to me! I can take you to south beach and you would have a ball!
Anyway, i do private shows. I charge $$ all depending on what they want, all negotiated over the phone. I will ALWAYS have another person present with me, and make a call out to another friend.
Private parties are fun! I go all out. But lots of precautions to take, and of course when arriving GET the $$$ first. I do not accept tips for "extra" games. Was told not a good idea, legally.
Most private parties are not about dancing, or just stripping, at least in my case. I do shower shows, dildo/toy shows, and nude friction dances. ALL with no touching my private areas.
There is a very very fine line not to cross.
Have fun, be safe, and a private party is about what you feel comfortable with doing. Again this should be done on the phone, no games.
I hit hotel rooms, very seldom a home.
Safety, safety safety ;)
Pm me if you want to know more. But i do alot at parties, with no sex with a man, no girl-girl shows, and no touching privates on either person.....well only my grind, if the customer wishes, and has already paid.
I charge depending on how many men, and my time, along with what they would like to see.
Price has been from $200 for 45 min (usually 1 guy, a regular), to $600 for 1 hour!!!! More than 3 guys not over 5. It's very do-able.....Very!
Pamela
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Originally Posted by Pamela link=board=25;threadid=14167;start=msg187753#msg18 7753 date=1096992695
... I will ALWAYS have another person present with me, and make a call out to another friend...
Safety, safety safety ;)
If you're going to do at all, do it this way - and by all means, take Pamela up on her invitation to PM her and learn as much as you can. For obvious reasons, what you're contemplating doing has much potential for going very, very badly each and every time you do it, so you need to do as much as you possibly can to lower the odds of anything going wrong before you start. Good luck.
Re: Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
Yeah, find a club, you will do much better, even if you have to drive for an hour, it will be worth it
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I'm a girl who has stripper ADD. I like to do it all, clubs, parties, contests, modeling, etc. It just depends on my mood as to if I prefer one over the other. Lately I've been all about review shows and contests, but I have and do, do a lot of parties. I have never done a party of one, however, I'm not opposed to the idea. It just seems like everytime a guy wants a one on one party, he is not happy with the no sex aspect, so it doesn't happen.
You can check out an article I've put up on my website that is aimed at the guys, but you might be able to get some useful information too. the addy is http://parislove.net/partytips.html
I'll have time to write an article for conducting a successful stripper party for the girls later, and submit it to Pryce for use on this site.
I would also like to say that $140 for doing a private party is pretty low (unless the party was less that half an hour long). I think most girls walk away from a party with no less than $300 and frequently up to $1000 and more.
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Girls, it is very dangerous to do private parties. I was left alone w/ this guy whom I felt a little sorry for. We ended up being the last people there. He gets up falls to the floor and I didn't know it at the time (I thought he was dying) has a drug overdose. I cannot tell you how scared and traumatized this situation has made me. I am in counseling, but cannot discuss everything w/ the psychologist. Luckily this guy survived. I stayed w/ him for a while, stopped working and are changing my life in some ways. No amount of $ is worth the mental anguish and traumatic things you will see these guys doing/ going through. Please be careful.
Re: Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
Please try and avoid the motel/house partys. They are bad news. Unless you are bringing a body guard with you, I would not suggest it. Stick with a club and bank your cash there. Stay safe sweetie......;)
Re: Just started, need advice from dancers who go to houses/hotel rooms plz!
I am with Vaden on this one.