Husbands & Wives At Strip Clubs
Hi All,
I have recently started going to strip clubs with my husband - the first time I had an alright time and just took in the whole atmosphere etc....my husband and I had a joint lap dance and I had no problem receiving the lap dance, but had a hard time watching him get one. Now I am becoming more comfortable with it, from certain dancers only but was wondering how you dancers feel about giving a man a lap dance when his significant other is present and how you feel about giving wives lap dances?
Thanks!
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For me it just depends on the attitude of the wife... i wont give a lapdance to a guy when his SO is scoffing at me or him.. Or looks like shes going to blow... But if bolth parties are all for it i have no problem in doing the dance.. I dance for bf/gf on an avrage of once every 2 nights
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I am not one who shows that I am bothered (if I am, which was only when I first started going) at the club, especially because it is usually my idea to go there with my Husband. I read a post that Celeste wrote on another forum that gave great advice - make the female feel good about herself....work her rather than the man! Trust me, as a female customer, it works!!!
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I dance for many couples. As long as they are cool, I'm cool. ;)
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I'll dance for couples no problem , but with some I have to distinguish that I am there just to dance for them for not to become a third party.
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I like dancing for the ladies. I always make sure they are totally comfortable with me. Last time I worked, I danced for three couples and spent a good amount of time with each. The relationships were healthy and I focused more on the women...if the woman is happy then the man is happy. 8)
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Not long ago, I took my SO to a strip club. We had previously discussed her doing some stripping and she wanted a closer look at a club. We went to a club that I would describe as middle of the road. We were welcomed without any difficulties and mutually and separately indulged in a couple of lap dances. All in all, it was a great experience.Mithra
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I'm all good with either, usually SOs don't mind their man getting dances, but sometimes it is better to "send him off" for a dance instead of being there, and then switch off. I did this with one couple and was fun. Plus during couples dances I think sometimes one feels gypped, because both people are only getting half the attention. But if the guy wants to SEE his wife getting a lap, then is all cool.