Have you ever visited a SC with your S/O?
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She gets mad if I don't take her. ;D
This post by big_daddy got me wondering.
I see couples at the SC all the time so I was wondering how many of you (guys and gals) have visited a SC with your S/O (past or present).
If so, did you enjoy it? Did it turn you on and lead to some hot steamy sex, or did it just lead to problems rearing their ugly heads (i.e. jealousies/insecurities)?
If not, why? Is it just something that you just don't want to share, would you just be too uncomfortable with it, would S/O be too uncomfortable with it, did S/O just have no interest in going? Spill it.
I'm currently without a S/O, in the past when I did have a S/O I really didn't visit SC's much, the times I did go my S/O's just had no interest in joining me. I would certainly be open to it though. LOL, maybe I'm just a naive single guy but I think it would be fun.
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I can see me taking the lil women to meet hot strippers:) NOT
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Would never happen with Mrs FBR. Shes a "black and white" kinda gal and thinks stripping its wrong. No "gray" areas for her. I think she believes the customers and dancers engage in wild, orgiastic sex. To be truthful, Im not sure Id want to take her even if she were interested.
FBR
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"Honey, I'd like you to meet (fillinyouratf). This is the woman I was fantasizing about while we were having sex the other night" Yeah right, like this is EVER gonna happen!
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Oddly enough, I show up here solely to write up a trip report for last Saturday, which was one of the SO's Christmas presents, and I find this thread.
We love going together, for many reasons. I have always been ready to conceed that I may not be the sole creature on earth able to awaken The Beast. But no matter how many dollars he tips on stage, he is ever ready with a compliment to me.
"She has nice, real tits, but I'll bet she can't make a pie like you can."
"How about her? She's almost as beautiful as you."
(Returning from a dance) : "She was a lot of fun. Reminds me of you."
Comments like that are half the fun of taking him to the SC.
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I would not even think about asking the Mrs. In fact this is a very timely topic. I'm usually an after work club visitor and there are hardly ever any SO early on weeknights. But my ATF worked this past Saturday owing to the shakeup in hours with the holiday and all. Anyway I went to the club for the first time on a late Saturday night and there were a bunch of couples - at least 8 - 10 SOs. Now 1 or 2 could have hopped on stage they were rocking - but I was thinking to myself - OK so why are they here? Whats the tag line, honey you don't get me hot enough so I want to take you with me to see hotter girls? Maybe the SO are into it? I don't know? That's the question I want to explore as well. If you do go to a club with your SO, why? But getting back to the original question. I don't have any intentions of the MRS. knowing I'm there, forget about me inviting her along. You think it was tough to get her interested in taking up golf?
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Geez..I couldn't think of anything worse than taking the SO along. I would have to think that would be akin to some kind of hellish pergatory on earth. Not gonna happen to this guy anytime soon!
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I guess my wife is really cool huh? ;D The only bad thing about bring your s/o with you would be the fantasy of going out on her. That's one of the main reasons I go to clubs. I can play around and not worrie about the girl calling sometime and the s/o picking up the phone.
Another draw back is most of the girls wont come to our table. Thats fine sometimes we just sit and watch. I tell her I'm going to get her a lap dance but shes not sure about it yet.
My s/o has even came and got me in the mall and took me to see other hot chics. I am a lucky man ;D
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my s/o is an ice queen, so no......hence why i go to SCs
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Not with my S/O, but I have visited SC's with dancers on at least 3 occasions. No, not while they were working LOL. I must admit, it was cool. No one ignored us at all and I had a great time. Brought one lady to VIP. I think she had a better time than I did LMAO
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I've gone in the past with my SO and always had fun. I do think the guy has to be open-minded about going to see guys dance too. No, I don't want my man to be gay :)
Not sure where you can go where they let couples in to see men dance though. I think there are some places that have female strippers on one side and male strippers on the other. Everyone's happy then!
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I don't have to deal with this issue 'cause I have no SO :)
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have a few times with a variety of different results. vegas was an absolute blast, down here expierence has been that couple are passed over.
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I would really like to go to a strip club with my boyfriend, but he doesn't seem interested--he's never been before. I would bring it up and ask him if we could go together, but he doesn't really like that I dance--I think it would be a sore subject.
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Hi, I'm a dancer in San Francisco, and while I think that men with significant others should be able to enjoy strip clubs, I wonder how many of you are going without your SOs knowing? Even though I am a dancer, the thought of my SO going WITHOUT my knowledge or at least without disclosing this information to me, is disheartening. It isn't so much the act of going, but the deception. Just wondering how many of you have had healthy discussions of this with your SOs and have come to a good compromise.
Also, that quote below makes me sad because if you can not even enjoy your wife sexually, then what kind of relationship do you have? I understand that strip clubs are fun from time to time, and it's a great release to diffuses the hard wired instinct that men have to screw women other than their SOs, however, if you are also bringing the thought of another woman into the bedroom, that is truly sad!!! Enjoy your SO when you are with her sexually, and be there, in the moment, instead of having sex with her, while your thoughts are with a dancer who does not care for you in anyway, other than your money. Don't you think that's a little unfair to your SO? Since I have no doubt in my mind that she is a wonderful and beautiful woman.
"Honey, I'd like you to meet (fillinyouratf). This is the woman I was fantasizing about while we were having sex the other night" Yeah right, like this is EVER gonna happen!
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On occasion I go with my S.O., especially if we want to see the atmosphere at a club. She doesn't mind if I go alone, it can also be scouting the place for her, and she knows I'm coming home to her. Basically, I just don't go much because I'd rather spend the money on a woman I will be with for more than the length of a song. I don't think I've ever gotten a lap when I've gone with her, although I doubt she'd mind (a VIP, OTOH....). She's not the type to get laps from other women.
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I have gone with girlfriends over the years. It can be fun as long as the dancers who working are couple friendly, sometimes we get the cold shoulder at the same club as that I have had fun in by myself :-\