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Ladies, you're pretty hot and all, but...
...you're not that fucking great. I read some recent post on stripperweb.com about how customers should not lose sight of the "fantasy" and all that same old b.s. Ladies, there is no reason for us to think you are all that great that we cannot ask you out, or for us to care that you are just there to do your job. We really don't give a shit. We cannot know that without asking you. Just deal with it. Preferably, be honest if you are capable of it, and tell us your schpiel about how you don't date customers, you think we're all scum, you wouldn't have anything to do with us if we weren't paying you, blah, blah, blah..... I know that is pretty hard for strippers, that whole honesty ordeal. I think it is erroneous to assume that if you turn us down that we won't want to be your customer anymore. If we are enjoying your company, we probably still will and it will be that much easier that we got that whole not being able to see you outside of the club thing out of the way. Yes, we may be disappointed that we will never be able to fuck you on a regular basis free of charge but we will also be relieved that we will not have to put up with all the bullshit and drama that goes along with having to know a stripper outside of the club full time. It's really not free once you think about it.
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Re: Ladies, you're pretty hot and all, but...
Damn do you have some anger issues.. Anyway.....
If it is our job to be sexy, then I would hope to hear some of those things.....
Because a customer asks to see us out side the club/ or for extras ect, doesn't mean he gets them.
I would feel like if I didn't hear any of these things, maybe I am not doing my job right.....
I am never offended by any of this, why should I be, let's see I am basicily naked, bouncing all over your dick, giving you my best come fuck me eyes, and how I would expect you not to say anything.....
No I don't think I am something all that great by the way ml, but I know my job, and I do it damn well..... So I would hope to hear these things, as they stroke my ego to keep me doing my job well...
Licks Cyn
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Also, in the event that you happen to be attracted to one of your customers and want to ask him out, please remember that we are not there to pick you up. We are just at the club to get our knobs slobbered on and leave. Taking you out is not in the cards. What are we supposed to do, wine and dine you and treat you like a lady, take you to the finest restaurants, you with your thong coming out of the top of your skirt, like we're even going to get in the front door. Then I take you to a party of some of my close friends where people are mingling and the only small talk you can make are the merits of the Playstation 2 vs. the Microsoft XBox and how the Cartoon Network keeps changing their schedule around and you can never find your favorite shows anymore. Do you ever stop to think that it might be a stretch for us to condescend to go out with you?
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LOL...sorry about laughing ML. It looks like the "Official Button Pusher" is back in action and in rare form indeed. ;)
BTW- Did it ever occur to you to do business with dancers that can actually carry on a conversation? I wouldn't want a girl that couldn't bouncing all over me. ::)
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Ladies, ML speaks for himself and I hope you don't accept him as being representative of all your customers.
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Problem with ML's post is that it's all SUPPOSED to be fantasy, with notable exceptions :P. So if guys go with the only purpose of actually scoring with a stripper, then hell yeah he'll feel frustrated.
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Problem with ML's post is that it's all SUPPOSED to be fantasy, with notable exceptions :P.
Who started this rumor that strip clubs are for fantasy? What are we supposed to fantasize about, that these girls are our girlfriends or something? Like we actually want some trashy ho's as our girlfriends? I'm at the clubs to fondle the naked chicks they keep there.
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I read some recent post on stripperweb.com about how customers should not lose sight of the "fantasy" and all that same old b.s.
uh-oh. you really shouldn't take SW so seriously. some of the posters seem to be believe that stripping hasn't changed since the 1950's. it's a common theme over there and most of the time it's just a mixture of cognitive dissonance, dancer politics and milage envy, enforced by certain posters to make sure all the girls march in lockstep.
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Preferably, be honest if you are capable of it, and tell us your schpiel about how you don't date customers, you think we're all scum, you wouldn't have anything to do with us if we weren't paying you, blah, blah, blah.....
and it's just that in some cases..a spiel... i'm sure you've been to SC where the reality doesn't quite match the ideas on SW. it's sort of like asking a stripper (or a non-stripper) if they ever cheated on their taxes. of course,most people will say no. however,the IRS knows that a certain amount of the population will cheat on their taxes every year.
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Who started this rumor that strip clubs are for fantasy? What are we supposed to fantasize about, that these girls are our girlfriends or something? Like we actually want some trashy ho's as our girlfriends? I'm at the clubs to fondle the naked chicks they keep there.
;D it wasn't me. it is not definately not my style to had over a wad of cash to a dancer just to watch her "create a erotic fantasy in my mind thru the power of erotic dancing." ::) no thanks. i'll stay home and watch "Flashdance" instead.
What a feeling, bein's believin'
I can have it all, now I'm dancin' for my life
Take your passion, and make it happen
Pictures come alive, you can dance right through your life
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I'm at the clubs to fondle the naked chicks they keep there.
Actually ML, I thing your sig states your true purpose at the clubs even better. LOL. ;D
"Enough with the formalities, sweetie. Please unzip my pants and proceed with your sloppy, unenthusiastic blowjob."
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I'm at the clubs to fondle the naked chicks they keep there.
I wish it was that way all the time at all clubs ;D but even then you have to keep things in perspective. Most dancers don't want to date you nor screw you; they want you to fork over the cash (or plastic) so they can provide their much sought after services.
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Frankly, I don't understand what all this debate over so called "fantasy" is about. If it is one's point to remind everyone that what takes place inside a strip club is a business transaction, and NOT a relationship, I don't see where the majority of people here or on the pink site are going to disagree on that.
Where things tend to get a bit fuzzy is when certain dancers and customers start doing things that blur that distinction.
Granted, I shrug my head when I hear stories of guys who have paid for a particular dancer's implants, bought her a car, co-signed her loan, arranged day care for her kids, yada, yada, yada, but I think that it needs to be clarified that it takes two to tango. If a dancer is concerned that that the customer might expect something in return for all that pampering (God forbid), then she should be reminded that she had every right to say no in the first place.
I am amazed at how certain women (and not just dancers) will string a guy along with promises that she doesn't intend to fulfill (or may occasionally fulfill), as long as the PL keeps giving her cash and gifts. Perhaps dancers would not get asked out for dates at work so much if there weren't so many of them going along with it.
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Other than giving him a chance to vent his spleen, I wonder what the purpose of MLs post. Doe he actually think his post will change a single dancers perspective on SCs? I would guess that they would all react with either indifference to him or outright hostility. Either way, his posting - which is a strong directive to the dancers here - won't spark any "You know, you are right" lightbulbs.
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Re: Ladies, you're pretty hot and all, but...
gosh ML i think some girl made you very upset...Sorry you had such a bad experience ...or whatever it is...
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Love your posts PJ! Wish you were over here more often. Always cogent and to the point.
This reminds me of the endless extras debates. Heated arguments and nobody changes anyones mind... still talking about it with fellow junkies could be considered good therapy. LOL. ;)
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I think I'm fucking great ;D, but I wouldn't want to be around you, ml, because you're mean.
On Howard Stern the other night he had a woman on who was promoting her book on finding love on the internet. He said she was shallow for asking for photos from the men who were writing to her so she could see who she was attracted to. Then he asked her to take her clothes off so he could see what she looked like.
funny stuff
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I read some recent post on stripperweb.com about how customers should not lose sight of the "fantasy" and all that same old b.s. Ladies....
If you want to talk with the ladies on the pink site WHY DIDN'T YOU POST IT THERE? Grow some huevos and go to the source.
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Hound, I believe ML was banned over their. He can't post even if he wants to. ::)
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"Cojones" is a better word there.
Sometimes you run into someone who likes to throw a stink bomb into a nice party. Just open the windows and keep on going.
Some party, it had been pretty dead over here for a week or so, thought I'd liven things up a bit.
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If you want to talk with the ladies on the pink site WHY DIDN'T YOU POST IT THERE? Grow some huevos and go to the source.
There is nothing wrong with the size of my huevos. They are in fact muy grande. They won't let me post over there because my exceeding insightful opinions were too much for their fragile little stripper minds to grasp. It was hurting their brains to use them in that manner. Now, the more enlightened strippers, those with a level head and a sense of irony check me out over here and bestow their pity upon me. :P
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I think I'm fucking great ;D, but I wouldn't want to be around you, ml, because you're mean.
On Howard Stern the other night he had a woman on who was promoting her book on finding love on the interne. He said she was shallow for asking for photos from the men who were writing to her so she could see who she was attracted to. Then he asked her to take her clothes off so he could see what she looked like.
funny stuff
you know jenny i always wondered how to sum up ML. it's not what he does or doesn't do in the club or what i do or don't do, he's just straight up mean and that is why most of us here wouldn't deal with him in real life or the clubs. we defiantly have that upper hand in the club to pass on the customers we don't like. here it's just a small annoyance....
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I think I'm fucking great ;D, but I wouldn't want to be around you, ml, because you're mean.
Maybe ML is suffering from the "Fox and the Grapes" syndrome.
~Sad~
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I wish we had an emoticon for "that being over my head." Sailed right by me Sad. This will have to do. [frustrated]
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From Aesop's Fables:
One hot summer's day a Fox was strolling through an orchard till he came to a bunch of Grapes just ripening on a vine which had been trained over a lofty branch. "Just the thing to quench my thirst," quoth he. Drawing back a few paces, he took a run and a jump, and just missed the bunch. Turning round again with a One, Two, Three, he jumped up, but with no greater success. Again and again he tried after the tempting morsel, but at last had to give it up, and walked away with his nose in the air, saying: "I am sure they are sour."
It is easy to despise what you cannot get.
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Thanks Sporty! :) Damn! I must be old. My mom used to read that stuff to me. ::)
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Thanx Sporty, I actually couldn't have put the whole story together that well. It's just one of those old addages I refer to, because I what the jist of it is!
In fact my old ATF once said of a bouncer, who was being mean to her, that he was knocking something that he can't have (meaning her)!
~Sad~
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