How many of you have experienced a "clumsy" dancer's "accidents"? I don't go to SCs that often, but I've had 5 or so drinks spilled, near or on me. They'll spin around the pole, or not be paying attention during a LD, etc. and "accidently" spill my drink. From reading the pink site I gather these are often not accidents, but their little bit of revenge against a customer that pissed them off. It just got me wondering if I've been oblivious somehow and ever been an ass without knowing it. I especially start to wonder after I consider this story that happened to me:
I was at a club with a friend when a dancer came by for her tip and her mini LD (30 seconds and ~$1-2). I of course accepted, and during the dance she pressed her chest against me and kind of crushed my nose, so much so that I couldn't breathe out of it. I opened my mouth to take a breath right as she decided to slide her breast/nipple across my face. Some of her skin pushed inside my mouth a little, but I didn't think much of it. My dance ended, and she continued on to dance for my friend. When we left the club, he mentioned that she had complained to him about my behavior, saying that I had "tried to suck her nipples." (eh no....I had "tried to breathe" LOL)
Anyway, whenever I've heard dancers on these boards complaining about grabby guys or guys trying to lick their breasts and stuff like that, I had always pictured really blatant, aggressive behavior that's clearly wrong. But after this happened, I've started to wonder a little. So ladies, is this the sort of thing you're referring to when you're upset over some agressive ass hole customer? Guys, how many "drink accidents" is enough to become suspicious?
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-lestat1
