Would like some imput from the guys... during a VIP dance, would you prefer the dancer doesn't talk? Or would you prefer some conversation? (I'm not referring to "dirty talk" either...lol ;)
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Would like some imput from the guys... during a VIP dance, would you prefer the dancer doesn't talk? Or would you prefer some conversation? (I'm not referring to "dirty talk" either...lol ;)
Hey Tia,
I do all my talking at the stage8)When its time to dance I like only dancing...and blowing in my ear and well maybe a lil neck licking oh well you the idea!
It depends on the situation. My ATF and I talked all the time during dances. Some of my other favs do as well. If it's a new girl I rather not "get to know her" in the ld area but maybe chat for a bit first-which is almost always what I prefer to do.
I prefer to do some talking as a preliminary, but during a dance I do not usually prefer much talk, dirty talk is okay.
I agree no talking is needed in the VIP.
If it is a simple one liner that does interfere with the dance, no problem! :) If conversation forces the dancer to stop to respond, thats bad. At a $1 plus every ten seconds, we want dancing during the dances! Talk afterwards or between songs. ;)
I'm in the minority, I think, but I kinda like to chat in VIP
My preference would be that you don't talk during the dance, before/after/between dances is the time for talking, but to each his own.
Thanks for the input:) I generally don't talk unless it's between songs or with a regular who has made it clear he enjoys it...(ie: he starts the conversation).
But after giving it some thought, I decided to get some opinions from the guys as I was a bit worried not talking may make me seem a bit distant or unsocial.
Thanks:)
I've had a number of dancers say to me that if the customer is totally quiet they start to feel uncomfortable ie: the guy is perving out too much LOL I guess I just got in the habit of a little idle chat. To each his own I guess.
I always get several dances (5 or 6 minimum) and like to talk a while and dance a while, talk a while, dance a while.
I like a little talking during a dance.
less talk. more dance.
I get a little perturbed when she stops dancing to talk, given the expense of the dance. But I'm talking regular laps, I've never been in a VIP. I imagine the guy may be back there a lot longer and want some conversation here and there, though I'd stick with the 'less talk more dance' rule unless he makes it clear he's after soem conversation. :)
-lestat1
I really liked this thread.......
I am not real big on talking while dancing.......
I think it takes away from the dance......
If the customer is chatty while I am dancing, I will of course chat but I would rather concentrate on dancing for you then talking........
I think some guys chat out of not knowing what else to do, or to keep them selves from getting into the dance to much......
Licks Cyn
I always enjoy when a dancer starts quoting the heavy and mournful war poety for Winfred Owen or Sigmund Sassoon whist engaging in a heavy grind.
"If in some smothering dreams you too could pace
Behind the wagon that we flung him in"
Ohhh yes baby.. harder? harder?
"And watch the white eyes writhing in his face,
His hanging face, like a devil's sick of sin;"
Does that feel good? Uhh uhh Do you want another dance"
"If you could hear, at every jolt, the blood
Come gargling from the froth-corrupted lungs.."
Oh wow baby.. thats soooo hot! yeah baby yeah!
Happens all the time, you know.
PJ
It varies, sometimes I just want to enjoy the dance ,other times I like to converse. There really is no rule of thumb. Just take his lead. He's paying for your time so he has the right to how he wants it spent. If he doesn't speak to you just continue with the dance . If he talks to you continue the conversation as long as he choses to engage.
I personally don't care for talking ... if it includes chit-chat about the normal things.
But then again, if I choose a girl to go into the VIP lounge ... we hardly never talk about that ...
I tend to choose a girl that I know or feel will real click w/ me. If she says it (hey baby we click, right?) then it's no go. I always have to feel it from her eyes and her performance on stage.
Then the VIP lounge becomes like an old reunion of a highschool couple. Lots of hugging, smooching, raking of the skin w/ finger tips, some serious grinding, and laughing. Then I'll get the questions about ... my normal habits w/ normal girls.
"Are you always like this?"
"Are U really that affectionate ... outside?"
Etc.... etc...
That type of chit-chat ... I find flatering. Sometimes I'm not sure if it's an act But other times I do know they were being genuine w/ me.
But in either case, I'm just there to have fun in the moment.
Of course, I do pick my "duds" ...
Where she fooled me and all I hear are the fake moans and the fake chit-chat b/c we're not clicking.
Oh well, no one's perfect.