I was having lunch today and started flirting with the waitress. She was a good sport and played along she got a nice tip from me. We have touched on this before, but do you flirt when your out?
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I was having lunch today and started flirting with the waitress. She was a good sport and played along she got a nice tip from me. We have touched on this before, but do you flirt when your out?
Nope, I'm terrible at it...it's really best if I avoid flirting. :P
I never flirt, I'm dead serious......
Actually I do, alot,,,,I'm in retail it's part of the job..It's fun and it keeps you sharp.
Yup, same here. It's just not a part of me to flirt, even in a strip club :-/Quote:
I'm terrible at it, too, because flirting in certain professional environments can lead to complaints and lawsuits. Besides, it's really inappropriate in the surroundings I end up in.
But that's a huge reason I like going to a club! Sexual attraction isn't out of bounds there - it's expected. It's refreshing.
Flirting requires that two people are on equal footing socially. If the outgoing office babe flirts with the shy, nerdy tech-guy, he's probably going to end up with hurt feelings when it all turns out to be "just flirting." In a way, flirting can be perceived as teasing (not the good kind ;)) by those not good with members of the opposite (or appropriate) sex. I remember some of my roommate's female friends flirting with me in college just for fun and I hated it, it felt like I was getting picked on because I knew they weren't serious and were just toying with me. I've tried flirting...and failed miserably. It takes a practice or natural skill that I just don't have. Like the other guys, I just don't have the confidence for it.Quote:
How can you be terrible at it?
It can be as simple as a little grin with the tilt of the head and a little nod... even a smile at the right time can be flirting!
Anybody can do it... now... flirting with someone to the point of actually getting them to go out with you... that's totally different and some people are better at this than others. ;)
Luv,
Amber
-lestat1
I love to flirt. It makes the other person feel good about themselves and makes you feel sexy as well. I think its fun and innocent. It puts a smile on both faces.
I sorta dont remember how but I keep working on it :)
I flirt all the time, at the senior center, those old ladies just love me ::)
I'm not much of a flirt. Just doesn't come naturally. :( I'm probably somewhat like PJ. Even when women pay me a compliment, I think they are just being nice.
About 3 years ago I went to a Halloween party in costume. By my standards I only looked so/so. Even guys I knew were saying "daymn! fish" "you are lookin' gooood!!!" Guys just don't say those things for fear of them being misunderstood. Soooo I must of been looking pretty hot. ::) I swear every girl in the place must have said something positive. One girl told me I must have gotten 30 phone numbers by now around 1:00. Unfortunately I had eyes for someone not even at the party and I left without even 1 #. A true PL in action. :( LOL.
Hey Amber, I guess if we read about any single females running off the road in your area, we know you were flashing your tits at her and chasing her down the road full throttle. LMAO!!! ;D
When I'm in a parade (on a parade) I always flirt with the audience. Especially the old ladies. It always makes people feel better when they feel they have some attractive power (for both side). Everyone understands it is not a serious come on so why not let them enjoy it. Besides that, that's how I'd like to be treated when I reach their age.
You know who I do best at flirting with:
Married women!!
There's really no intention there and I'm death when it comes to someone actually cheating. But, I guess because there is nothing at stake and no intention, it's easier for me to do.
As far as the single scene goes, I would have to know a girl for a long, long time.
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I'm actually kinda shy when I'm not dancing. I know I need to be the flirt at work because guys want me to be the aggressive one.
I've always found the outgoing flirty types to hold my interest because I'm jealous they can be so bold.
jennymodel, I just pulled up your pictures, damn you are hot ;D HUBBA HUBBA.
That's my lame attempt at flirting, how's it working jennymodel?
:-* OOOHHH, you're making me blush ;)
I'm like Jennymodel, not too much of a flirt outside of work.
Flirting can be fun and hell, give me enough alcohol and I'll be your stalker for the night, but I get afraid of the consequences. As a woman I don't like guys that come on too strong and if I'm flirting with a guy for the fun of it he most certainly will take the opportunity to believe I want to go home with him. Then for the rest of the night I can't get him to leave me alone cause I'm too nice to tell him to f-off.
Unfortunately I resort to being the "dike" of the group. Guys always think I'm the gay one of my girlfriends because I don't overly flirt and tend to dress a little more funky than sexy. I always say it just weeds through the losers. The guys that are comfortable enough to come meet me or pick up on my very subtle hints of interest are in for a very nice treat... [devil]
So if I see a little "dike" dressed a little funky, then don't let that stop me, I should buy her a lot of drinks. Well, at least that's what I got out of it....lol.
-Sad-
Sad are you flirting with Scarlett???LOL
Am I? Well, I'm cured then, EH!!!
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