Switching between touch/no-touch clubs
Going to both types of clubs in Mass. and RI can be confusing sometimes in terms of touch and no-touch. I usually do it quite well. I juggled two dancers that I was regular with one in each state.
In Mass. it was the chatty, romantic (if you will) type of relationship and in RI it was 100 mile an hour grind (50 was her and 50 me helping her...lol).
But there were a few times in Mass. that I didn't. During a backrub I pulled my ATF back to me to have here find the little general alive and well. She was not used to that. Ooops I forgot.
Has anyone else experienced this?
-Sad-
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oh man i'm sure she had no intention at all to "turn you on"...what was her reaction??
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..... During a backrub I pulled my ATF back to me to have here find the little general alive and well. She was not used to that. Ooops I forgot.
Has anyone else experienced this?
-Sad-
Hey Sad and others, I don't see anything wrong with the general being at attention during a dance. Hell, if he's at ease, I might look for another ATF. Afterall, isn't that what she is trying to accomplish, get you worked up? Now, popping a nut is a whole other matter, which I think should never occur, especially by surprise!
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Well, this particular dancer, working in a no-touch club (during dances) was not the type to do that with. (I don't know where the busting a nut part came from. That didn't happen.) I was mostly asking a general question (I'll keep the pun, although none was intended), about whether you had ever forgotten what type of club you were at, and done something inappropriate for the club.
I loved to visit that dancer. She was possibly the most elegant one I've met and rather sweet. My love for irreverance, though, would sometimes get the better of me and I'd challenge her sensibilities with nonsense. (This wasn't an example of that. I just forgot).
In a club where grinding is allowed, though, I always enjoyed the look on some lap dancer's faces, when she found a piece of wood. It was like the cat that ate the canary or a big smile, or taking pride in her work or "I got you!".
Oh, there are plenty of dancers who have the intention of killing the whole infantry, though.
-Sad-
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I've had dancers tell me that they expect wood and wonder what they're doing wrong if the guy's not turned on. I'm also a bit slow to arouse sometimes - the "form appreciation" sometimes eclipses the "erotic appreciation" at first - and I've had dancers go to extra effort, obviously concerned that I'm not reacting the way they want me to.- Jason
Jason,
I'm also in your boat, I haven't gotten wood just by looking in a few years. NO problem getting wood by contact. So the question, what do you guys do if a dancer just climbs on and grinds? I usually wear boxers and loose Khakis so my soldier is at ease between my legs out of contact range. I like it when a girl starts off the LD using her leg, chest or whatever to spend some attention between the legs to get me to salute into contact range and then climb on where contact will continue. I find it awkward to say something like could you ....? Any thoughts? :-[
To Sad,
I didn't mean to infer that you had popped a nut, just expanding on what I thought was OK and inappropriate to the point.
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To Sad,
I didn't mean to infer that you had popped a nut, just expanding on what I thought was OK and inappropriate to the point.
No problem, I just thought maybe I had given the wrong impression.
We're a little off subject, but...
The long-term dancer from RI,I've mentioned in other posts, had the kind of control over me, where I could actually get wood just watching her, sometimes. Really the only one like that. So many dances, so many visuals in my head it was like Pavlov's dog, (ring the dinner bell and he salivates). And when waiting for her to dance for me, it was like anticipation for a war!
The other from Mass. felt like hand-in-glove: incredibly beautiful, supportive, sweet, but also sexy.
The transition was just sometimes interesting. Both we're a huge thrill.
-Sad-
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oh man i'm sure she had no intention at all to "turn you on"...what was her reaction??
Sorry, I missed your post before. She recoiled a bit. And as often with the Mass. dancer, I felt a little bad. But she was OK with it.
-Sad-