Do you go alone or in a group?
I'm curious how many of you guys hit the strip clubs solo, how many go only with other people?
For those of you who do a little of both, which do you enjoy more? I generally go by myself and tend to have a better time when I do, the dancers seem to give me a little more attention when I'm solo.
Dancers, which do you approach first, the guy who is alone or the group?
For those of you who also enjoy going alone, have you ever run into anyone you know while you are there alone (i.e. co-workers, friends, friends of SO's, classmates, neighbors, clients, etc.). If so, does it make you uncomfortable?
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Alone is far superior. When I go it's for serious dancing and I don't need or want anyone to hold my hand, except maybe my ATF. LOL. ;)
My club has a message board and we do have get togethers and parties. For those, I love seeing everyone but I prefer to meet for dinner before and do breakfast after for the socializing. Last Friday one of the guys had one last fling at the club before a job transfer. 15 or more of us met at the club around 8:00. We had dinner and played on the rail. Most of us are late shift types. Our girls don't arrive till 10:00. It was fun visiting before 10:00. When my ATF hit the floor, everyone just said: There goes Fishnet... When I came out of the VIP a little after 1:00 everyone was gone. :( Party poopers. LOL. ;D
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solo most of the time, I find girls aproach me more and are more at ease then when i'm with my goofball friends.
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I approach guys that are alone first, but I am kinda shy so it is easier to talk to one than a whole table.
I like to dance really provocatively and it feels funny sometimes when all his friends are watching.
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It depends. If I have an ATF at a club, I prefer to go by myself.
If I don't have an ATF, then going with a group is more fun.
One of the downsides of going with a group is someone is always wanting to leave early. So at least drive seperate. :)
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I go alone most of the time. I'm pretty young and when I tell my friends this or other guys this....I always get the reaction "whhaaatt?..I would never go alone, man. you're a loser!" but I dont care. The strip club is so much better when you go alone.
When I do go with the guys, its more like a guy's night. We get a few dances and no dancer really stops to talk to us. I prefer the more individual attention when I go alone. Plus I can't imagine getting turned on with my best friend next to me watching the dancer.
thats another thing...I hate when the guy next to you watches me getting a LD. This guy did it to me for like 1 hour today. sheesh...
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I must say...I used to go w/buddies and felt weird about going by myself, but I quickly got over it. I realized that I had more freedom to do whatever I wanted and stay however long I felt like staying when I came by myself. Also, while my friends don't think that there's something wrong with me for going, I'd still rather not have them know about it all the time. While I I don't mind going with someone (still prefer going with say one or two guys and having a couple of beers [cheers]rather than a big group...big groups can be fun but obnoxious...and I know I get annoyed by big groups when I come by myself), alone usually seems to be the most convenient and discreet way to go. :-X
Also, I've found that sometimes when I go to clubs alone I sometimes start a conversation with someone and join a group of guys that are already there. This happened the last time I went to Amber's club. It works out great because you can chat with them (sometimes they even buy you drinks and what not) and avoid that lonely feeling of waiting around for a particular dancer to become available, you can get feedback regarding other girls in the club, and you can have a great time without having to worry about leaving them behind or waiting for them if you want to leave. Oh, and one more thing--they can also save your seat for you if you have to get up for any reason--and trust me, there's nothing more annoying than losing your great seat [argh]and then having to stand around wedged behind or between a big group of bachelor party guys wearing sombreros..... [frustrated]
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Pre-marriage I always went with at least one friend. SC-going was a social event with the clowns I hung out with, so anytime anyone went, it was with a buddy or 7. It was a group thing.
Post-marriage I have always gone alone. My experiences today are much better and more memorable then in my younger, drunk days. Its now a very personal thing. Growing up isnt so bad ;)
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I much prefer alone. Whenever I go with friends, they want to leave earlier than I would. To be honest, going with people is only good if you are travelling far to a club and that is only so that you have someone to talk to! I also never feel strange going alone. If I went to a regular bar, then I would feel funny. Shit, after looking at the people that go to these bars, I never feel ashamed of going alone! LMAO
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If you go alone do you blow off people so you can go alone. One time I blew off a friend because last time we went he went a little overboard in spending and I knew some of that money was for rent. I know he's a grown man but I felt partially responsible so the next time he asked I said I was broke and went by myself.
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I usually go alone, so my attention is focused entirely where it belongs. That said, I've met some great fellow pervs at ASSCons in four different states. The buddy thing can drag down the experience, but a like-minded PL adds to the "This is sooo cool" feeling.
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I usually go alone, since most of my friends are too embarassed to go to a SC, despite my trying to convince them otherwise. I usually get more attention by myself, however the other night I went with one of my friendompad we both had a great time! ;D
-lestat1
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There is no question: I approach the guy sitting alone b4 I go up tp group of guys. Several resaons, all generalizations, much like everything in this little industry...
1) A large group of guys are there to hang out with guys...not the girls.
2) A large group of very young guys tend to be there to show off in front of their friends...usually by saying ridiculous things to the dancers or trying to "score"
3) A guy sitting alone is there obviously for himslf and his pleasure only...no act or game or out-doing his buddies...just a damn good time.
4) A guy alone won't go back out of the VIP to his pals after a dance and do idiot things like sniff his finger for his friends so they think he got some action. The guy alone either did or did not gat extras, and he keeps it to himself either way.
5) Guys alone are usually more polite, spend more on the dancers, are interested in chatting as well, turn you down nicer if not interested, take you to the VIP for longer if interested, and are easier to approach.
Again, I realize that these are gross generalizations, so don't get all defensive if you happen to be a nice, friendly group of young guys. ;)
Just my observations,
Kennedy
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Great, after reading this thread I no longer feel "alone" going to the club alone. :)
I usually go alone, cause I don't have to deal with guys (is there a GS or Guys Shit definition on this board???), mainly stuff that others have stated. One of my main reasons is that I can't stand when others tell me how to spend my money, and around a group of guys, your're always gonna get, "why'd you spend your money on that", etc. Screw it, I make it, I'll spend it any way I want to.