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Strippers who like to cuddle
Isn't it kinda weird when a stripper just wants to cuddle with you the entire time during her dances? I've known 2 dancers like this and I'm sure I spent the least amount of money on them out of all their regulars ($20-60 per visit, 2-3 times a month).
I'm no Ricky Martin or Don Juan, so I found this a little strange... :confused:
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Hey Joe welcome to the site. I like to cuddle,some of the ladies I know do some don't. If you like it go with it.
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Cuddling is one thing if it's off the clock. That's noooo problem. I had one dancer that I tried twice. She just wanted to curl up in my lap and talk but still charge for a dance. ::) That doesn't cut it with me. If I'm paying she better be dancing. 8)
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Originally Posted by fishnet link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16628#msg16628 date=1072531178
Cuddling is one thing if it's off the clock. That's noooo problem. I had one dancer that I tried twice. She just wanted to curl up in my lap and talk but still charge for a dance. ::) That doesn't cut it with me. If I'm paying she better be dancing. 8)
Damn Fish, and all this time I thought you were the romatic sort :P
FBR
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I agree with Fish on this one Joe.... if I'm paying, they should be dancing. An ocasional cuddle is fine, especially during a marathon dance session, but I'm paying for dancing not cuddeling.
But hey, it's your money, if you're looking for a GFE and willing to pay, then go for it!
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I go to two clubs with sofas that don't charge girls by the dance. Some of my favorites like to cuddle, hug and talk off the clock for a few songs before and after dances.
If a dancer burns her cookie getting off, I let her cuddle and hug for the rest of that song. This also connects her sex trigger with an affection reward.
If a dancer I like just got her period and has bad cramps, I let her curl up in a fetal position for a song. She'll generally stay for several more songs off the clock.
If a dancer is hiding from some other guy, I'll let her cuddle and hug off the clock for as long as she keeps me hard.
Affection is a reward in itself. If a dancer you like wants it, give it to her, but don't give her money, too.
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I love to cuddle. If that's what she wants to do then usually I oblige her. If I wanted something else I would go to another dancer next time. Nothing says I have to stay with her. If you wanted to do something other than cuddle ,why don't you ask her? She'll do one of two things, either she'll comply or she'll refuse. You can make your decision to turn her away or stay at that point.
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I also like it when a dancer cuddles, especially if she rubs her body parts against me :P
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Hmm, this could be a possible money making suggestion for the ladies although they may not be pleased with the profit margin.
I actually love it when dancers want to cuddle (or at least sit in your lap) before getting started. But during a long session of dances though it would kind of be a great way to declare a "happy medium" when you or she needs a break. I still get the pleasure of having her attention and she gets to recharge herself for the next session, not to mention make more money.
I'd be willing to pay for that time too, but definitely not full dance price. Half maybe.
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Ive never had a pay per view cuddle session on the couch but I get lots of hugs and attention at my table. Similar I guess and I suppose since I tip there Im paying for it. Truthfully, I like it. More of an enhancement rather than substitution for LD's.
FBR
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I only do regulars and cuddling is definitely part of all of their repertoires. Like Sporty, I prefer clubs where there is no per -dance fee to the house. I guess it depends on what your looking for but, to me, with some girls, the cuddling is the sexiest part of the experience!
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I would enjoy cuddling with a dancer very much, but I'd feel taken advantage of if I paid full dance prices for it.
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i like to cuddle. i used to pay full price to cuddle a lot. sometimes like 4 songs, without any dancing, just cuddling.
sporty, k2u charges $1/song now, everyshift. atleast they did earlier in the fall. which is still pennies though, no big deal.
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I like to dance, not cuddle (a lot of customers are NOT pretty!).
A few times during loooong dance sessions, I just lay across their lap and move my legs (it passes for dancing in my eyes) and just look at the guy. I'm happy, their happy, and the money keeps flowin'! ;)
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Originally Posted by Malibu link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16686#msg16686 date=1072654445
I like to dance, not cuddle (a lot of customers are NOT pretty!).
I'm happy, their happy, and the money keeps flowin'! ;)
Gotta admire honesty LOL
FBR
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I only like the cuddle OFF the clock. The dances at the club I go to are a lot higher than I think most others pay (not that its a high end club or anything - its a dive). I'm not going to pay that much to cuddle, as much as I like cuddling. If she wants to show some appreciation later, and sit on the lap and cuddle for a while, I'm In!
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Just guess I'll just echo what many others have already said, I love cuddling with a beautiful dancer, but I wouldn't want to pay for it like it was a dance. Usually I'll cuddle with my fave before and after the dances.
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I'm going to have to agree with most of the others, I'm fine with cuddling but I'm not about to pay for it. Some of my favs with cuddle at times but only when they need a break.
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I like to cuddle, but only with my favs. Usually I like to cuddle for the last dance or half dance of a long session, and I don't mind paying for it because I ask for it. Much more intimate and sensuous than a grind. I prefer the more sensuous type dance. I think it's a great way to end a nice dance session.
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Originally Posted by joe blow link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16626#msg16626 date=1072516385
Isn't it kinda weird when a stripper just wants to cuddle with you the entire time during her dances?
you mean a stripper taking advantage of your good nature by not working? no, that's not weird at all. then again, perhaps her other customers prefer it and she thinks you might like it also. years ago, i remember this guy on ass-c who mentioned his popularity among dancers (and bragged about the fact that he didn't tip them), due the fact that he didn't pay strippers to dance for him. instead, he preferred to pay them while he gave them back and neck massages :shocking:! he was one of those sensitive new age types who preferred to, "create an intimate atmosphere through, non-sexual touching, massage, caressing and hugging(!)". he became offended by what he characterized as the "hostile attitude of some men who were apparently insecure and made fun of my ideas. :soapbox:". at the time, it seemed funny, but little did we know this guy would be a harbinger of things to come. :crying:
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I like it when strippers cuddle with my ball sack.
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Originally Posted by mr_punk link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16741#msg16741 date=1072740416
...instead, he preferred to pay them while he gave them back and neck massages! he was one of those sensitive new age types who preferred to, "create an intimate atmosphere through, non-sexual touching, massage, caressing and hugging(!)". he became offended by what he characterized as the "hostile attitude of some men who were apparently insecure and made fun of my ideas." at the time, it seemed funny, but little did we know this guy would be a harbinger of things to come.
Yikes, I know a couple of guys like that in my club. They pay for time instead of for dances. I believe one of them pays something like $150 per hour or so just to either hug or do "sensual" massaging. Talk about screwing up the POP index. >:(
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Originally Posted by aggieed link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16750#msg16750 date=1072743257
Yikes, I know a couple of guys like that in my club. They pay for time instead of for dances. I believe one of them pays something like $150 per hour or so just to either hug or do "sensual" massaging. Talk about screwing up the POP index. >:(
That's actually not so bad...$150 only gets me 3 dances.
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Originally Posted by lestat1 link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16753#msg16753 date=1072746174
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Originally Posted by aggieed link=board=1;threadid=1113;start=msg16750#msg16750 date=1072743257
Yikes, I know a couple of guys like that in my club. They pay for time instead of for dances. I believe one of them pays something like $150 per hour or so just to either hug or do "sensual" massaging. Talk about screwing up the POP index. >:(
That's actually not so bad...$150 only gets me 3 dances.
You have to move Lestat!!! ::)
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You definitely have to move, Lestat! Goodness gracious, three dances for $150!! Hell, I brought a dancer home for two hours and $160 earlier this month! Granted I didn't get CFS out of the deal, but we had a tremendously good time "exploring" each other with bells and whistles going off all over the place! And trust me, she definitely was no skank ho! Beautiful face, long black hair, light brown eyes, cute freckles on her nose, tight, athletically slender body. Damn, I need some more of that; where the hell is my cell phone!!!!!!!