Re:Have You Ever Prepaid for Dances...Or?
I always prepay for dances. It's the standard at my clubs to tip upfront, and I know beforehand how many dances I want and when. So I pay & tip generously upfront and if I get a bad dance, I don't go back to them ever again unless I forget (which happens). Only problem is there aren't all that many girls at these clubs...it's possible to end up with no one I want to get dances from, but it hasn't happened yet. I also do tend to stick with a winner once I've found one. I just haven't been able to turn those into ATFs yet.
Re:Have You Ever Prepaid for Dances...Or?
At my regular club, the norm is to pay at the end of the dance session. The dancer will ask you if you want to continue or if you want another dance after each dance, but money normally gets exchanged only at the end of the session. The exception is when you get a private room where there is a 5 dance minimum. You've got to pay the $100 up front, but if you want more than 5 dances, you square up with the dancer at the end. It works pretty good and there generally is never a problem with guys stiffing ??? (no pun intended) the dancers. Actually there is more of an issue where some girls are known for miscounting. They say it was 5 dances when the guy says it was 4.
Personally, I always pay and tip at the end. With a new girl I want to go dance by dance to see if I like her style. When I'm with my fav, we have a pretty good agreement. She says, should I tell you when we hit x number of dances. I'll usually say yeah, let me know when we are starting number X. ( I like to know when the fun is coming to an end - LOL). That way we don't ever have to discuss "one more" during our session which frequently can be rather long. And I've danced with her so often that I know how many feels right. The only problem is X usually turns out to be X + 1 , 2 or 3 more. I'm such a softie for my Fav that I say, lets do one more. She is the one who usually ropes me in and limits me. Yeah, she is great.
I have only prepaid once or twice and it was more like a joke. One night I was with Fav1B and being a bit of a Fuckoe (think I have that right - taking all her time). Well it was slow in terms of the number of dancers on the shift and she had to go on stage a couple of times. She was getting hit for a lot of dance requests while on stage, so at the end of one of our sessions, I would "prepay for another session" and remind her that after some time with the other customers (and after some rest time for me -LOL) that she should come find me. It worked really good.
I have also experienced the opposite. I occasionally am in the middle of a long LD session with my Fav and she gets called up to the stage. (At my club, if there are only a few dancers, management frowns on the girls skipping their stage shows - only exception is if they are in provate rooms) Anyway, if she gets called up to the stage and she knows we are going for more dances when she is through, she will frequently say to me why don't we just settle up later, trusting me with oweing her for a bunch of dances. I guess I just look the trustworthy type _ ::)
But I've never flat out loaned a girl money. I guess I just give it them instead in terms of LDs and tips - LOL. :-\