Should I or shouldn't I....
go to the club tonight? LOL. I just finished a bottle of wine. If I start in on some brandy, throw in a DVD and nuke some popcorn, it would be a real cheap night. :D
As previously stated, Miss P is no sloucher when it comes to the SS. When I was leaving last week, she made me promise to send her the pics from our Christmas dinner. I did the same day. Noooo response. If she holds true to form, I'll receive an e-mail in about 50 minutes saying whatever.
A bud was supposed to go and it looks like he flaked. ::) If I do go, I'll be delivering heavy doses of CS which is totally out of character for me. The plan would be to show up unannounced, get dances from 2 or 3 others and make Miss P wait at least 2 hours before we hook up. And then spend waaayyy less than normal. I think she is at the "taking my business for granted" stage and needs a wakeup call. :o Suggestions?
Fish
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Originally Posted by fishnet link=board=1;threadid=1186;start=msg18036#msg18036 date=1074995317
The plan would be to show up unannounced, get dances from 2 or 3 others and make Miss P wait at least 2 hours before we hook up. And then spend waaayyy less than normal. I think she is at the "taking my business for granted" stage and needs a wakeup call. Suggestions?
sounds good, except if you think she's taking you for granted, don't buy any dances from her at all. make sure she sees you, talk to her, even offer a drink. however, buy dances from someone else. eventually, they ask why you aren't buying dances. when that happens, calmly tell her exactly what she has to do to earn you money. it may sound a little hardcore, but it doesn't sound like you're satisfied with her behavior either.
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Thanks for the input Mr. P!!! I'm not sure if I could be that hardcore. ::) What fun is a trip if you don't get dances from the one you really want them from? I'm sure I'd have the opportunity to say what was on my mind during or after any dances she did get. 8) I could with the ATF without ruining the dances and she always remembered. :)
Sad, is the your way of saying: Danger Will Robinson! Danger! LOL. :D
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I say go, it sounds like a fun trip that will pay off in the long run. Plus, it would give you a chance to check out those newbie dancers.
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You got it, Fish most CS is not as strong as the SS returned!
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I'm about to embark on a mission. I am delving into alievn territory that I have not been in for a long time, wish me luck!
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Originally Posted by fishnet link=board=1;threadid=1186;start=msg18044#msg18044 date=1074998602
What fun is a trip if you don't get dances from the one you really want them from? I'm sure I'd have the opportunity to say what was on my mind during or after any dances she did get.
well, if you want fun, don't take my advice. OTOH, if you believe that strippers should earn your money, don't buy any dances from her. you're not really showing her your displeasure by buying dances. it's like saying," i'm only going to buy 5 dances instead of the usual 10 dances, that'll show her not to mess with me.". if you buy dances from her, she still has the impression that she still has her hooks into you. additionally, she knows that no matter how much she takes your business for granted. she can get back into your good graces fairly easily with a massive dose of SS.
look, everyone loves money to a certain extent, but strippers ADORE it. their whole self-worth on the job is based on how much money they make. if a customer spends say $500 a week on one dancer on a regular basis. believe me, she knows how much money the guy is spending on her on a monthly/yearly basis down to the penny. she may view it as easy money, but that doesn't mean you have to let her earn it so easily, especially if she's taking your business for granted. in any case, let me know how it turns out.
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I would have said stay home or go to a differnt club and find a new atf but I guess it's too late . Sure am curious as to the outcome though ;D
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Well, I'm not sure that this is the thread to post it on, but I just found out that my ex-ATF was hurt in a car fire 10 days ago. I will keep you posted as I find out more. I learned it from a dancer tonite, that I don't really remember, but whose style I recognized as being from RI not Mass.
She is in the Intensive Care Unit in RI hospital still.
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