Hi, this is my first time posting in this forum... so please bear with me. I have been dying to ask this question. However, I do not want to incite any kind of race argument, or anything like that.
So here it goes... I have been dancing at a topless gentlemen's club for a little more than a month now. I am one of three black females currently working there.
Many times when I am onstage... well I dont have many gentlemen whom approach to tip. ( This is how I decide whom to approach after coming off the stage.)
I was just wondering why I am often left "dancing with myself." I generally dance to Aerosmith, Metallica (before Napster days), Def Leppard, Alice Cooper, AC/DC etc.... I also dance to rap but not very often (my booty doesnt "drop, pop, or hop").
Ive noticed that this happens at other clubs (where Im a customer) too....
So I was wondering how many of you tip the black dancers/ buy dancers from them? How many dances do you generally get from these girls compared to other girls at the club.
Also, for those of you who dont approach black dancers, is their a reason i.e....bad experience, music, too much booty poopin'/not enough, hair....anything you gentlemen could share would be great.
I apologize this is so long, but I wanted to make sure it sounded right, thank you so much in advance. ;D ;D
