Are you Dominating, Submissive, or both depending on the situation. Also what exactly is involved with you being the above? For example, having your hair pulled, ass smacked, tying the other person up, or bondage. }:D
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Are you Dominating, Submissive, or both depending on the situation. Also what exactly is involved with you being the above? For example, having your hair pulled, ass smacked, tying the other person up, or bondage. }:D
Sometimes both, but for the most part, I'm submissive. It works for me. heh
Sometimes both... But mainly submissive, I love being controlled......;)
^ Bless you, Vaden, bless you.
<S> Vaden
I used to be more submissive, but now its seeming that I am turning more dominating. I am liking the dom. position tough.
I can go either way. I was more dominating before I started dancing and early into it. Now that I am always in control of men, I long for a little role-reversal. But it also depends on the situation. Usually I end up being the more dominant with guys, and it takes a very unique connection to be able to give up my control to someone. (edited for spelling)
Dominant.
Both!!! But,I do like getting slapped and called,"B*tch" and told that I'm going to take your c*ck whether I like it or not.Hehe!!!
Depending on the situation however I find that I like being dominated by Mt Isa Boy (more than vice versa). However, in typical scorpio fashion, I will every so often try to tip the power (in a playful way of course) my way.Quote:
Originally Posted by onlythebest
As for how I am submissive: Mt Isa Boy will tell me to assume this position and that.. or move me in this position and that himself... give me a little smack on the ass... a little verbal (as per onlythebest's quote)... he will use the sex toys how he wants to use them (of course without hurting me of course) and when.. and so forth.
He isn't abusive in how he does it. It is all "sex play" and such a turn on. { Oh damn... why does he have to be so far away... I want to get laid again! LOL! :P }
I am not opposed to either role, and have been in both to some degree, but I do tend to take on more of the dom role when I think back to those situations where it isn't simply "sex". It took me quite a while to be able to effectively behave in this manner, interestingly. Initially it felt "controlling" and I had a problem with it...but eventually came to understand the difference between the role playing and having an actual personality trait like that. To say to someone "you're my little slut" was once impossible. She MUST understand that it's only for fun, and if it's what she wants. Slapping is different. I can spank with no problem...hell, I can flog with no problem. But slap someone? In the face? That would be difficult.
As for the submissive role - it's never been the same as when someone is being submissive towards me. It's more of a sexual teasing/torture. I've been blindfolded and had velvety smooth items dragged across me....nipples pinched.... cock-play....that sort of torture.
Both. I love taking a man from time to time, and i love being taken. My ex could not even get rough with me when i asked for sex in another room with a bit of hair pulling and hard sex. That sucked.
Pamela
VERY submissive. I like being "owned".
Hmm, good question. I used to say totally dom, but, since I went to FetishCon here in Tampa, I've had some doubts as to where I belong in this kinda situation, so I'd have to say it depends on the specific situation for now.
I'm Dom in the lifestyle, when it comes to bedroom stuff I switch off with Dea if we play at all between us.
I am both, but I do love being controlled.... I ask for spankin's! However I always seem to end up in control... I gotta try to work on that. But I guess it also depends on what kind of sex it is... intimate i'd much rather be submissive, but if its just wild sex oh i'm all for being taken over!
I'm a Switch. I have a need for attention and to pleasure my partner immensely, so I go out of the way in either role depending what my partners want to please them.
P.S. When I' m subbing I do personally gravitate to being hit by a flogger immensely--thats my favorite.
In the bedroom I am submissive. I love being taken. I like being controlled, my ass put in the air and and totally taken advantage of. But in everyday life I am more dominating. When it comes to sex though, take me! LOL
It's weird because in my acts I seem to be a very dom type of person. I have some acts with the thigh-high lace-up boots (latex), the latex corsets and dog-collars. But in fact my personality is very submissive. I like the guy to take controll and him to be worthy enough for me to be his "play-thing".
Luvs to bite! & scratch, tickle, & be tickled. Wrestling good too. Mostly sub, but can be VERY agressive.
(short version of a long conversation needed)Quote:
Originally Posted by kryssy
I belive the human animal closely resembles the social structure of the wolf and the wolfpack.
You have Alpha male,beta male,alpha female and beta female.Your born into it and have no choice as to what your going to be.Some can role play and act,but you cant change the way your born.
alpha male is Dom and beta male is sub IMO.
Alpha female is dom,beta female is sub imo.
Alpha female is sub only to alpha male imo.
I think its basic nature at its best.
Hey i am all for both, as i said. I am anything i wish to be at the moment. I would like to clear up the difference from animal lifestyle and ours however when it come to the Dom/Sub way.
1) we do not live in packs for survival, that is whay there is a "leader" male, Dom, and a "leader female, Dom. Also horses who are not predators have a "leader" male, stallion, and a "leader" female Mare, both are dominant towards the herd only for survival. We don't need or do this, we "play" Dom/Sub games, or chose to live it. Male or female ;)
2) we are above animal living i.e. we think to reason.
Safe to say lets call this Dom/Sub play role playing!!!!;D
Pamela
Hey I also like a bit of both.....But I do have a fantasy of playing the dominate role in the bedroom or anywhere else I'd like to have sex. I want to dress up and tie him 4 point restraint to the bed and f'k the sh*t outta him and ask him loudly who his mistriss is. Ive always seem it in porn and wondered how much fun it would be in real life?
I like being done like and animal both of us huffing n puffing in each others ears and me screaming at the top of my lungs (but not in a "im gonna die" way). Him pulling my hair and spanking me REAL HARD when were real into it. Him telling me what to do like suck his c*ck. Geez I'm graphic!!! Oh well thats the way I loves it! :)
I am dominant, or Domme to use proper terminology (Dom is male, Domme is female) I have spent hours and hours teaching others the D/s (Dominant/submissive) lifestyle. BDSM has three major breakdowns in meaning, BD = Bondage/Discipline, DS = Dominant/submissive, SM = Sadism/Masochism. Not so much into the BD or SM though, Im a wuss where pain is concerned, giving or receiving. I have had live in submissives and its a beautiful lifestyle once you embrace it. I tried being submissive a few times but the giggles I got when someone else tried to control me totally ruined the effect. ;D
A topic I love and one I could ramble on about for hours, but I wont.
I am both but mostly submisive. I love being spanked, slapped lightly in the cheek, and tied up.
I go both ways. I like being in control of everything, specially now that I'm pregnant and have for some reason become more overprotective of myself. I like to pull my husbands hair when I'm on top and I like pinching his nipples and bitting them. When he wants to take the lead I just let him, he also likes to pull my hair and spank me...but I hit back! :o)
ViXie
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