Re: Should Bella Go On a Diet? (Don't laugh!)
I have fat days too, and I don't post naked pics on the site for affirmation.
But that's just me...
I seriously thought it was a joke at first. I thought I was gonna be looking at pics with love handles of something along those lines, not photos of someone that's on the verge of disappearing if she turns sideways.
Re: Should Bella Go On a Diet? (Don't laugh!)
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Originally Posted by Blade
And catttness is a sure way to win over the mods here....YAWN
I'm not interested in winning over mods or appeasing those with seniority. I give respect when respect is due.
Asking any question regarding one's looks generally seems to be followed by a slue of compliments. It took me less than a week to figure that out about this site. To me, anybody asking an innane question such as "should i go on a diet?" is fishing for compliments.
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Originally Posted by Lorelei
I'm not interested in winning over mods or appeasing those with seniority. I give respect when respect is due.
Asking any question regarding one's looks generally seems to be followed by a slue of compliments. It took me less than a week to figure that out about this site. To me, anybody asking an innane question such as "should i go on a diet?" is fishing for compliments.
My, we're so clever, aren't we?
SW is here to provide support in an industry that isn't particularly supportive. It can do without little girls with big attitude problems.
Re: Should Bella Go On a Diet? (Don't laugh!)
:grouphug: :hug: Ya know, I've been kicking it around in my head ... thanks so much you guys... Everything just built up, I actually look really gaunt and manly in that 2nd pic I posted ::) . What do I care about the weight preferences of those guys who subscribe to teen porn sites? I was supposed to have small boobs and everything else to fit into that genre!!!!! :-* :-* :-* :-*
Re: Should Bella Go On a Diet? (Don't laugh!)
Everybody needs a little reassurance now and then. It's not necessarily "fishing"....and even if it is, so what? Sometimes...you just need to hear it.
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Originally Posted by MojoJojo
Everybody needs a little reassurance now and then. It's not necessarily "fishing"....and even if it is, so what? Sometimes...you just need to hear it.
Agreed.
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Originally Posted by Lorelei
I'm not interested in winning over mods or appeasing those with seniority. I give respect when respect is due.
Obviously, you didn't respect the fact that this girl was wanting some reassurance with her appearance. So, your statement would be false.
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Asking any question regarding one's looks generally seems to be followed by a slue of compliments. It took me less than a week to figure that out about this site. To me, anybody asking an innane question such as "should i go on a diet?" is fishing for compliments.
Is that so bad? If you were feeling a bit hefty one day and posted a pic, wouldn't you want people to compliment you? Don't you feel better when you are talking to one of your friends and you say, "I feel so chunky/fat/ugly today" and they in turn give you compliments that help brighten your day? Otherwise, I'll just put you on the list of people who likes to hear the, "Yeah, you DO look chunky/fat/ugly". Hmmm...looks like you'll be the only one on that list.
If you don't have anything nice to say...don't say it at all. What is so hard about that? Here of all places...online...where you just click out of the post...and you have to reply with an attitude. Respectful...really respectful.
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oh and bella you look great. I too, am very critical of myself so i can see where the questions came from.
But there is really little to no difference. The photographer was on a power trip.
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Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
If you don't have anything nice to say...don't say it at all. What is so hard about that? Here of all places...online...where you just click out of the post...and you have to reply with an attitude. Respectful...really respectful.
AfrigginMen, well said. ;)
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Originally Posted by Lorelei
I'm not interested in winning over mods or appeasing those with seniority. I give respect when respect is due.
Asking any question regarding one's looks generally seems to be followed by a slue of compliments. It took me less than a week to figure that out about this site. To me, anybody asking an innane question such as "should i go on a diet?" is fishing for compliments.
I'm in LOVE!!
Thank you!! It's like a friggin support group in here with absolutely NO basis in reality!!
Seriously, am I fat questions should be acompanied by a recent photo with a damn tape measure around your waste. Not a shot of 6 months ago when you spent a month preparing for a shoot.
Re: Should Bella Go On a Diet? (Don't laugh!)
You're kidding, right?
Now, realize that I PERSONALLY have a constant battle with my weight (the "zen of the gym -- become one with the stair MASTER"). But I was a purely chubby kid, and YOU, on the other hand, have the body I can only DREAM of having.
Yeah, I'd recommend you diet. Start out with a cheese cake, and wash it down with some champagne.....
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Okay, I'm late to this, but Bella: your name fits you. You are a damn beautiful girl, and if if you'd have added some pounds on from those pictures you posted or the ones on your site, you'd still be the type of woman that could make a Bishop kick out a stained glass window.
I understand the need to get affirmed once in a while, but I hope you don't need it often. You are a truly beautiful person.
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Bella you are gorgeous girl! FABULOUS! Don't change a thing! ;)