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WHATS YOU CLUBS "TOUCHING " POLICY?
OOPS CAPS...
umm
ok, so can everyone please say what their clubs touching rules are. cos im begining to think im a frigid dancer...im not used to these uhhh "out there" rules.
i wanna know if my lap dances are shitty and low budget or if the other girls are just sluts!! lol
i have no idea.....
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I think common CLUB rules are (in clubs where contact is allowed):
1. No touching under the area covered by the G-String.
2. No Insertion (Fingers or tongues) and no nipple sucking/licking
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In my club the customers are not allowed to touch us at all, but we can touch them and give them grinding lap dances. I personally don't mind if the guy touches my lower legs during the dance, but anything else and I'll get in trouble.
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I think wulf has it right, with the addition of no insertion by either the dancer or the customer. Seen some girls in Austin (Yellow, Perfect 10, Sugar's etc.) finger both of their orifices over the years...echhh.....but even though this is a contact town (for the most part), that kind of stuff is considered extreme by the other girls.
In Texas (Austin, Dallas) the laws are that no guys are supposed to touch during a dance and no grinding or breasts on the face is allowed by law either, but most girls here do one or all of these things anyways, though I choose not to for various reasons.
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Im confused about my clubs policy. They can touch me on my lower legs, back and arms. I can make them touch me anywhere, but down in the nether regions. I can make them touch my butt. I can seemingly do anything I want to the guy or girl.
We can grind, touch ourselves anywhere and even have a dessert show every friday where guys can buy suckers and dip their suckers into whip cream or chocolate off of our bodies. One of the girls got a little frisky with the sucker :O
I am a bit of a prude, I don't grind, or rub the guys balls with my hands. I prefer to tease and drive them crazy without going to second base. I make great money working with quite a few girls that get real dirty and management doesn't seem to mind either way. /:O
So I have no idea
(all that babbling and I still didn't answer your question)
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No contact. No grinding. We have air dances. They absolutely cannot touch us while we have our dresses off (Chicago rules). Most of the dancers I work with allow touching on the legs, arms...but you'll get fired if you are caught letting a guy do anything else.
You can still give a steamy hot lap/air dance without ever having them touch you...or you really touching them.
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Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
You can still give a steamy hot lap/air dance without ever having them touch you...or you really touching them.
Could you (or anybody) *please* elaborate? My club has been pretty high contact since I've been working there, lots of grinding, and that's pretty much the way I learned to give a lap dance. Then a few weeks ago, we had a ABC visit, and now we're down to almost no contact. In many ways, it's better, but as far as what to do during a dance, I'm kind of at a loss.
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It's all in the eyes and your movements...the tease of the lap dance. I really don't know how else to describe it...
Anyone?
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You can't really call an AIR dance a LAP Dance now can you? Thats like going out for a "Coke" and ordering Pepsi or Mt Dew.
A Good AIR dance is ALOT harder to give than a "Lap" dance. An "Air" dance requires more leg muscle control .... more eye contact and more sensuality in general. The best dance I ever got was an "Air" dance where all that touched me was her hair. Another girl I knew would (secretly) insert a small ice cube which would melt as the dance progressed making it seem that she was uhhhhhh ..... extremely turned on..... which you could see in the lights trailing down her inner thigh. Guys LOVED that.
Federal obscenity laws restrict insertion. Most any other regulation is based on "Community Standards". Club RULES are an entirely different story. Bottom line I think is we need ONE SET of LAWS regulating Artistic Portrayal of Nude Dance. Its a dream tho ...never gonna happen.
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Around here, clubs usually don't allow the customers to touch the girls. Even if he's just touching legs, the bouncer (should) come up to him and tell him to stop. Some clubs are more on top of it than others. Everything that the other girls mentioned, happens here too, but it's not supposed to. Lap dances are typically air---->grinding. Some clubs have a 3-second grind rule and prohibit any other genital contact, even legs and arms touching the guy down there. State law says the dancer and the customer are not allowed to touch their own genitals ot those of the other. Dancers aren't supposed to touch their own nipples even. But they do. Get this, we're not supposed to take money with our g-strings. And tops back on after 1 am, or latex on the nips. F*in stupid ass laws! Like my nipples are going to get more dangerous after 1 am!
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In my club penetration in encouraged.
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Why is it most clubs punish the dancer if the guy touches her without her permission? They should be thrown out, not the dancer fined. Alaska is really strict. If you touch a mans chest hair, the floor walker guy makes you take the rest of the night off.I am surprised wild places are so strict. In Iceland a Dancer isn't allowed out of club or motel without supervision.They are afraid she will do extras on her off time.
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In Montana we give LAP dances but the guy cannot touch at allllll!!
In one of my house-clubs, if a guy even puts his arm around your chair, he is warned and then kicked out if he even does that again!!
At the other, its a little less strict... But no touching of the dancers... Hands on the couch arms when getting a lap dance.. and no licking!!
...It does happen (touching & licking) but very rarely without both dancer and dude being in trouble!!
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My club encourages penetration, it's unfortunate to have a man's penis inside you every single night though, a different man's penis at that. Makes it hard to hold a relationship.
I guess it started when my father abused me.
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Originally Posted by MontanaGal
In Montana we give LAP dances but the guy cannot touch at allllll!!
In one of my house-clubs, if a guy even puts his arm around your chair, he is warned and then kicked out if he even does that again!!
At the other, its a little less strict... But no touching of the dancers... Hands on the couch arms when getting a lap dance.. and no licking!!
...It does happen (touching & licking) but very rarely without both dancer and dude being in trouble!!
At my club it's the same as that. Lap dances but no touching and no licking. Although guys always try and some girls let them.
At my club they are a little easier going when we are sitting out on the floor with guys. The girls sit in their laps and I see guys try to sneakily rub up their legs or around their stomach. This is stopped, but they can rub on backs and arms. Once on that couch for a couch dance though he can't touch you at all.
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All the clubs i've worked in don't allow much touching on the guys part. They're only allowed to touch our arms, and maybe brush our legs,nothing else, no waist, no booty. We can put our tits in their face for like a second, but they can't stick their tongues out and we can't be vulgar about it (no putting your nipple right on their lips). Lapdances are full grinding contact tho. Some girls will flip upside down and put their cooch right in a guys face (G-string on of course), but I think that's a bit much and I don't need to do that to make money. Neither do the other girls really, I think they just like it.
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Originally Posted by azamber
And tops back on after 1 am, or latex on the nips. F*in stupid ass laws! Like my nipples are going to get more dangerous after 1 am!
Well, you never know. Usually after 1 am my nipples start drinking and yelling uncontrollably. ::)
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hmmm ok.
cos im used to air dances too.
then in tokyo, its ALLLLLL different.
grinding for one. ( at 7th)
then at tantra, the rules state that its all above bord etc, but what was happening was a differnet story, which is apparently normal!?
i though maybe i didnt know how to give a lappy! lol....tis ok ,cos im not working there now anyways....but i was getting a bit worried i was too prudish!
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At my club it's no touch on stage (fully nude), one-way contact laps, mild two-way contact VIPs. No boob or crotch touching allowed ever. They are fairly strict about enforcement.
>>Added: Both thong and top must be ON during any table/couch/vip dances. Basically, when there's contact, we have to be covered. If we're nude it's strictly no touch.
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In Colorado - different rules for different municipalities, different clubs, different dancers, and different customers. From topless air to nude moderately heavy contact.
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So...I'm confused. I'm pretty sure I read somewhere in this thread that some girls touch the guys genitles. I have been to several clubs, and I have never encountered that. Has anyone?
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At my club, the rule is no touching anywhere a bikini would cover. (no butt, chest, or crotch) The guy's hands can rest on the outer edge of your butt as long as it is a non-invasive movement. (no groping)
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Originally Posted by mermaidnz
OOPS CAPS...
umm
ok, so can everyone please say what their clubs touching rules are. cos im begining to think im a frigid dancer...im not used to these uhhh "out there" rules.
i wanna know if my lap dances are shitty and low budget or if the other girls are just sluts!! lol
i have no idea.....
The customers arent allowed to touch and neither are we, in a sexual way. Altho I think it really depends on the dancer b/c I've walked in on some stuff....>:(
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I can't remember the official policy, its somewhere on my copy of the contract. Officially no straddling customer, girl cannot touch herself sexually, customer cannot touch "swimsuit" area....
Unoffically, two-way contact, occasional boobie grabbing, lots of straddling.
This is in Austin at my current club.
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Originally Posted by M3purple
I read somewhere in this thread that some girls touch the guys genitles. I have been to several clubs, and I have never encountered that. Has anyone?
Yes.
-Ww