this is for the dancers:
Do you ever go to a strip club with your friends or significant other?
If so, how much do you generally spend? on what?
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this is for the dancers:
Do you ever go to a strip club with your friends or significant other?
If so, how much do you generally spend? on what?
Yes I do. I like to go with a bf, or with a group of friends. Sometimes we'll just go and tip the girls on stage, sometimes we'll buy dances. I've always gone as a couple alone or a couple with other friends. As a couple I've spent anywhere from $80 to $400 (either between us or mostly his money). Never done a vip but have bought many dances. Sometimes the bf has gotten dances alone, sometimes we get them together, sometimes I get them alone, or we switch off. We will buy a few drinks and tip the waitresses well. Heh, it's his birthday so I'm buying a lil SC fun for both of us tonight ;D
I have gone a few timres with my SO and some of our friends and spent well over 400 between all of us.
I've gone with my bf to check out clubs. We'd tip the stage and buy drinks. We also bought a dance. I guess we didn't spend too much because that was before I started dancing so we had less money and at that point he wasn't sure he'd let me dance.
I haven't been to the club with my SO in ages. We usually spend about $100 (minus drinks) we'll tip well. But, I have noticed that a lot of the girls like to sit and talk with us and never do any dances and don't take money otherwise... :shrug:
Janazoo, does he go to SCs on his own?
Alot of dancers are SC Addicts when traveling outside thier home territory. I think its the "is the grass greener" syndrome. I know my EX would want to visit the best clubs in every city we visited and we also made several trips especially to check out clubs for her. I am always expected to go along and I know the/her rules. I should tip well ($5 stage tips) but never sit at the stage! I can buy lap dances for her but not for me! SHE Can buy dances for me but I damn well better not enjoy them and NEVER pick a dancer.... let her choose. I should not LOOK at another dancer for more than 10 seconds. I should not talk to another dancer for more than 20 seconds. I ALWAYS hear the questions/comments when we leave .... and it eventually gets around to accusing ME of thinking dancer "Y" was hotter/better than my ex. Its an unavoidable trap. We would spend $200-$300 in 2-3 hours on a normal visit.
Guys .... you cannot win at this game but it is fun to play. Just like Vegas huh. Women are soooo freekin insecure. (with a very few exceptions)
So are men. I've never been with a guy who would be ok with me drooling over other guys and most wouldn't be ok with me going to male SCs or us going together. But it's always fine and good when I want us to go see the ladies and get dances.Quote:
Originally Posted by DJ_WuLf
I have fun with a bf at the SC, and I don't get the least bit jealous when he drools over a hot stripper - cuz I'm usually drooling over her (or another) too. :P
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Janazoo, if your man goes to SCs without you but won't go WITH you, I'd have to wonder what's going on there. Perhaps he likes to behave in a way he knows you wouldn't approve of, and/or he thinks taking you would spoil his "secret" fun. How do you know he goes if he won't admit it? If it were me, I'd be asking him why he goes alone but won't go with me.
Yup, a couple of times, when we're out of town. It's pretty fun. I feel bad when I get better dances than he does, though. Usually spend about $100, we don't stay too long ;). Oh, the funniest thing was when we were in NYC last spring and tried to go to PEC--he was wearing sandals and they wouldn't let us in. We went to a much divier place instead and had fun, but we really wanted to eat a steak at Robert's! Maybe next year.
If I had a BF, I would love for us to go to a dominatrix place together. I haven't been to one yet.
When I was with my ex, We went to a few strip clubs. He doesn't like the 'strip club scene' though. So he just sat in the other rooms playing pool, or drinking with his friends.
Iv'e been wanting to go for a while and blow a bunch of money on one girl with my SO.. am i crazy to think that would be fun??
I think that would be fun!:D
update: He doesnt like strip clubs and told me that, but said that he would go if i would have fun.....
I don't have much of a jealous bone and he not a very " All ready ordered but like to look at the menu" type of guy as he puts it..... I have known him since i was 12!
I think it would be a great idea Tampa!! Shoot make him have some fun too!! Get some ta-tas in his face yea baby!!! Who cant like that?
I would love to go to a SC w/ my '"friend" hes hot Id like to see him with other women. Infact were planning a trip in the near future. Dont know where but well think of a place.
BTW Vyanka thats hot idea to do w/ your SO. Where the hell do you find a dominatrix place?
Yep, I do... and we spend anywhere from about 50-100 depends on who is working and what we feel up to.
Hmmm.....I'm selective about that-the club has to be off the hook-like alcohol, music I like, dark, and busy. Yes, I'll chill in a strip club with friends, but most 'boyfriend' types I've had DON'T like strip clubs or just aren't that into it. And I'll only spend money on stage, I don't get dances and whenever I go with a guy-they never buy dances either. I wouldn't care either way.
I would NEVER do that whole couple thing-like "Honey, let's get this girl to give us a double!" Ew, people who do that I think are so gross! Especially those old people, they're creepy. I'll still dance for couples, but I think they're really fuckin weird. I'm not into menage trois-I don't share.