I had a regular whom I trust. He said that a girl slapping her own ass is a turn off. Why did we start doing this anyway? I would rather ask another girl to slap my ass Now that might do it for the old dude? LOL!!!
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I had a regular whom I trust. He said that a girl slapping her own ass is a turn off. Why did we start doing this anyway? I would rather ask another girl to slap my ass Now that might do it for the old dude? LOL!!!
I think it's tacky and overdone too, but I guess not everyone shares that feeling.
On the other hand, for every thing we do that turns one guy off, another eats it up.
To each his own, I suppose.
There are a myriad of reasons - each dependant upon the dancer herself.
Some dancers spank their own ass to grab attention. That loud spanking sound surely makes me turn my head .... I guess it's a little instinctual ?
Others spank their own ass to allude to the "I'm such a naughty girl.. I need to be punished" sort of thing.
Then others spank their own ass to draw attention to their ass especially if it is of a firm and very :hot: nature... then the spank shows off that it is firm and :hot: due to no "ripple effect" as such.
If it is done in a private dance, then it can be done effectively if you are doing it in a "fun" manner. Also, once again, can allude to being naughty and needing a spanking... as well as bring attention to the ass...
Each dancer that does it has her own reason(s) for doing it. If you notice that a particular dancer does spank her ass alot (or tend to include it in her stage routine every time or something).... then ask her why she does it. What is she hoping to achieve with doing it?
As for the guys. This topic has been breached many times with them (I've done my own research at my club at one time) and the majority do not see the point or like it.
I've always thought it looked very silly... Especially when they climb to the top of the pole and slap both cheeks at the same time. This has gotta go!
In Va its illegal to slap your ass on stage and you cant touch yer boobs with the palms of your hands.
Arse slapping is "in" at my club, but IMO it only suits 1 girl there - she stops the room when she slaps, everyone else is lame in comparison.
I don't slap - like GCG I've noticed that most people don't like it, plus it's not my thing anyway but I will do it on request if people beg me to which they do sometimes (-:
I don't slap my own ass, however, if we're doubling girls on stage I never mind sticking my bum out for the other girl to spank. }:D
We can slap the sides of our thighs, I think most guys just like the noise. Maybe it's that whole "you've been a bad girl" thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
wholly kripes Susan!!!!! Nice new pic!!
Aint seen ya in awhile,where ya been hiding???
I agree,i do like the sound of the leg or ass slap.Wakes the room up.
I think self slapping started as an attempt to appeal to the customer base who is into giving spankings.
self punishment? i personally think it's stupid - for me, it is not the least bit sexy, and i usually think "typical stripper move"... (maybe there was a mosquito i couldn't see...) :)
I think it's tacky and fake...
Like Rose said, "to each his own".... ;)
on another note slapping your ass on a regular basis can break cappillaries(sp) and leave the skin red and ugly...not attractive
i am not a big fan of slapping my own booty on stage. we have one girl at our club that does it great...other than that, no one really looks good doing it.
When you run out of other moves........eh? Why not.
I was horrified by it at first. But there are worse things that could be done......
I don't do it myself. I think it looks silly...
I think it's got to fit with a show, like when in a SM play one gets spanked but there's gotta be someone doing it. Actually the only man who is allowed to do this to me is MY man... when performing I only allow girls ;)
holy susan... wow, hot :P
I think it should be illegal and enforced everywhere. Slapping your own ass only appeals to the cheapasses who hoot and holler at the stage but don't buy dances. The object is to appeal to the guys who buy dances....Quote:
Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
I have no idea why so many girls slap their own asses. That whole monkey see monkey do thing I guess, along with mistaking the annoyed looks of paying customers for approval, and the hooting of cheapos as a good thing.
I have done it..but I have stopped..lol..I think I am doing it wrong or something..cause I never get the slap sound..just a small thud on my bone....pathetic. (walk's away in shame)
I see alot of girls do it. I don't do it at all. I think that with all of the new girls in the business when they see an older girl do it they start doing it.
Not one of my favorite "stripper moves." When you see one girl after another do it, it looks just plain bad. I'd rather seem some interesting pole tricks.
I've done it once but just a little and I was a little buzzed. I agree that it looks a little silly. ;D I think it just says "I know I look good" or "I look so good even *I* want to do me" or something who knows LOL. But yeah to each her own!
Hey Aussie, I "met" you on Delphi.
like the asshole spread? :laughing:Quote:
Originally Posted by madmaxine
This is so damn funny because JUST today I went into my old club, new girl on stage and slapping her ass so damn hard you could hear it over the music.. I say to my friend, "Why in God's name did some dancer start this trend of ass slapping?"
Dunno. Tacky. Never did it, the only time my ass is slapped is when I'm getting it from behind and I'm asking for a slap.