Dancing Advice/Outfit Choices
I have another question for advice. Everyone has been very helpful with my question about finding a camo outfit. My question has to do with her sister whom has started dancing. She is having problems, I guess I would say self-conscience of her small breasts. She had a child eight or nine months ago and her breasts shrunk after nursing, down to about a small 'A' cup. She is very self-conscience of this, especially working around women with larger breast, real or implants. This translates over to her having problems making money, she is embarrassed at times to go up on stage.
I have been trying hard to build up her confidence. I have tried pointing out regulars whom I know like dancers with small breasts and spend good money on them to help her out. I have told her that she is very attractive, which she is and she needs to project that on stage. I told her that I noticed when she is on stage and not thinking about her breast size she comes across as confident which gets guys up to her stage. I have said that when she acts sexy it comes across and it makes up for the breast issue. I have tried giving her tips on how to adjust her dancing, things I have noticed over the years that other dancers with small breasts do that get guys attention. I really have no idea anymore what to say or what advice to give to help her. Her outfit selection is not the greatest, she tries to wear outfits more designed for someone with larger breasts. I really don't know what type or style of outfits would be best to go with or to stay away from.
If anyone has any input or suggestions I can pass on, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you.
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i've had that problem too, with finding clothes that fit on top and on bottom..sometimes it seems the makers of these clothes expect everyone who dances to have big ol' boobies and tiny little bums!i get an outfit where the top fits and the skirt ends up looking like a belt!! i get the medium for the skirt size and the top looks like a potato sack!! woe is me! that's when you stop buying outfits and learn to mix and match... oh well. here's where the club lighting can be used to your advantage! remember, brighter glowy colors(white, neons) scream LOOK AT THIS THING WITH THE BRIGHT COLORS!!! YOU CAN READ BY THE LIGHT REFLECTED OFF THIS THING!! :dazzled: (and sometimes i did when i wore my white dress..):propeller and stuff in black virtually diskappears.. it's fun to use this to attract/detract attention from your less perfect/absolutely amazing assets.:flirt: btw, stay away from tube tops and plunging v's... smaller girls always look better with a halter-style top or scoop neck(like a t-shirt top) if she has other awesome assets(nice tummy, pretty behind, etc.) wear something that accentuates those and keep the top kinda understated so the attention is immediately drawn to the parts she feels good about! it's amazing what it does to your confidence when people point out the things that you already know are perfect! it can be double edged sword, however, if your nice part is your caboose, because if your hips are a little wide, to accentuate them will make your top look even smaller! try a simple top in a bright color...and your bottoms in a less stand-outish color, like black.. also, thicker fabrics(crochet etc.) can make you look a little bigger on top without being fake! just my :twocents: ! anyways, good luck! and trust me, contrary to popular belief, size will not make or break you! it's who you are and your'e beautiful because of it! :highfive: rock on !!!:headbange
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I need help with a theme I have to do for Valentines day Can anyone help me
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