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Domination/financial domination at clubs
I wanted to see how prevalent it was for dancers to be asked by a guy to dominate them at a strip club. I know there are lots of submissive guys out there (including me) that fantasize about a beautiful girl taking control of them. For many submissive guys, this is an opportunity to let go of everyday life and relieve stress. I have thought about next time I am at a club asking the girl I find to be the hottest and most aggressive to kind of make me her slave for the night, just while we are at the club. She could ask for money at will from me (without giving me a dance), make me pay double for a dance and then make me give her a massage instead, grab me by the shirt when she wants me to go with her, take me to the ATM when I run out of money, and generally just call the shots and be very aggressive. She could work her other customers in the meantime--just paying attention to me when she feels like it. I know it sounds a little weird--but it is my fantasy. Is this something a dancer would find weird? I don't want to ask for something that would be viewed by most dancers as creepy. And I don't want to ask for something that a dancer would have no clue about, and to whom I would have to explain every single detail of this. That would kind of take away from the fantasy of losing control if I had to tell her exactly what to do to me. Any thoughts?
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Most experienced dancers should be able to do this or direct you to someone who can. I do a fair amount of this type of stuff in the club, so I'm sure other dancers do too.
Make sure you let the dancer know exactly what you want, what's okay to do, etc. It drives me crazy when guys say they want to be dominated or they want me to be mean or whatever but they don't know/can't say what they want. If you want to be humiliated, slapped, mindfucked, etc., say so.
Lena
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Is there a dancer that wouldn't like a money slave?
Sgt Johnny, anyone?
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Where in Fl are you. WE could arrange this. I love to dominate stupid weak mean like you.(followed by evil laugh);)
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Originally Posted by devilkitty
Where in Fl are you. WE could arrange this. I love to dominate stupid weak mean like you.(followed by evil laugh);)
Lol lets jump him right. }:D
I have had these guys before in the clubs. BUT, as a dancer in a club you are limited, so the novelty may wear off pretty quick for the sub. Also the dancer will be watched (my experience) and it's not cool to look like you are throwing a guy around, alot of newbies get nervous.....But again that's their problem.
I prefer toe sucking/licking for money, and degrading you....Stuff you can't do in a club.
But yes to an extent it's do-able in the clubs.
Now i want you to send me $200 for the information.... see this is how it starts, knowledge is not free. ;D
Hey i'm a bitch....what can i say.
Pamela
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YOu Rock Pammy. You are too funny.
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We've had customers like this too. We can't do much in our club because of the rules. I just love the guy that comes in and pays you $50 to kick him in the balls or slap him.
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Originally Posted by devilkitty
YOu Rock Pammy. You are too funny.
Lol thanks hun! Anyway he is not in my neck of the woods, and i am not going to travel.....He's up for ALOT if he's not blowing air out of his ass! ;D
Pamela
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It's called money extraction! If it's allowed in the club I'll do it.
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Originally Posted by showgirlschloe
I just love the guy that comes in and pays you $50 to kick him in the balls...
Owwwww!:weeping:
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I don't know how common or uncommon it is but the dancer I have been dances from for the last year is very dominant. One time she will be rough with me, the next time all gentle and caressing. She likes to mix it up to see what stimulates me. Sometimes she will blindfold me and use sense deprovation, to see what feelings excite me. This dancer is never at a loss for customers, she has one that sees her 3 times a week. Luckily I live about an hour away and only go about once a month, or I would be morally and financially broke.
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If you guys are ever in Chicago, look me up. Most of my fantasies are about meeting guys like you!
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I'm not a submissive type guy but just out of curiosity how much of a
financial domination would this cost you do you give out the max amount first or just let her take what ever you have?
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I got whipped with a riding crop last week and it was awesome. LOL
(But not in a club.)
I think some people who are naturally dominant like that stuff because it's a
way to see how the other half lives and balance things out. Also, always
been curious how I would handle torture... wait a minute... I've been married
right? LOL
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I have a customer exactly like the initial poster. If I see him at the club, we play like that. I drag him into the champagne room for a few minutes to beat him and have him suck my toes. Management hasn't said anything as we don't take any couches or stay long.
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isn't that what most dancers try to do anyway??
just most are very good at hideing it.
dancers are sneaky
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Originally Posted by Super Cecil
isn't that what most dancers try to do anyway??
just most are very good at hideing it.
dancers are sneaky
No, not at all. This guy specifically requested me to dominate him. Most customers want to feel like they are the dominant one in control. Or perhaps its 50/50. Either way, this guy likes me to shove him and call him names and be very rude to him, etc...I can't see why he likes it but that's hit fetish not mine.........
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I love the idea of financially dominating a man. I haven't had the good fortune to have found a customer like this yet but I hope to one day. I think the only problem I might ever have with this is if the customer is requesting the domination due to some sort of obsession or emotional/mental disturbance of some kind. As long as everything is done in the spirit of good fun and stays within club rules/reasonable limits I am totally okay with people's fetishes.
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Damn, I'll start draining your account from the airport! Get you sorry ass over to Britain, bitch, I'll rip you apart!
BTW, Pam, loving the new raven-haired look with the fringe! SO different and yet incredibly glam. Lovely.
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Originally Posted by rp98765
I wanted to see how prevalent it was for dancers to be asked by a guy to dominate them at a strip club.
I dont see it as much where I am as I used to back up north. Then again, I see it more as an actual Dominatrix than from random customers at a strip club. I see very few openly submissive males at strip clubs that are seeking to be topped. A lot of them are shy.... anti-social even. They rather contact a Dominatrix privately and do a session or become a money slave. The few subbies I see at clubs usually knew that a Pro Domme worked there, or were foot guys. I dig it personally. Money slaves are one of the few types I still deal with professionally.
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I have a pain fetish. I like to be whipped (mostly), but other forms of pain are interesting too. I've had girls stomp on my feet, twist stilletto heels into my bare feet, slap me, etc. I realize it's kinda weird but I still like it.
Anyway, I've often gone to the SC to get beaten by my favorite sadistic dancers. They really seem to enjoy it too, since I pay them for a VIP dance to whip me.
There was this one dancer (who moved) who was also a dominatrix. She had a couple big bags of tools. She also had a giant steel cross with handcuffs on it. She put it up on stage and tied me up, then beat the hell out of me. She used everything she had while the whole club stopped to watch. Apparently I bled alot and we had to stop. Oh well.
She didn't charge me for that. I think she was frustrated that she couldn't get me to flinch or whimper. She was apologetic. I got some dancers prior to the beating and a few more after to show my appreciation.
Maybe my point of view is skewed, but I don't see my fetish as really being domination. Does it seem that way from the outside?
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What clubs do you work at in Chicago?
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I like to dominate so much;) I even do it on cam, with people from my site:P but I've noticed that clubs are much more strict in US than in Europe... in some clubs in US you have a lot of rules (like you can not ask double for dances!).... but I had a lot of fun in FL anyway:P !!! In the VIPs I did such as crazy things....;) One guy even ask me to talk with his boss and saying he had to skip work to come to see me at the stripbar;D , quite funny!
Anyway a lot of girls where I was working didn't like this kind of staff... they just liked ordinary things: dance-->money, dance-->money like that 10 hours no stop, never something different.
Luna
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Some dancers couldn't do it. They just don't have the personality, and frankly, most I've seen have no clue how to deal with a submissive man.
I deal with a fair amount of this as well, but it's because I'm into it and submissive types are often drawn to me. If you pick a girl who seems aggressive, dominant, confident, she'll probably be able to handle it to your satisfaction ;D This is not uncommon.