Small talk with customers
Hi Everyone,
I always make small talk with my customers so they will buy more dances from me and feel more comfortable. The only problem is they are always asking me 'what else' I do, school, other work, etc. I have made the mistake of telling people about my other job. I don't want them to get offended by saying I work at a sports bar, but then when they ask which one, I can't really say oh I can't tell you that. What should I do? Just not bring it up at all? Also my regular customers at the sports bar I work in have found out that I work in the strip club 'as a waitress' and are coming in to see me. They will have a big surprise when I am naked when they walk in. How should I deal with these situations? Just act like it is no big deal, give them dances like any other customer, and hopefully make lots of money?? I guess that is all I can do right?
Thanks for any input. ;)
Re: Small talk with customers
I would just stop telling new guys where you work. You can avoid that buy just saying you dance and go to school full time..and the any free time of yours is used for studying. Just don't tell them..you have nothing to feel bad about. You really don't want a potential stalker..no matter how sweet you think the guy is or how you might be a good judge of character..there a few freaks in the bunch. Just don't tell anyone about what you do or where you work You have nothing to feel bad about.
Re: Small talk with customers
I agree with amber, they don't need to know what else you do. Just say school full time. If they happen to walk into your other job on their own (without you telling them). Just ignore them like you don't even know them. Then they will be confused if they know you or not and where from. I do that all the time at the grocery store. As for the guys at your other job coming in to the sc, well, maybe you'll start getting better tips at the sports bar.
Re: Small talk with customers
Thanks you guys, I think the school and dancing full time is a good idea. I have had a couple guys come into the sports bar that I had given lap dances to the night before and they never said anything and neither did I. I think they didn't even realize who I was.