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Does a Guys Looks Matter ?
You know When a guy goes into a strip joint, its mainly to see you look your best, Everything that happens in the strip joint is because of your looks. Its all about you and your looks, you are prized for it, but do you women ever see it the other way around ? I wonder does looks matter do you ladies, ever at all in your life like if your about to do a lap dance, or for a One night stand, or for a date ? Is there ever a time when looks matter to you women, I remember one women friend mentioned that when she was in her teens 16 - 18 looks were the most important .
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The only thing a lap dance has in common with a date or a one night stand is that all may include some degree of nudity. The former is done for cash, the later two are, presumably, done for pleasure.
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A lap dance: No, It doesn't matter. His money is the only thing attractive there. As long as he's clean.
A one night stand: Length of his penis is the only thing that counts there.
Date: Yes, Attraction is a must.
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Looks DO matter with me. If your dressed like a scumbag.. Eww... My skin will not be touching your dirty clothes. And if you smell bad, Sorry, Im not going to want to go down to the dressing room to wash the stink off. Ya know?? If you go into public places, look nice for the ladies.
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Originally Posted by ivy44
Looks DO matter with me. If your dressed like a scumbag.. Eww... My skin will not be touching your dirty clothes. And if you smell bad, Sorry, Im not going to want to go down to the dressing room to wash the stink off. Ya know?? If you go into public places, look nice for the ladies.
I agree. You can tell when there has been some effort to look nice for the ladies, if you try but don't look like Tom Cruise that is do-able. If you are dirty and smell of sweat...Forget it.
Pamela
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Originally Posted by RoseDelight
A lap dance: No, It doesn't matter. His money is the only thing attractive there. As long as he's clean.
A one night stand: Length of his penis is the only thing that counts there.
Date: Yes, Attraction is a must.
Perfect answer.
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In a strip club atmosphere, no looks don't matter at all. As long as the man is clean and dressed nicely (no nylon sweat pants etc) I am okay with any customer. I actually approach the more homely guys first, as I'm afraid that they will be more self concious around the beautiful women.
For one night stand? I think looks are the most important, because you have nothing else to go on. I probably won't just jump in the sack with a guy that can stand to lose a few, or needs dental work, or whatever. If he is hot, he's hot, and that is good enough for a one night stand.
For a lover, a relationship, I would say that looks are important, but personality is first. If the guy has the looks of a movie star, but is an asshole, then forget it. Average Joe becomes a lot more attractive if he is a great guy who treats me with respect and has self confidence. Of course I would never date an obese person, or someone who takes no pride in his appearance at all. But that comes back to personality, and I know that someone like that would be a bad match for me anyway.
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for lap dance: be clean and smell nice. you don't need to wear a tux, but you shouldn't look and smell like you came out of my toilet.
for one night stand: i don't do that.
for date: i need to be attracted to you. with looks and personality. if ya dont have both, expect to be turned down. you may look cool, but you can treat girls like crap- this one gets you many black eyes.
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I sure hope to hell they dont matter. For my ATF I don't think so, she still spends time with me, but I also pad her pockets as best I can. I go dressed well, freshly showered and smelling nice, and wear my best attitude. I happen to be pretty shallow though. There has to be some level of physical attraction to get me interested. But that's just me, deep as a puddle. :P
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Custys: As long as hygene's good, and they're not rude, I'll dance for ya.
One nighters: She better be hot!
Dating: Looks matter, but not as much as you might think. I've never gone for the Abercrombie and Fitch model looking guy that most guys think all women want.
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I've never gone for the Abercrombie and Fitch model looking guy that most guys think all women want.
I knew I was doing something wrong...damn it.
;)
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Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
Dating: Looks matter, but not as much as you might think. I've never gone for the Abercrombie and Fitch model looking guy that most guys think all women want.
Guys don't think that. We think you go for the guy who owns Abercrombie and Fitch.
Except you, ND. You are checking out his gf for the one-night stand.
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Originally Posted by RoseDelight
A one night stand: Length of his penis is the only thing that counts there.
Aren't you oversimplifying? How about thickness, hardness, durability/stamina....?
-Ww
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What about the $10 Walmart look? And Drakkar Noir from their testing dispensers?
>>>Sad<<<
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I hate it when guys wear a lot of cologne of any sort. I'm allergic to it. :crazy:
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Originally Posted by yoda57us
The only thing a lap dance has in common with a date or a one night stand is that all may include some degree of nudity. The former is done for cash, the later two are, presumably, done for pleasure.
God that was so perfectly put.
Ever in life? Yes I do see looks, on the spectrum it's like this:
-Males in magazines
-Males in Hollywood
-Male strippers
-Boyfriend potential
-Dating
-Fuck buddy
-Friend
-Guy in the elevator
-Guy I'm giving a lap dance to
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Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
Custys: As long as hygene's good, and they're not rude, I'll dance for ya.
One nighters: She better be hot!
LOL_ I've never had a one night stand, not my thing!!!
As Far as customers go- learn to hold your breath. Sometimes they come in after work without showering.:P
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Dancer: Long hair; Auburn/Brunette ONLY, big fat boobs.
Date: Same as above.
One night stand: Heatbeart.
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I was commenting to a very hot lady friend once that I did not get asked for a dance in our local SC one night and she assured me that if you are too good looking the dancers stay away. Boy does that lady friend know how to stroke a guys ego or what. :)
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They say the clothes make the man.
A man walks into a SC where he has never been there before, how are others there to perceive him? Surely he can't walk in there bare naked?
There is a difference between Sears and Roebuck and Dries Van Noten.
But this is only the halfway point, not only looks but how he carries himself, his composure, his mannerisms. And if you can group all that into the category "looks", then I guess it does matter. It matters a lot.
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i'm not a dancer yet, but i imagine i would stay away from anyone in ripped clothes, ratty sneakers, and who appears not to have had a shower in a while, if there are other customers. why? he probably doesn't have any money, if he can't even buy clothes. also, i would probably gravitate to the more homely guys.... they tend to be much happier, in my experience, to get attention from beautiful women, and much more likely to gladly reimburse after i fawn over them. it's about the money. and if everyone knows you're a big spender? as long as you don't have a reputation for hitting the girls, or any serious issues like lack of bladder control or a tendency to ejaculate on everyone who shows you her breasts (sorry if i'm grossing people out here) then i'm gonna cheerfully give you all the lapdances i've got in me. i'm not doing this just for kicks, honey.
for a one night stand? there's no point if i'm not physically attracted to you. no matter how good in bed you are, if i have to close me eyes and imagine someone else, it's not worth it.
for a relationship? i'm probably not typical, but i don't need to be physically attracted to you at first. because in my experience, if you treat me well, acknowledge me as a lady and are gentle when i need you to be and rough when i want it, if you give me what i need, i will learn to love your face, your body. it doesn't matter what i thought at first- soon enough, the sight of you will fill me with memories of all the wonderful things you've done for me, all the thrilling carresses, all the whispered promises. it will become my desire. however, this is not to say that looks don't matter. if you don't take care of yourself, if you smell and don't bother to put on decent clothes (i.e., not sweatpants), if you slouch and scowl at everbody, or shuffle around like you think you're worthless, i'm probably gonna stay away. a face that is not trademark model sexy can always be overcome. i personally don't even mind fat men- i like the idea of a man big enough to defend me, strong enough to pick me up and carry me. and trust me, sugar, i ain't no lightweight! :) but if you present yourself poorly, i'll look for someone else. and true enough, if you wear abercrombie or polo ralph lauren, if you look like you're a snob or worse yet, a republican, you can't bet i'll stay far away. and, being a pagan, i admit, i'm wary of people with crosses who carry bibles around. i've been attacked and insulted and generally maligned by too many christians. also, some people have crazy eyes- you can look at them and see something's wrong with them, something's not connected right. some people look like they want to hurt you, and i tend to avoid them.
so yes, for all of these, looks matter. but to different degrees, and in different ways.
p.s. i don't mean to offend anyone. i don't hate christians. i have known many whom i dearly love. but i tend to be afraid- too many have hurt me, without even knowing me. if you are a good person, though, i will see it in your eyes, and be happy to befriend you.
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Looks don't matter to me, but for the good Lord's sake can you wear some sweatpants? They make nice ones, you know... Sean John, Shady, etc. Not jeans unless they are VERY worn in and even then, the zipper can catch my butt (sorry, I have a J-Lo booty). At the worst, some soft slacks. Once of my customers wears these great sweatpants and they feel so good, I love to feel them against my skin... He gets some extra good dances, cuz I'm rubbing everywhere just to feel them. LOL!
If you work a job that makes you dirty, PLEASE shower before you come to the club. My ex's uncle had a job that made his hands dirty as all get out. If he can get HIS hands and nails clean, you can grab some Lava and do the same.
Oh, the nails. Come on, now. No one said you had to get a manicure (which is sexy as hell to see-means he takes care of the little things... ;) ), but clip the damn nails.
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This thread is getting a little wierd. Not good.
FBR
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Originally Posted by MinahSky
Looks don't matter to me, but for the good Lord's sake can you wear some sweatpants?
That is SOOO ironic...
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Originally Posted by Madcap
That is SOOO ironic...
Is ironic the right word? Or is it just "woah"? :yikes:
Lol. FBR was right, this thread is getting a bit weird.