I am interested in learning to lap dance without looking like a twit. Anyone have advice beyond go with the beat and enjoy yourself?
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I am interested in learning to lap dance without looking like a twit. Anyone have advice beyond go with the beat and enjoy yourself?
PRACTICE PARACTICE PRACTICE!!!!!!!!!!111
Do it on male or female friends.. I even had a large doll I would practice on. I think ther are other threads on the perfect lap dance.
Eye contact (I don't really like this one too much.)
Slow dancing
touch neck, face, ears
whispers sweet nothings, or just breathe in ear
smile, pretend to enjoy
Don't move to fast when changing positions
and practice!
Watch other dancers when they are in the same room, don't try to comp exactly, but take note of their moves
this should help you become a great lapper!
Go to a club and watch what the girls do. Then practice. :)
My best advice is to move slowly.
New dancers often try to dance to every beat of the music and end up looking kinda jerky, so try to relax and move slowly.
Also - point your toes! never underestimate the power of a pointed toe - it makes your legs look better and your moves more graceful.
whatever you do, just relax and be yourself XXX
Thanks for the tips ladies! I have been practicing and it is building the confidence and technique, woohoo.
It's all about the eye contact for me, makes it more personal for the guy.
Ok, I am new to this too, so I am by no means an expert. However, my very first lap dance, the guy was super nice and gave me a few tips on what guys like. 1) Always keep your legs a little spread when you are dancing in front of them. 2) Move SLOWLY. 3) (Depening on what mileage is allowed) When you are dancing facing them, lean over them to where your hair brushes their face, alternate bringing your hair on and off their face. 4) When you dance facing away from them, make sure to bend a little b/c they seem to prefer the view that way...hope it helps
Go into another club and buy a lap dance.
I know alot of girls in the business and the best way to learn is to practice as m uch as you can. When ur at home just pull out a chair and practice.;)
I second this. When you really LOOK into the customer's eyes...it'll open up the wallet pretty quick. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by bigblueyes