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What do you say about the girl on stage?
When I'm on stage I feel .. how do you say.. emberassed? self concious? because sometimes I look in the crowd and if there's a girl sitting with a customer and they are both watching me on stage and talking I am afraid they are talking bad about my show.
What do you say about the performer on stage when you talk to a customer? Do you hold back your negative comments because you don't want to appear like a bitch, or do you say bad things because you don't want the customer to be interested in someone else?
What if the customer is someone you have known for a while and are being yourself with, not holding back saying mean things?
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i never say anything negative while at work no matter how bad i think the girl on stage is. That is like shooting myself in the foot!
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um why say anything bad about a dancer on stage?? if the custy is keen on her anyways,then you might as well hussle for her and get her a dance, or even a double?
even make him tip her. its always gonna be welcome, youll make yourself look good, to him and her, and theres no need to be bitchy about anyone on stage.
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I agree. I always try ot say nict hings about all the other girls. I hope they do the same for me!
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I always say something nice even if I don't know her that well.
"She's so much fun."
"She's very sweet."
"She's awesome. You should talk to her."
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If a customer would say something negative about a stage dancer, I would always reply with something positive:
Cust: She looks awkward on the pole...
Me: Hmmmm...but she has amazing floor moves...
I try to take the focus off the "imperfections" of other dancers. The better mood a customer is in, the more willing they are to part with their money. ;)
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If I am talking about the girl on stage, it is to say something like, wow her outfit is cute, love her pole tricks, she's so nice, etc. If I don't like the girl, I just won't say anything. At the club I'm at now a lot of the girls aren't so friendly to new girls and I am kind of new, so if the customer says something mean, I won't exactly defend the girl, but I will say, oh come on, that wasn't nice. In my opinion, it makes us all look like catty bitches to criticize other girls and I feel like that costs us more money in the long run than saying something nice. On another note, sometimes if you think a girl is trashing you, or staring you down when you are dancing, she may just be admiring you. :) When my friend and I worked at a club together, when we were new, there was this girl who we thought was staring us down everytime we danced, and later she told us that she was just admiring our dancing because our pole tricks were different than some she'd seen.
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I don't say anything mean either. If I don't like the girl, I just don't look at her. Why bother with the cattiness, it's not gonna make you more money to be a bitch. I wouldn't worry about other girls watching you, they probably think you are cute.
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be nice be nice be nice. or it'll bite you in the ass.
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I always say something nice about the girl on stage. If I am sitting with someone I tend to say things like, "she is an awesome dancer", "I love watching her", "I love that dress", "wow, nice butt..", "I wish I could get a dance from her"....
Then the girl will come over for a double and we both end up banking, all from my positive comments about her on stage... ;)
I agree with Venus, if they something negative, I try to point out something positive.
Also, remember that just because we are looking at you and talking, does not always mean it's about you. We could be talkking about the stage in general, about another act or we may just feel like looking in your direction during our conversation.
The point is, why would you want any of the girls to look bad, it just makes your club look bad and why would you want your customer to think you work in a shitty club? ;) You want them to think all of the girls are hot! (even if their not)
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i always say something good, always try to stay positive! even if i don't really like her very much, i never say anything bad. and if i do like her, i'll usually say 'she's a great dancer, or she's really hot, " something along those lines.
don't worry about what the girls are saying about you! just have fun!
-starr
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Yeah, I almost always say nice things. Sometimes I'll even get the custy pumped up and scream and make lots of noise for the girl. And when the girl comes around, of course I tell them to tip her and that we were talking about how much we enjoyed her show. Other times, I just ignore the custy for a moment because I'm too buy staring at the girl in awe. The other day, a guy said to me, "I can tell by the way you are looking at her that you like women." He was right.
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I never talk about other girls to ANYONE ever. i have a no drama policy.
i think everyone should have one.
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I always say nice things. I often talk about whoever is on stage with a customer just because it's something to talk about. Also, alot of the time guys like it when you talk about how a girl has a hot ass or nice boobs or whatever...because they find it attractive for girls to be into girls or whatever. Also, guys are attracted to nice girls with good attitudes (for the most part) so being bitchy doesn't make you any more money.
I know what you mean though, when I first started dancing (or even now, if I work at a new club) I often feel self concious or think girls are talking about me...especially if I hear them laugh or something.
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I said something negative about a girl onstage once, just ONCE. Well, the customer chewed me out for being catty and I felt like crap. Later, I met the girl and she was super nice and always bringing me over to customers. Boy, I felt like such an ass! Always be nice.
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I think I say way to many nice things. To a fault actually.... I need to shut up and get the customer to buy some dances....from ME...Oh well. :)
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nothing bad. usually, i tell my custy her name and that's she's sweet. i say how long she's been at my club (if she's new or been there longer than me) but nothing more. maybe get a tip from the custy and bring it up.
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I always have something nice to say if the customer asks about a girl on stage. Often, if we are sitting by the stage I will say something to the effect of "She's really hot, I think we should tip her, don't you?" this will usually get the customer to tip the girl and I know that other girls at my club have done this for me. What goes around, comes around.
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Excellent advice everyone! Remember that what you say or do is a reflection of YOU and nobody else.
If we are kind, then we'll ALL have joy (and $$$ too).
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I know what you mean that happens to me sometimes girls break sit with customers and you see them looking back and forth and it does make you think. I usually just smile at them lol. Or how about a girl sitting on a customers lap next to you when your lap dancing and the dancer and customer look at you and the girl turns her back that makes you wonder to. In essence some are just jelous you have to have thick skin in this industry im learning.
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I don't really mind customers and dancers discussing me when I am on stage, but I do mind that they look right at me and I can read their lips!
Okay, now I know I have nice tits, but my thighs are a little big >:(
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I could give a rat's *ss about what anyone says about me,ever.
I could give a rat's *ss about the girl on stage also.
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Kill them with kindness! It ALWAYS pays to stay positive!!!
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At my club you can get in big trouble by not only other girls and customers, but also management. Try to be nice to everyone, it'll help you out in the long run.
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I tell customers a particular girl on stage is beautiful, sexy, has a great body. It sounds weird but I pay other girls so much compliments they would think I was gay, but the guys love it, they appreciate that I can find something wonderful instead of being catty. Im also hoping that by paying all teh girls compliments it will get instilled into the guys head that our club has the best looking girls and come back.