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Oh i have a new way of making more tips ha, ha, ;D today i wasn't in a good mood (period :-\ ) my customer asked we what's wrong with me.. and why i looked so sad. i told him that i didn't go for shopping 3 months ;) He ask me "Why don't you have free time?" "NO, no I DON"T HAVE MONEY!!!" "And if i do not have new dance clothes i can't feel happy and pretty" :'( "come on he told me you are pretty in everything you wear" "Maybe... but it is just ~my feeling~ and you men don't understand that! "Yeah right" he said "it must be a womens problem" i smiled and say Yes... he gave me 100 Euro tips and told me "hope you can find something for this" i give him a bigger smile and said "god bless you"
2 hours later with another customer, i went for some dances... he asked me if i could give my number to him... oh i said i love to keep in contact with you but my dog eat my phone... it is broken now :'( and i can't afford to buy a new one right now... can you believe that he gave me his phone a brand new one nokia 7610
http://www.nokiausa.com/images/phn/6...h_7610_sml.gif oh i love this mobile phone;D
So girls pretent to be poor....sad..on-lucky. After a gift smile show you are very VERY happy!!! customer love to make womens happy ;)
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Alot of guys don't want to hear about your problems and most likely unless they are regulars wont spend money on you if you sit around and bitch about anything . Glad it work for you though hun , stick with tthe formula
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I agree with bostondancer... and usually, the guys won't believe ya anyway. But if it works, hey, I can't say anything! :-)
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i wish that would work for me !
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Hmmm you may have had a good night. I don't see this working much. They are giving presents. Wont they expect something from you for these presents, say a free dance or date. You accepted a guys personal phone. He just handed you his own phone? That is odd......
But more power to you!!!!
Pamela
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i have to act like i'm throwing money away to get dances. they usually only want to spend money with a girl that doesn't need it.
but with that cute little accent i'm about to buy you a phone too!
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You know, if whining would get me a few grand from a guy I might consider it, but for $100 and a phone, ehh, what's the point? I would hate to work somewhere where this was the standard accepted hustle.
But hey, if it works for you and you're in an area where manipulation like this is the norm, then what the hell.
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yea. it might give you $$ now, but they may rethink you being their ATF :(
IMO, not worth it longterm...
But glad it worked for you a little.
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haha.. i think its funny :)
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Make sure the phone doesn't have GPS.
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Sorry Naomi, but I don't think what you did is a very good idea. It might have worked for you this time, but you're going to turn more guys off with that strategy than anything. Guys come to clubs to relax and have a good time, not to hear complaining about having no money. I know a couple of dancers who bitch about being broke to custys all the time and the custys hate it.
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btw,Your dog ate your phone? is that like your dog eating your homework?
lmao
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If you do it funny, it's all good. If you are actually trying to sell them a sob story.... well, hey, whatever works for you.
Try this one:
"Do you think I look fat?"
"No."
"Okay. Do you want to buy me a drink?
"No.."
"It's because I'm fat, isn't it?"
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Originally Posted by naomisantos77
Oh i have a new way of making more tips ha, ha, ;D today i wasn't in a good mood (period :-\ ) my customer asked we what's wrong with me.. and why i looked so sad. i told him that i didn't go for shopping 3 months ;) He ask me "Why don't you have free time?" "NO, no I DON"T HAVE MONEY!!!" "And if i do not have new dance clothes i can't feel happy and pretty" :'( "come on he told me you are pretty in everything you wear" "Maybe... but it is just ~my feeling~ and you
men don't understand that! "Yeah right" he said "it must be a womens problem" i smiled and say Yes... he gave me 100 Euro tips and told me "hope you can find something for this" i give him a bigger smile and said "god bless you"
2 hours later with another customer, i went for some dances... he asked me if i could give my number to him... oh i said i love to keep in contact with you but my dog eat my phone... it is broken now :'( and i can't afford to buy a new one right now... can you believe that he gave me his phone a brand new one nokia 7610
http://www.nokiausa.com/images/phn/6...h_7610_sml.gif oh i love this mobile phone;D
So girls pretent to be poor....sad..on-lucky. After a gift smile show you are very VERY happy!!! customer love to make womens happy ;)
UGGGG....I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude, but I hate it when girls use their problems to make money...its SOOO tacky!! Real or not!! It makes the rest of us look really bad. I personally don't want anybody to know that I'm so poor I can't afford a phone! And no they don't want to hear about your kids and how you can't feed them either, and how your boyfriend beat you and have nowhere to live, yep I've heard that one too...I've heard it all. YUK!
And the comment that a girl has to act like they are spending it, so the client will spend more, because they know how much money they make....I NEVER tell a guy, even my good regulars how much money I make!! Not even the girls!! This is no ones business. If they don't know, they won't think about it!!
Playing on guys to make them feel pity is NOT what this business is about...they are looking for a good time and not be manipulated into feeling sorry for someone cause of her sob story!!! Leave your problems at the door and forget them while you are at work, believe me, you'll make more $$ that way. I'm not trying to be mean, but I've seen this happen a lot at work and it gets on my nerves.
If you can't make money on your pretty smile, and personality alone then maybe its time to change your routine.....:D
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Originally Posted by Jenny
If you do it funny, it's all good. If you are actually trying to sell them a sob story.... well, hey, whatever works for you.
Try this one:
"Do you think I look fat?"
"No."
"Okay. Do you want to buy me a drink?
"No.."
"It's because I'm fat, isn't it?"
OMG... I LOVE this... may work for lapdances too if you do it with a fake bottom lip pout and then smile...
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Originally Posted by Jenny
If you do it funny, it's all good. If you are actually trying to sell them a sob story.... well, hey, whatever works for you.
Try this one:
"Do you think I look fat?"
"No."
"Okay. Do you want to buy me a drink?
"No.."
"It's because I'm fat, isn't it?"
omg i do that one all the time. really!
if ive been talking to a guy for awhile and am on joking friendly terms, ill ask for a dance, if he refuses, i go "its cos im fat isnt it...oyu think im fat omg i cant believe you just called me fat !!!" lol and im laughing at the same time, then usually the guy freaks out starts laughing and goes ok ill take you for a dance... blah blah haha
its funny cos im like a stick, if i really was fat...well... dunno if it would be funny as such...
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Originally Posted by Jenny
If you do it funny, it's all good. If you are actually trying to sell them a sob story.... well, hey, whatever works for you.
Try this one:
"Do you think I look fat?"
"No."
"Okay. Do you want to buy me a drink?
"No.."
"It's because I'm fat, isn't it?"
I've seen this work before for a few hot girls. But I wouldn't want to use it as an MO. I also sold dances to a guy last week because he was annoying and I was a total bitch to him, and he "likes bitchy girls."
When I'm in a crap ass mood and can't deal with being nice to save my life, I might sit at the bar with my face in a cocktail trying hard to get over it. Invariably, some guy will come up and try to save me from myself.
Last time this happened, in Jacksonville, this guy gave me his Rolex, and left! I still need to get that sucker appraised, LOL!
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omg katrine!! a rolex??!
was he from texas? i thought texans were a bit..uhh cheap..?
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This was in Jacksonville, so the guy was from Florida. Texans aren't cheap, what made you think that? Rich Texans LOVE to flaunt their money. You should go to Dallas sometime, they wear mink cowboy hats and diamon encrusted platimum belt buckles, lol!
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heh your kidding!?! i just thought it a strange place...cheap cowboys etc and really conservative cos of the bush state thing...hmmm
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Originally Posted by LovelyLaura
UGGGG....I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude, but I hate it when girls use their problems to make money...its SOOO tacky!! Real or not!! It makes the rest of us look really bad. I personally don't want anybody to know that I'm so poor I can't afford a phone! And no they don't want to hear about your kids and how you can't feed them either, and how your boyfriend beat you and have nowhere to live, yep I've heard that one too...I've heard it all. YUK!
And the comment that a girl has to act like they are spending it, so the client will spend more, because they know how much money they make....I NEVER tell a guy, even my good regulars how much money I make!! Not even the girls!! This is no ones business. If they don't know, they won't think about it!!
Playing on guys to make them feel pity is NOT what this business is about...they are looking for a good time and not be manipulated into feeling sorry for someone cause of her sob story!!! Leave your problems at the door and forget them while you are at work, believe me, you'll make more $$ that way. I'm not trying to be mean, but I've seen this happen a lot at work and it gets on my nerves.
If you can't make money on your pretty smile, and personality alone then maybe its time to change your routine.....:D
I understand what you are saying here - really. But something to keep in mind - we are not after the guy's good opinion. We are after his money. Colour me selfish, but I could care less about the likelihood that he will spend money on some other girl later on - I just want mine, now. I knew a girl who bugged the hell out of me - essentially guys would give her money to make her go away. It made her hell to work with and I hated her guts. But she made a lot of money being annoying as all fuck, and she didn't care, even the slightest bit, about my opinion of her. And, in the end, (now that I no longer have to see her) I can't argue with that - she doesn't care what the guy thinks of her, as long as he pays.
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lo, jenny. I knew a girl who did the same thing, guys would pay her to leave. She was nice to me, but then I didn't have to sit with her.
As for the pity party, I hate it only because I have to deal with it later on. It makes me really annoyed to have a guy tell me all about how poorly another dancer is doing. I once had a guy tell me why he gave another girl most of his money and then he turns to me and says,"Well, you don't have to worry about that because you're indepently wealthy, right?" I think I just stared at him for a few minutes. I wanted to say that I was dancing for my health, but I knew he would take it as a bitchy thing to say. But, damn! I don't know where he got that idea, but I guess since I don't complain about my life he must ihink it's perfect (I've known him for a year.)
I guess dancers can do whatever they want when they want.. It's just when they get caught in a lie that I worry about them. I've customers tell me certain things that dancers told them that were outright lies and I had to keep a straight face so they wouldn't know the truth (it's none of my business to disillusion them.)
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Texas is the strip club capital of the US mermaidz. We invented the "lapdance". Conservatism breeds sexual repression which creates strip clubs for guys to go to in order to loosen up.
Cowboys aren't cheap, not the ones with money. The ones who work on a ranch might be poor, but that's different. The cities are like any big city....
Aaaaaah, young grasshopper, I have much to teach you about how badass Russian Texans are when I come down there. teeeheeeheeee. <eeexcellent>