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just when I thought I experienced it all........
After being in the bizz for almost 8 years now I thought I have pretty much experienced almost every low down thing certain assholes can dish out in the clubs but guess what.......WRONG!!!!!!
This happened yesterday (Monday) I was gonna post about it but needed sometime to cool down.
So anyways here is the story......
It was a very very slow day I had planned on leaving work at 5pm (i only work day shift and like to be out before the night BS starts) so..... back to the story....it gets to be 4:30 and I am dying to go home since I have been bored off my ass all day when out of nowhere it picks up. I decide to stay and extra hour or so to finally make some money which I was doing without even trying.:hyper: My last set of the day was done with and I figured I would give it one last walk about the club for any last dances and a few money bucks before I called it a day. When I was called over to the front row of the main stage by 2 guys (who were just sitting there not tipping anyone grrrrrrr i hate that...:mad:) but figured maybe they just wanted private dances and wanted to have a close up view before they picked someone. They were way cool....AT FIRST. They start telling me how they live on one of the reservations out here (which is interesting to me ..I am very intriged by the American Indians and their beliefs) any who he goes on to tell me that him and his friend are only at the club that night for one reason. Then says they are only there to steal the dancers money and starts grabbing MY money right out of my hand!! After a stuggle with me he finally gets it out of my hand and puts it in his pocket!!!!!!!!!!!!!:shocking:
Now I know what some are saying...why were you holding all your money? Well I usually don't but I was wearing a new pair of shoes that doesn't have straps which is usually where I tie my money around) So I was just holding it that day...
So this moron now has MY MONEY in HIS POCKET... I think I grabbed him by the ponytail (not sure it happened really fast) but I kneed him in the crotch so freaking hard and while he grabbed his nuts I reached into his pocket and took my cash back! He then showed even more "balls" by hobbling upto one of the bouncers telling him I ROBBED HIM while I went to the head bouncers and told him what happened.
Needless to say I have been in the bizz for a while and go to work, make my money and go home ..I never get caught in the drama so he knew I was telling the truth. When me and the head bouncer went to the door, since the asshole was getting tossed to confront him...the asshole was still trying to say it was me not him. No one believed him and he is banned forever.:finger:
So just when you think you have seen it all girls .... you can still be surprised. And take a lesson from me..... NEVER EVER HOLD YOUR MONEY IN YOUR HANDS!!!!!!!!!
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Re: just when I thought I experienced it all........
wow! I'm glad to hear you got your money back. What a fucker!
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Damn girl....Good for sticking up for yourself...he deserved alot more than a knee in the crocth but suited the situation nicely....see him again stiletto to the crotch. I hope he walks crooked for weeks!!
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Ya know how you always think of the right things to say or the right things to do after the fact... well while we were at the door the head bouncer made him take all his money out of his pockets to be sure I had gotten all my money back.... I fold mine a certain way so I knew he didn't have any more of it. The head bouncer kept asking me.... you sure you have it all? You SURE? Dea are you positive? lol he came up to me before I left saying he wanted me to say no all that is mine so he could have givin me everything he had in his pocket to teach him a lesson.... The guy had about 150.00 left on him..... But I was so mad I was shaking and well.... not thinking I guess. Damn that would have made it up to me alittle bit.
Oh well :-\.
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Good bouncer ...I cant believe that guy wasnt tipping and STILL had 150 in his pocket @sshole!! hmmm 150 would have been nice for having to deal with that guys crap.
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was the 150 some other poor girls money....
that is one nutzy story - wow
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he came up to me before I left saying he wanted me to say no all that is mine so he could have givin me everything he had in his pocket to teach him a lesson
But that would have made you no better than him, D, and we all know you have more integrity than that--that's why you didn't have to think about it.
:)
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Well good for you for being honest about what was and was not your money. That shows alot of character strength considering the situation. I'm proud of you girl ! And I hope that guys balls are sore for a week !
If I may suggest asking management to call the other clubs in your area and give them the heads up on these guys. It might save someone else from dealing with such bullshit.
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Well the club I am working is one of 3 sister clubs in the area and I know the keep heads up between themselves. As far as the other clubs in the valley well there are aprx. 30 others I highly doubt they will get in touch with them all....I know back home in Ct we used to keep all the clubs awear of what was going on as far as bad customers, liquor comiss. going around and the like. It was actually nice to know we were all together in the bizz and looking out for each other.
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Wow! I've dealt with some real a**holes but that takes the cake!! Good for you that you got it back and didn't take what wasn't yours. Karma will come back and bite you in the butt every time. He'll get his, eventually.
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Crapomoly! I'm really glad I've gotten into the habit of strapping money into garter, instread of the ol' pocketbook. Eek! What a fucker. And yeah, I'll bet you anything that $150 was bits and pieces of other girls money, they've been enough when I haven't strapped the money [via rubberband] in my garter to notice it all gone by the time I get to the dressing room. >.<
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Sorry to hear that............I almost cant believe it. I never hold my money in my hand, I have a very small, fancy purse I carry. What assholes............but please be careful they might come back and retaliate after being bounced out.
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If I was at any other club I might worry about them coming back... but at this place not at all. We have at all times at least 2 parking lot guys and our door man actually stands outside the door. Granted they can always watch from across the street or in the next parkinglot but I am not too worried about them coming back. Anyway I ALWAYS watch when I leave to be sure no one is following me ever since someone followed me home for almost an hour before he got bored and turned off.... funny you can never find a cop when you need one.
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Wow, what a dick! I've definitely had my share of asshole customers, but I've never had that happen before. I'm glad you were able to get your money back, and that shows a lot of honesty on your part that you didn't take the money that wasn't yours. A lot of dancers would've said that all the money was theirs. :)
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Originally Posted by Deanna
No one believed him and he is banned forever.:finger:
LOL....... yes!!! haha, the perfect gesture!
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I've always been afraid of someone stealing my money, even though I keep it in a purse. I've seen a lot of girls carry it in their hands, keeping it together with a rubber band. No one has actually ever tried it, though.
I can't believe that guy! I'm sorry that you had to deal with that. I agree with everyone else, this guy is the ballsy-est (sp?) cust I've ever heard of. Especially now that they will be swollen from your knee to his crotch! :crazy: Bastard! Sounds like you def know how to take care of yourself.:fight:
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Jesus. I'm glad you're okay, you got your money back and the club had the guts to do the right thing and back you up.
That jerk is more than an asshole; he's a criminal! He committed a criminal act considered more serious than simple stealing where I live. It's usually charged as strong-armed robbery (no weapon, but the money is taken by force). I don't make that point to suggest you should have pressed charges in this case, but merely to say, hey, this is serious, felony-level behavior you're dealing with! So kudos to you. The guy should thank the stars in heaven that your knee of justice and being banned was all he got.
-Ev
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Way to go DEA!!!!!!! It's about time us girl stick it to the guys who abuse us! I just wish I could get away with that at my club.
Anyway congrats on getting yuor money back. And if something like that happens again, take ALL the money and split it between all the girls there. Who knows he might have stolen some of theirs too.
Kitana
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LOL. I'm getting off on the fact that you kneed his dumb ass in the balls!!! HAAAAAAAA! That is hilarious. I'll bet he thinks twice before doing that again. Good girl for standing up for yourself.
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I can't believe that this kind of thing could even happen anymore. Glad you nutted him!!
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Isn't there a video game out there where the player is encouraged to use the services of a prostitute and then steal all of her money? Grand Theft Auto?
I have known girls whose purses have been stolen while doing dances (by both other girls and customers), and have had money grabbed off the stage, but I have never heard of a girl having her money grabbed right out of her hand!!
Good for you, and good for your club for standing behind you!
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Originally Posted by Casual Observer
But that would have made you no better than him, D, and we all know you have more integrity than that--that's why you didn't have to think about it.
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I'm sorry, I dont know if this makes me bad, but I wouldve taken the suckers money. He had (past tense) the balls to try and take yours. I wouldve given him a taste of his own medicine, then I wouldve split it with the bouncer! 75/75
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Ya know when we worked together nothing cool like that ever happened......I would have loved to have been one of the bouncers on that shift..:headbange
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Blade, if you had been there you'd probably have to give him your "Nobody Knows I'm A Lesbian" t-shirt, cuz he'd never have conventional sex again :)
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Omigod, bad bad karma for them!! You are a hell of a brave girl to get your $$$ back in that way! Kickass ;)