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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
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Originally Posted by bostondancer
Yeah so I just wanted to say that I think this thread is pretty disgusting . I think its things like this that are ruining our industry . How about this , if your getting off doing a dance your NOT doing a dance you are being dirty and your making it hard for the rest of us to be respected etc . I enjoy entertaining people as a exotic dancer / stripper / showgirl but the decline in the quality of our industry isn't a joke soon we will not be any different than escorts or porn stars ( not that I have anything wrong with those jobs ) . I was glad to see that most of you who wrote in did not agree with the thread though . Ok I vented and I don't care if I offened anyone by this post either .
Sorry but what you wrote here is very silly
So because i came ones.... it means that i am being dirty?
No way lady i am just honnest what's happend to me and i know for sure that many dancers pretent to be a "good girl" and they are defaintly NOT!
I am dancing for 5 years now, have seen a lott of dancers if i compare them with me then i would be like a virgin !
discusting threat? why it took your atention in the first place to read this threat ? So you are a "good girl" with a dirty mind? :P
In the club i work i can't take of my string they can't touch me and i can't touch them so i think it is not dirty at all
there are many full striptease clubs where dancers sitting on the lap that's dirty.... because, you can get a lot of bacteria. Or another threat here on strippersweb about the 'Finger Fucking" yeah that's dirty.
But when i dance NOBODY touch my pussy or ass and lik my body or kisses me every where!
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
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Originally Posted by screaminpeachez
once!...... i was under the influence, the guy was pretty hot and he had a great personality.
i was dancing sitting on his knee. didn't take much stimulation. I was a little embarrassed but, i am not sure that he noticed
i just played it off as part of the act.
luckily I'm not too slippery when wet!!!
Also my customer didn't noticed, i didn't get wet or slippery of course not!
it was.... my mind, the stimulation while i was dancing and probadly because i was alone.... didn't had a boyfriend and no sex for months. And this guy was my type a very handsome guy (many greek men are hot and very sexy) ;)
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
I have to put my two cents in here. I am embarassed to admit that I once had an orgasm from a lap dance, but here's an explanation for you guys who think this thread is dirty. We all know that some women get vaginal orgasms, like from sex or being fingered, and some women get orgasms more from having their clit stimulated. When I first started giving lap dances I felt nervous about changing positions, so I would mostly sit facing them and grind. Once I was giving a dance to a guy that got really hard, and I was grinding on him a certain way where my clit was being stimulated...I felt myself getting *physically* turned on (my body started responding to the situation while my mind is saying wow this is relaly gross) I went to change positions and the guy was like, no baby can you just stay right where you are, it feels good right there, so I did, and a little bit later I came. I was grossed out by the whole thing and feel the need to point out to the other girls who think this thread is dirty that it was a physical reaction to physical stimuli, not that I was mentally or turned on by the specific guy I was danicng for.
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
I've never had an orgasm at work.
But, I have a regular who turns me on. If I were not involved with someone else and I would not loose the income he provides or screw up the work dynamic, I would definitely ask him out.
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I get wet from dancing just because waving my crotch in a guy's face makes me think about sex and with hot music playing, I can't help it. I didn't get into the business for that sort of gratification but it just comes with the job. They're there to watch you so they can imagine having sex with you. You're basically committing a type of foreplay, breathing on them, "look but don't touch", rubbing your ass in their crotch etc. all things that elicit the same response when you're actually having sex. If I didn't get turned on or at least slightly stimulated by seeing a guy's hardness through his pants in response to my naked body, or seeing his face that close to my cookie, I'd think something was wrong with me. Then again, I just started--I may develop a tolerance of it eventually.
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
I have, on occasion, when in a club where grinding is the norm. It never even occurred to me that I should quit because of it, and I'm reasonably sure that I am not affecting anyone else in the club . Whether or not it is dirty - maybe, depending on your definition of dirty. I actually think that some of you who are getting so worked up should maybe really examine why - it's obviously a hotspot, and why it would upset you so much that some women are having natural biological reactions and possibly (gasp) enjoying themselves while they work.
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
At the risk of intruding where I'm not wanted, I've talked to one or more dancers who have had one or more orgasms. Good money maker(s), devoted to SO, enjoyed the job, and got caught up in the moment(s). Kept working happily, making good money, and I didn't think any less or more of her/them for the information. Life and work still go on.
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No. The turn on was not there. I started ld's because i pretty much had too. I was a stage dancer, and would have remained so if the demand for dancers was not mainly on the floor and in VIP.
But no....I could not get the feel for it, it was about money, and the hustle..The hunt and catch, not the ld, and i was a friction dancer...Still did not get wet. It's not the same to me as in the bedroom.
Pamela
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
I guess I should (from the responses here) hang up my plats and retire then.
I have had a few O's in my day at work from LD's. I am a very sensual person by nature anyway and I can and frequesntly do orgasm in my sleep without any stimulation at all.
So if being aroused during direct stimulation form a grinding LD is dirty then I am a dirty bitch then. Even though I have NEVER been fingered, fucked, sucked, or blown. And I have NEVER given HJ's, BJ's, oral, anal, or vaginal to any custy.
And another point; if being slightly turned on during a LD is bad, then what does getting off during your sleep mean?
Kitana
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
I don't think there is anything wrong with a dancer occasionally having an orgasm while dancing. If she was specifically trying to do that on a regular basis, there would be reason for concern. I also don't think you can blame a customer for coming during a dance, I don't think it's any worse than the dancer doing the same thing. Big whoop, people come sometimes.
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
like i posted earlier, i have occasional spontaneous orgasms. that means i orgasm without touching myself, at random intervals. that includes at work. it may even be a little more likely to happen at work due to the sexual energy of the environment. i don't see how something i can't prevent (because i can't even predict it!) makes me a dirty dancer. honestly, given all the free-floating sexual energy in many club environments, i'm surprised a lot more women don't orgasm just incidentally.
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
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Originally Posted by Starfire
I have to put my two cents in here. I am embarassed to admit that I once had an orgasm from a lap dance, but here's an explanation for you guys who think this thread is dirty. We all know that some women get vaginal orgasms, like from sex or being fingered, and some women get orgasms more from having their clit stimulated.....
Exactly ;) Starfire
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
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Originally Posted by kitana
I guess I should (from the responses here) hang up my plats and retire then.
I have had a few O's in my day at work from LD's. I am a very sensual person by nature anyway and I can and frequesntly do orgasm in my sleep without any stimulation at all.
So if being aroused during direct stimulation form a grinding LD is dirty then I am a dirty bitch then. Even though I have NEVER been fingered, fucked, sucked, or blown. And I have NEVER given HJ's, BJ's, oral, anal, or vaginal to any custy.
And another point; if being slightly turned on during a LD is bad, then what does getting off during your sleep mean?
Kitana
;D ha ha Kitana "i am a dirty bitch then" ....so do i ;)
sorry but i think we have a extra gift from god ;) i know some womens who don't even know how a orgasm feels? :O about the orgasm in your sleep i had the same it happend twice.... shout it be the invisable man who was playing with us:P
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
it's a human thing! Sometimes you can't control your feelings even if you want to.
It has nothing to do with being dirty and it is defaintly not discusting!
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No. The only man that is turning me on to that point is my man that's at home when I'm at work. If I get turned on at work I let it all come out (no pun intended..lol) when I get home.
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1. I am NOT a "dirty girl" at work.
2. If having orgasms is doing something "dirty" then around 95% of the population is wrong for it then.
3. I think you need to re-evaluate your standing. Most people DON'T have to orgasm to enjoy their jobs; but how many of them are having an interoffice affair?
4. Why should you control yourself? Having an orgasm to me is no different than farting or having to pee. It's a NATURAL bodily function that happens.
I am in total and complete LOVE with my hubby, but when I am at work if I dance for a guy (more than 3 or 4 songs) and we both feel a sexual connection yes I MIGHT have an orgasm. That's not to say I always do, I MIGHT. Again; what wrong with that?
5. I am sure people think about other things; but you have to come to terms with the reality that YES YOU WORK IN THE ADULT/SEX INDUSTRY. It's natural to talk about it.
Kitana
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
I haven't had an orgasm or even come remotely close to being turned on; then again, no one ever comes near my cookie (nor would I want anyone to). I know some girls who love giving dances because it gets them off as well - I say more power to them. It's just work to me - it can be fun sometimes, but not in a "turn-me-on" sorta way.
Well, I guess I did get turned on giving my boyfriend a lap dance, but that's another story :D
If there is a level of contact that is so close that dancers and customers are having orgasms THRU CONTACT then, yes, it does change the focus of the club's atmosphere making it more difficult for lower-contact girls to make money. However, some people can cum just from THINKING about sex (I have sleep orgasms all the time) so if the act of being sexy and naked makes one cum, then it doesn't mean that they are "dirty".
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I wish I could be a person who gets orgasms just by thinking about sex!! I do get turned on by my job and I get all tingly a lot, but no orgasms yet. I work in a low to no contact club (grinding only). Really, I just use my muscles a lot while dancing and that gets me going. I make a lot more money when I'm turned on than when I'm not. Guys can sense it or something.
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"However, some people can cum just from THINKING about sex (I have sleep orgasms all the time) so if the act of being sexy and naked makes one cum, then it doesn't mean that they are "dirty"."
I think Amethyst hit the nail on the head.
if a dancer has an orgasm at work it doesn't mean that it is what she set out to do.
you don't have to be directly stimulating your clitoris to have an orgasm.
some women are more sensitive than others.
if your mind is in the right place, very little has to be done for it to be achieved.
i can see why one might be defensive about this topic.
it shocked me a little at first too.
but after thinking about it...
i had to agree that it can (and has) happened under Normal dancing circumstances.
i don't work at friction clubs and it has happened to me.
and i'm glad that i could participate in a thread like this;
so i could think more about my experience and understand why it happened.
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Oh sweet Naomi :hug: I can't believe this happened to you! how? Why you never told me? :hyper:
To all of you, i worked with Naomi (last summer) and believe me, she is a very VERY sweet girl
Nothing to worry about she is not that kind of dancer who does more that allowed. When i saw her threat i couldn't believe it was Naomi who asking this i thought she would be to shy for that.
i can understand her, it happened also to me, so what?
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Re: did you ever finished/come while you where dancing?
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Originally Posted by Jenny
I have, on occasion, when in a club where grinding is the norm. It never even occurred to me that I should quit because of it, and I'm reasonably sure that I am not affecting anyone else in the club . Whether or not it is dirty - maybe, depending on your definition of dirty. I actually think that some of you who are getting so worked up should maybe really examine why - it's obviously a hotspot, and why it would upset you so much that some women are having natural biological reactions and possibly (gasp) enjoying themselves while they work.
same for me, it had nothing to do with the guy and i never told him. it had everything to do with the rubbing on my pierceing. i can come pretty easy and right before my period forget it!
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To each her own!!! If it happens oh well, what can you do. I dont think I can, maybe its just me, but perverted old men just dont cut it!
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does that make you more money when you orgasm?
Amar
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Originally Posted by amarantha_lorelei
does that make you more money when you orgasm?
Amar
No.If you think you have to orgasm to make money in this business,you have the wrong idea about it.