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what to talk about
Hey Everyone!
Please help me, I'm what alot of dancers(at my club) call a "hustler", I go up to a guy introduce myself, ask him where he is from, if he has been here before and then i ask for a dance, usually less then 30 seconds, (and more then half the time i get a dance from them) but I work at a little club and sometimes we get slow, and I never know what to say to a customer to keep him intrested and wanting more dances. and lots of times when I sit w/ a customer during slow hours, we have awkward silences and I never know what to say, please help me.
thanks,
Christina
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Re: what to talk about
All you need to do is have a whole array of questions which are open ended (allow him to talk and you receive more than a yes/no answer from). Pick a topic that you know alot of people will know about if you do not know what to speak about with him/her/them: favourite movies, television shows, previous experiences in strip clubs, her/his/their holiday, current news stories etc.
This is the 'art' of small talk.
There should be other threads on this board in relation to small talk -- just spend some time searching and reading.
During the slow time, I refuse to sit longer than 3-4 songs with someone without them buying a dance. Therefore, after this time has elapsed I will usually get up and leave: go to the bathroom, go to the dressing room to "spruce" myself up, go to the bar for a drink, etc.
;D
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Re: what to talk about
Research astrological signs, those are usually good conversation starters, also keep up with your local sports teams, (the players, how they are doing etc.) most men love to talk about sports. Music is also a great topic.
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Re: what to talk about
I always found that getting the customers to talk about themselves was good. Ask them what they do for a living what there hobbies are and just act like that is MOST INETERESTING thing you EVER heard. they love that shit.. you know how they are!!! LOL. I agree with the australian girl... don't sit there more than 3-4 songs without another dance or some money thrown your way. Good luck!!!